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[Esrever]

Astaiir wrote...

Esrever wrote...

JAZZ_LEG3ND wrote...

Esrever wrote...

JAZZ_LEG3ND wrote...

Esrever wrote...

Purpose of thread: Find other girls that post on forums.

90% of posts are from guys.

First 2-3 pages actually have girls saying "I am female, I post here".

Posts turn into rampant debates about different subjects such as rape, religion, equal rights, sexism, misogyny.


Internet generation worries me. Close the thread.

C'mon, you didn't really expect a topic like this to stay on-track, did you?

Which is why I can, sadly, always repeat my last 2 lines.

Internet generation worries me. Close the thread.

Nah, people were doing this long before the internet.
Now it's just logged and formatted.
Isn't the 1st, won't be the last.

There is anonimity in the internet, which makes it all too easy. There are very little and minor consequences to being an a**hole on the internet.

Just because you can - say/ type/ link/ whatever else you can do on the internet - something, doesn't mean you should.

Close the thread.

Esrver - wait are you trying to say males are attention wh0res? 

Not particularly. Just people. 

[mrs_anomaly]

 I'm a woman and this whole thread is a gaslighting mess from hell... sort of.  (from both xx and xy)

I wonder if I spent all my free time compling empirical evidence that people of color are the scourge of the planet if I would be labeled as a racist and that my branding as a racist would in fact be objective- or would that just wander into the Brave New World realm of PC language? I wonder if my sole purpose were to point out how men have ravaged and pillaged and killed women and children for lesser reasons than righteousness or justice if I would be called a proper misandrist even if all my information were backed up with credible historical accounts and statistics. Does it imbue my pursuit of factual information with a window into my ultimate purpose? Does the pursuit of proving a group to be insidious and inferior and backed by facts make me a vangaurd for humanity? Wise? 

We are human beings. While it's good to understand everything we can about ourselves it is important not to lose perspective- we should and can respect each other.  

I'm a rape survivor and a molestation survivor. All perpetuated by men. Do I blame all men for their crimes? No. Do I assume all men want to rape children? No. 

Also: I don't expect special consideration when I'm gaming. If I'm not even speaking on the mic on XBOX I just play my game and move on with life. I don't care if the people I'm playing with ARE guys or girls because I have an expecation of their level of expertise. I'm curious sure- because I'm interested in people's lives and thoughts- but I'm not going to think "oh this player is a guy- he's probably better!" etc. 

Get your heads out of your asses.





 

Modifié par mrs_anomaly, 22 décembre 2012 - 03:50 .

[JAZZ_LEG3ND]

mrs_anomaly wrote...

 I'm a woman and this whole thread is a gaslighting mess from hell... sort of.  (from both xx and xy)

I wonder if I spent all my free time compling empirical evidence that people of color are the scourge of the planet if I would be labeled as a racist and that my branding as a racist would in fact be objective- or would that just wander into the Brave New World realm of PC language? I wonder if my sole purpose were to point out how men have ravaged and pillaged and killed women and children for lesser reasons than righteousness or justice if I would be called a proper misandrist even if all my information were backed up with credible historical accounts and statistics. Does it imbue my pursuit of factual information with a window into my ultimate purpose? Does the pursuit of proving a group to be insidious and inferior and backed by facts make me a vangaurd for humanity? Wise? 

We are human beings. While it's good to understand everything we can about ourselves it is important not to lose perspective- we should and can respect each other.  

I'm a rape survivor and a molestation survivor. All perpetuated by men. Do I blame all men for their crimes? No. Do I assume all men want to rape children? No. 

Also: I don't expect special consideration when I'm gaming. If I'm not even speaking on the mic on XBOX I just play my game and move on with life. I don't care if the people I'm playing with ARE guys or girls because I have an expecation of their level of expertise. I'm curious sure- because I'm interested in people's lives and thoughts- but I'm not going to think "oh this player is a guy- he's probably better!" etc. 

Get your heads out of your asses.

