@Optimystic_X
I completely agree with you, so much so. It's not so much a "Reaper problem" as a "player problem." What Mass Effect did is it invited people to rise above their trivialities and think outside of the box. Most didn't, most just saw 'monsters' and hit the destroy button, and they left it at that. On the other hand, I was curious as to why the Reapers did what they did, and actually bothering to listen to the Catalyst I learned that the Reapers were just slaves.
In that moment, I felt sorry for them. But not everyone is so willing to listen, some are wilfully oblivious and have very selective hearing. So they encountered the Catalyst and met it with such hate that they didn't care what it had to say -- the Reaeprs were and are monsters and that is that, that's final! That's incredibly disappointing to me.
Why is it disappointing? Curiosity has a direct correlation with intelligence. This has been proved time and again -- one such instance is that whilst we can teach various simians to use sign language to answer a question, they have never asked one. The ability to ask a question is innately human. The ability to be curious is what makes us what we are, and when you stop being curious, you effectively stop being human. You give yourself over to more primal ways of thinking -- in this case, that anyone opposing you is a monster, and that's final. No questions asked.
No questions asked.
That's why it's disappointing: No questions asked. The OP doesn't want to ask questions about himself, the Reapers, or anything else. He doesn't want to stop to evaluate his thinking, he just wants to trust primal instinct. That's fine, but it's disappointing. I wanted to know about the Reapers -- yes, they were our foes, but I still wanted to understand what made them tick, why they were like they were. So I asked questions, and I listened. I am a very human person.
The answers to my questions all directly confirmed that the Reapers were once civilisations that had gone through mind and body rape thanks to the Catalyst, who were then enslaved and forced to do terrible things. Knowing that, how can you not feel sympathy? But the problem is is that some people will wilfully not know, they'll be selective, and they'll choose to not be curious at all because defying curiosity bolsters whatever primal, animal fears they have.
You can ask the Catalyst about the nature of the Reapers.
So to those who see the Reapers as being abominations -- why didn't you ask? Or if you did, why weren't you listening?