[quote]robertthebard wrote...
[quote]Ariella wrote...
[quote]robertthebard wrote...
The danger isn't an issue, what is an issue is that he says his father dies when he was very young, which is not the case, since Maric has only been dead for about 5 years. He lies, and
he does so because he doesn't want you to look at him differently, and doesn't want to be king. The only reason he tells you going into Redcliffe is because he knows that Eamon will tell you.[/quote]
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I'd buy this, but it comes up in game, via banter with Morrigan. Why he persisted with the lie with the King dead, he just hoped it would go away, to which Morrigan replies "The truth does not simply go away". "I never said it was a good plan". He knew it was time to come clean, or he would make Eamon expose him every time.[/quote]
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This pretty much proves you DON'T understand Alistair at all. You completely skip the issues of Alistair being told all his life that he's not in line for the throne, and that indeed he's a potential threat to Calian's reign due to his very existence.
Then there's the fact that everyone who already knew the truth either treated him like complete crap or coddled him because he was the bastard prince.
He's also embarassed about his birth, or did you never hear the banter between him and Leliana about him becoming king. "A star struck serving girl and an indescrete man who happened to be king" is how refers to his parents.
In summery, he has absolutely no reason to WANT to own up to his birth as it has brought him nothing but grief. He's never had a real home or family because of it. Everyone who knows sees his blood first, and not who he is inside, and treats him accordingly based on that one simple fact rather than anything he's accomplished on his own. It's no wonder he's got issues. That you can't recognize that there's a legitimate reason for these issues and that he has legitimate reasons for his actions is your problem.
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Look, I'm sorry if taking words from Alistair's mouth hurts your feelings, but really, there's nothing I can do about that, you'll have to deal with it however you deem fit. It's fairly obvious to me that you want me to say that Alistair is a prince amongst men, and I'm truly sorry, you're not going to hear that. As I said, it's obvious to me that I know more about him than you do, as I don't role play an Alistair fangirl every time I play. There's a reason why the writers would include "Or you can just be an ass about it" in a response to something he says, and there's also a reason "It's about time", or "finally", which ever it is that you get when Anora has him killed at the Landsmeet. So, I don't wear blinders and pretend that he's all peachy. So what? Does that affect your game at all?[/quote]
Robert, this is the third time you put words in my mouth.
My problem with your complains is that they're based on what you believe everybody should, and expecting the character to be cardboard cut outs that do what you say, when you say.
If you said "I don't like Alistair because I find his sense of humor juvenile", I'd have no problem with it. I'd disagree but have no problem. But hating him for not going completely opposite of his character is rediculious. You take none of his character traits into consideration but declare "he should do this" just because it would benefit you.
There's a great David Gaider post on this:
Spoilers Forum | David Gaider | Wed Nov 18 19:30:28 2009
The joys and pains of romancing Alistair
[[quote]Walina wrote...
I found it strange that it will be hard to convince Alistair to let Loghain die at his place, why ?
1) You can convince him to become king when he doesn't want to
2) You can convince him to sleep with Morrigan
3) You can ask him to join a threesome
4) You can convince him to let Zevran on the team
5) You can kill Isolde or anyone you and he will remain at your side (till he had enough though)
Come
on, tell me why should it be harder to ask him let go of Loghain when
you just manipulated him earlier ? ^^ Unless, he care more about
revenge than the PC ? It will be so unlike him in my opinion

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Then apparently you don't know him very well.
You
can convince him to become King because him not wanting to be a King is
based entirely on his self-esteem. He doesn't think he would be a good
King. He doesn't think anyone would want him there. Is it surprising
that someone he loves telling him he should be King after all might be
something he'd consider?
You can convince him to sleep with
Morrigan. Yes, but this has nothing to do with contravening his duty.
He has no duty to NOT sleep with Morrigan. He never promised not to
give her a baby, and while he doesn't like her she's never
DONE anything to him. Chances are, even if you bring up the baby he'll
only agree if he knows the ritual will save your life. Or SOMEONE'S
life. He's not even concerned about his own.
You can convince
him to join a threesome. Again, he's not celibate, or even a prude
really. Twisting someone's rubber arm is not exactly a giant leap for
his character.
You can convince him to let Zevran join the team.
And why couldn't you? Zevran attacked you all, yes, but he didn't kill
anyone in the party. If Zevran had, do you think Alistair would have
been so eager? Hardly. He doesn't trust Zevran, but it's not as if
Zevran killed Duncan or any of his friends.
He will remain at
your side after killing Isolde or Connor, yes, but keep in mind the
difference here: at some level he feels he owes Arl Eamon and is angry
about being directly (or indirectly) responsible for the death of his
wife or son -- but their deaths break no promise of his. It's not as if
he didn't know something needed to be done in Redcliffe, he's simply
very upset how it went down.
With Loghain, however, it's a
different matter. He swore that the man would die. Loghain is
responsible for the death of Duncan and all his friends in the Grey
Wardens. He thinks the man is evil, and if anything his DUTY would be
to keep him OUT of the Grey Wardens.
You think Alistair could be
convinced because you want to think that. Alistair isn't spineless, but
you're arguing that he is and should bend to your every whim because--
why? Because you're selfish? I get the desire behind it, but let's not
mistake one thing for the other. Anyone saying they "know Alistair" and
believe he would actually do such a thing is ignoring one of the most
important things about him.
If you really want to change
Alistair into someone else because that makes it more convenient to
have your happy ending, I get it and I understand. But I know my
character.]
Robert, you want the same thing. You ignore one of the most fundemental parts of Alistair's character: the fact that he needs to seperate himself from the circumstances of his birth, and expect him to do what YOU want because YOU think he should.