phoenixgoddess27 wrote...
Same here!
But, I admit, it was a HUGE turn off when I found out I'd be dissed because of what other people would think. That's why he's not gonig to be King and gonna tag along with me 
As for Zevran, eh.. I felt better taking a virginity than with a man who's taken Maker knows what.
I've already been with leliana too. She's AWESOME. Why? Because she stares at you after sex and says swee tthings to you. Alistair was more like, "Eeeeh, I'm scared what people are gonna saaaaay." And Zevran, "Well, not gonna force you to be with me but we can keep having sex."
So I'm mixed on the guys 
Doesn't change my feelings about the whole should be okay to marry Alistair if you're not human. But doesn't every King and Arl care for what people think?
Leliana was a crazy b**** after sex. If it had been on a playthrough of mine instead of my husband's, I would have said that to her to. Looking forward to a playthrough when I do romance so I can say that. Heh

And the whole, "Why didn't you tell me?" pouting session when she tells you she likes you... ugh. We need a slap a b**** option in DA. lol I wish Morrigan had been the bi fem option.
Alistair at least let you sleep and it was sweet that he watched you. And he didn't say he was afraid of what people would say just that they were going to talk about it. It's a warning for you not a complaint by him. And Zevran acts totally detached afterwards, except sexually, while he continues to hit on your companions. It does suck that Al won't take you as queen if you aren't noble though. But hey, he says over and over he doesn't want to be king...
I was a Dalish rogue my first playthrough and figured there was no way Ferelden would allow me to be queen so I wasn't shocked when I tried to rule with him and was told no. So then I made Anora queen instead.