Firky wrote...
I don't really get the card hate. (I'm a 30+ woman, for context.)
I'm definitely a completionist. That's part of it. Have to collect one of everything. But, I think I always just saw Geralt as kind of a tragic figure. He's sterile. The world is pretty misogynist (not Geralt necessarily.) With everyone being threatened with monsters all the time, and Geralt, monster slayer, hell. Promiscuity makes sense to me.
I guess I just saw the cards as kind of a tender window into an aspect of Geralt that paints him as kind of a sad loner, in my mind. (I'm sure many people would disagree with that interpretation, but that's how I saw it when I was playing.)
(Also, static erotic images are less confronting that moving images, in my mind. I had to close my eyes a couple of times in The Witcher 2.)
Edit: However, I will concede there were a HELL of a lot of them.
Same here (10 years younger woman

). I actually kind of liked the idea. I thought the art was pretty (yes, really), and felt like they offered a bit more detailed image of the character, because you see the same models being used for different persons. You're not really "collecting" anything, because you only get to see each card once, as a substitute for a sex scene. They don't appear in your inventory so that you can patience with them or anything like that.
And when you stop looking at sex from a modern, western point of view, the actions make sense, both for Geralt and for the women he beds. Geralt is a lost soul. He has no memory of who he is, so he is searching. He is literally searching for his identity and for things that give meaning to his life. Seeking intimacy, even casual and fleeting, can be seen as part of that, if you choose to play Geralt that way. It's optional. You can also let him focus on wanting a life with one special person and having a family with her.
As for the women: Geralt is a famous, yet mysterious figure. That must have its allure. Many stories about the White Wolf circulate. In the life of a bored noble woman or a hard-working peasant, sex can be a welcome distraction and form of "entertainment". Geralt is sterile, so no babies afterwards. Great deal! They both know Geralt won't stay in one place for long, so no time for extensive courting (has no use either, because they wouldn't marry a Witcher anyway).