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I don't choose it because Control doesn't end with dead Reapers.
I subscribe to the Hackett and Anderson school of thought. "Dead Reapers is how we win this thing."
And it turns out that both Hackett and Anderson are clearly wrong and the Illusive Man was right.
The only ending that can truly guarantee that galactic civilization is saved from the Reapers for all time, is Destroy. Both Control and Synthesis end with intact Reaper fleets and require the galaxy to trust that the Reapers won't one day attack them and begin the cycle anew.
Destroy is actually the most unsure and uncertain ending of them all. What if the Catalyst turns out to be right? What if the geth or other synthetics indeed turn against organics once again? The Destroy galaxy requires the galaxy to trust that the geth or new synthetics won't one day attack them and begin the cycle anew.
See, I can use your own argument against you. It goes both ways.
Also both Control and Synthesis lead to the Reaper War concluding in a stalemate, with neither side having achieved its goal of destroying the other.
Nonsense. There is no stalemate in Control. We organics win. The Catalyst is defeated and replaced by Shepard. There is no longer conflict. In both Control and Destroy we achieve our goal. We stop the reapers and we create a new future on our terms.
It is a return to the status quo antebellum, and as such an inconclusive outcome to the war. Destroy is preferable in that the Reaper War ends in a total victory for galactic civilization.
Wrong. Destroy is in fact the only ending that ends in a status quo. Destroy is only a short-term solution. it sets us back to the very beginning, but the organic v.s synthetic problem possibly still exists. What if one day synthetics rise up and start attacking organics once again? Then the whole cycle starts all over again.
Finally, I wasn't about to turn Shepard into some form of Reaper abomination or trust that Catalyst 2.0 could manage the galaxy better than the version it replaced. Dead Catalysts is also how we win this thing. 
A dead Catalyst will gain you a temporary victory, sure. But what will you do when the synthetics start rebelling again?
Control is a more secure and permanent solution. In Control we have the reapers as our guardians. Under Shepards command they'll protect us against future threats.
The only real permanent solution seems to be Sythesis, as much as I hate to admit it (I really don't like Synthesis).