Steelcan wrote...
He puts those options in there because they are more preferable to the reapers than destroy is
The Catalyst doesn't really care. All it wants is a solution to the problem that it's been trying to solve. Basically, after we hand over the Crucible to the Catalyst, it analyzed it and concluded the device could be used to solve its problem. It doesn't care how the problem is solved, to the point where it doesn't care about its own survival. That's why it presents all three options as they are. The only way you can "anger" the Catalyst is by refusing to solve its problem.
in other words, Shepard basically ends up face to face with the enemy he/she had been trying to defeat, but it's only then that the big picture becomes clear and it becomes obvious how futile Shepard's (and therefore the player's) actions were. The Catalyst simply doesn't care about Shepard's ideals or motivations, as should be clear from the dialogue Shepard has with it. Shepard cannnot reason with the Catalyst and has no way of stopping it, it's in complete control. By giving them the Crucible, Shepard actually
helped the Reapers. They're not interested in victory, as it wasn't even a war for them. They were simply interested in fulfilling the objective the Leviathans gave to the Catalyst. And they succeed in all of the endings.
I'm not sure why some people fool themselves into thinking the Catalyst didn't want Shepard to pick Destroy, and therefore see it as a "victory" to them. If the Catalyst didn't think it was a solution to its problem, then it wouldn't have presented the solution in the first place. The only way Shepard could defeat the Reapers is by refusing to acknowledge the problem that the Reapers try to solve. But the game denies that victory. Trying to choose that ending destroys everything you fought to protect, and simply means a future cycle will do what you didn't and help the Catalyst. For what reason? I don't know nor do I care about the reasons the writers had to end the game like this. It's a cruel, hopeless and meaningless ending.