CDR David Shepard wrote...
Tootles FTW wrote...
CDR David Shepard wrote...
Haha...well that's just a bad analogy...
...we're talking about weeks and weeks (years if you played ME1 when it first came out) of arguably amazing sex...followed by what you describe as a "donkey punch" on the final night.
Seriously though...I can see your point...and granted...I loved the series...endings and all...
...but I think the journey alone is and should be worth the "several hundred dollars" the person spends on the series. (though I only bought the three games myself)
And I so rarely get to use "donkey punch" in an analogy. 
My point, wrapped in snark, was that the ending to ME3 (and I'm talking pre-EC) was so awful that it retroactively ruined the entire series. It made all of Shepard's efforts moot when based upon what was displayed in-game (the relays blowing up, Normandy crashing) all of allies were stranded forever & ever.
Apparently I was supposed to use *~*MY IMAGINATION *~* to realize that what was very clearly shown...didn't actually happen as shown? The EC fixes a lot of my issues, honestly, but this doesn't change the fact that Bioware refuses to acknowledge - they retconned a large portion of the ending from the vanilla game to allow some sort of sense of victory. Before EC, yes, the journey was ruined.
I see what you're saying...
...but I will admit that I believe this is a "shortsighted" way of viewing Shepards accomplishments.
Granted...I definitely wanted the same thing. I wanted Shepards friends and all the characters I grew attached to survive and live great lives and all that...
However, Shepard's real accomplishment is that he stopped the reapers completely. The galactic civilizations 50,000 years from then...100,000 years from then...150,000 years from then...and so on...
...have Shepard to thank for them...even if they don't know it at that point. Shepard's main purpose wasn't just to save his friends and loved ones from harm...it was to save present and future civilizations by ending a cycle that has went on for so long...
To trivialize this by saying that you didn't get to see Shepards friends live happily ever after and saying his accomplishment meant nothing because of this is "shortsighted".
...but I do get your point.
Well, I'm not so short-sighted as to simply take into account the well-being of Shepard's crew/friends. Let's just talk about the victory fleet for now. In the end the entire victory fleet which is composed of the majority (if not ALL) of each races military forces are left stranded above Earth. The relays are destroyed in all of the ending cinematics.
Certainly the entire Quarian armada must have been present besides a very small contigency that stayed with Rannoch, no? The Quarians would have no chance of reaching their homeworld within their lifetimes through conventional FTL travel. In fact, this would be the case for all races except perhaps the Asari & Krogan (long lived as they are) - but unlike the Quarians they do not have a food source on their ships & certainly fuel isn't as readily abundant in the wide expanse of space as to allow every single vessel to make the entire journey.
Earth doesn't have the supplies or the space to support the refugees if they stayed, and it also doesn't have the resources to lend them should they choose to attempt the return home.
See what I mean about the bleakness of this ending? Yes, the Reapers are gone, but all of these people are left to starve (the dextros) or remain castaways on a planet that is lightyears from their loved ones/home. It's the most backhanded, crap-covered "....yay?" endings I have ever had the misfortune of experiencing. I love the series so much it actually devastated me for weeks afterwards. I don't need to see MY friends get a happily ever after, but if I didn't at least win it for the thousands/millions? of people that fought alongside me I consider that a thematic fail.