Seival wrote...
Hope is a delusion which vanishes once you reached the destination. You can't solve the problem only by hoping it will be resolved. To solve a problem you create/sustain a temporary solution hoping it would last long enough, or create a permanent solution which will last forever, without any hopes.
You have a decidely depressing view of the human condition. You see people as incapable of imagining new and original things; most of us see the opposite. You believe hope is a delusion. This is so dementedly sad. Hope is the human condition. It is the crux of the matter. Hope determines our ability to decide to face a problem or even a fear. If we don't have it and consider it merely delusional, we have lost before we've begun. No one thinks that merely hope solves everything and that's a total misrepresentation of things said. But without hope, you lose.
I know of what I speak, because I've lived the alternative. It's a lesson that I often preach to friends that struggle and especially when worried that someone I love may die. My mother was not well most of my life-dad died when I was 16 and it fell on me mostly to take care of her. I lived a lot of my life worried that I'd come home and she'd be dead, so I lived her death day after day. I finally decided that I could live like that or I could live with good thoughts about it all, and live with her alive. That is hope. It's believing and living a good thing because you don't know which will come true, and it's deciding which one will be a part of your life. I believe in hope and I believe it is hope that encourages us to do better things, to find solutions, to rely upon ourselves because we believe in ourselves and we don't believe that bad will always win out, even though we know it sometimes will.
I am sorry you can see only the opposite. I believe in the ability of people to decide to do good things, though I know many will not always do good things. You believe they need to have it all controlled for them.
I take heart from the good things people do-you don't seem to think they are capable of such things. Hope exists as a delusion.
In the face of Hurricane Sandy and a public outcry the New York Marathon (rightly so) was cancelled. Runners showed up anyway. They gathered up supplies and ran them out to people in need and then stayed and helped clean up debris. And in the face of Hurricane Sandy, those places hard hit will recover because the people hope for a better tomorrow than what they have today. And it is that hope that will drive them to make it so. I so wish you could see that, Seival. Hope is one of the most important things a person has.




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