Firstly, hardening him requires 2 steps.
1) initial meeting with Goldanna after which you pick the line "People are out for themselves" (or something like that, sounds awful but it's the one that gets him to buck up and stand up for himself).
2)Then you have to have a second dialogue (can be immediately after) where you confirm that line where he's on the fence saying 'what should I do?' withOUT saying "there are people who care for you" or "that's not what I meant". I can't recall the actual lines as it's been months, but there are TWO conversations that set his "hardening" and I'm sorry I can only recall the lines you DON'T want to use. I don't recall the actual lines but its a confirmation of what was earlier discussed. You want him to 'think for himself' and fight for his own happiness.
Alistair won't seize the throne, regardless of hardening (and still doesn't really want to be king at the landsmeet) no matter what you do on a Human Noble Female since in order to rule you HAVE to determine that he will marry you. Sorry, you don't get a proposal since the game has no clue what you want at that point but is giving you the opportunity to shape your character's path there. Hardened Alistair only siezes the throne if he duels Loghain (or is selected to kill him if you duel him) and you aren't a female human noble.
I do know Alistair is different at the landsmeet if unhardened in that he is more hesitant. When it comes to the issue with what do to with Anora he will hem and haw and finally decide 'well we have to do something' is pretty much going to be your only indicator. Hardened Alistair will say something like "Put her in the tower for now. If I die, she can have her throne, if not...we'll see..."
And during the decision making process, you can talk to him and Anora. Unhardened Alistair is more hesitant about taking the throne, though he will if you see no other way out for him. Hardened Alistair is more confident in his ability to rule and get the blight taken care of and will say 'I can do this'.
*Edit as it occured to me* If you determine you skipped the second conversation, you can always do that after the landsmeet. I had a playthrough on my Cousland warrior where I held off that second conversation so going in he was unhardened just to see what he would do/how it was different, especially if you were going to marry him. Frankly all that wishy washy hemming and hawing made me want to slap him. Unhardened, even though he will be marrying his lady love, Alistair doesn't want to
be king. I Rp'ed that gradually Valora convinced him he was best for Ferelden and she'd be around to help him in the time they had left after the Landsmeet, but before the final battle. I also staved off their 'first night together' till after the landsmeet.
I believe there was also a time when a bug in the game kept him from firing his hardened lines at the Landsmeet. I am unaware if any of the subsequent Bioware patches fixed it. Cmessaz's wonderful IRS-Alistair mod restores a lot of cut dialogue, fixes some broken flags and bugs in the game, provides some new scenes (one-of six-which is origin-specific). Sorry, I didn't think to recommend it earlier because your post had a more 'I'm never doing this again' feel to it and it's been out so long I figured most everyone who was a fan of Alistair knew about it.
Modifié par sylvanaerie, 20 janvier 2013 - 12:09 .