I don't care if some of that was aimed at me, I agree with what you said.

[Stardusk]

mrs_anomaly wrote...

 I'm a woman and this whole thread is a gaslighting mess from hell... sort of.  (from both xx and xy)

I wonder if I spent all my free time compling empirical evidence that people of color are the scourge of the planet if I would be labeled as a racist and that my branding as a racist would in fact be objective- or would that just wander into the Brave New World realm of PC language? I wonder if my sole purpose were to point out how men have ravaged and pillaged and killed women and children for lesser reasons than righteousness or justice if I would be called a proper misandrist even if all my information were backed up with credible historical accounts and statistics. Does it imbue my pursuit of factual information with a window into my ultimate purpose? Does the pursuit of proving a group to be insidious and inferior and backed by facts make me a vangaurd for humanity? Wise? 

We are human beings. While it's good to understand everything we can about ourselves it is important not to lose perspective- we should and can respect each other.  

I'm a rape survivor and a molestation survivor. All perpetuated by men. Do I blame all men for their crimes? No. Do I assume all men want to rape children? No. 

Also: I don't expect special consideration when I'm gaming. If I'm not even speaking on the mic on XBOX I just play my game and move on with life. I don't care if the people I'm playing with ARE guys or girls because I have an expecation of their level of expertise. I'm curious sure- because I'm interested in people's lives and thoughts- but I'm not going to think "oh this player is a guy- he's probably better!" etc. 

Get your heads out of your asses.





 

Whilst I have sympathy for your experience. Women are statistically more likely to be child abusers than men are. And domestic violence is committed by both in equal measure.Women also murder children more frequently than men do, statistically speaking.

[Dyssar]

mrs_anomaly wrote...

 I'm a woman and this whole thread is a gaslighting mess from hell... sort of.  (from both xx and xy)

I wonder if I spent all my free time compling empirical evidence that people of color are the scourge of the planet if I would be labeled as a racist and that my branding as a racist would in fact be objective- or would that just wander into the Brave New World realm of PC language? I wonder if my sole purpose were to point out how men have ravaged and pillaged and killed women and children for lesser reasons than righteousness or justice if I would be called a proper misandrist even if all my information were backed up with credible historical accounts and statistics. Does it imbue my pursuit of factual information with a window into my ultimate purpose? Does the pursuit of proving a group to be insidious and inferior and backed by facts make me a vangaurd for humanity? Wise? 

We are human beings. While it's good to understand everything we can about ourselves it is important not to lose perspective- we should and can respect each other.  

I'm a rape survivor and a molestation survivor. All perpetuated by men. Do I blame all men for their crimes? No. Do I assume all men want to rape children? No. 

Also: I don't expect special consideration when I'm gaming. If I'm not even speaking on the mic on XBOX I just play my game and move on with life. I don't care if the people I'm playing with ARE guys or girls because I have an expecation of their level of expertise. I'm curious sure- because I'm interested in people's lives and thoughts- but I'm not going to think "oh this player is a guy- he's probably better!" etc. 

Get your heads out of your asses.





 

Finally someone said it! I raise a glass to you good lady!

[kaileena_sands]

Stardusk wrote...

mrs_anomaly wrote...

 I'm a woman and this whole thread is a gaslighting mess from hell... sort of.  (from both xx and xy)

I wonder if I spent all my free time compling empirical evidence that people of color are the scourge of the planet if I would be labeled as a racist and that my branding as a racist would in fact be objective- or would that just wander into the Brave New World realm of PC language? I wonder if my sole purpose were to point out how men have ravaged and pillaged and killed women and children for lesser reasons than righteousness or justice if I would be called a proper misandrist even if all my information were backed up with credible historical accounts and statistics. Does it imbue my pursuit of factual information with a window into my ultimate purpose? Does the pursuit of proving a group to be insidious and inferior and backed by facts make me a vangaurd for humanity? Wise? 

We are human beings. While it's good to understand everything we can about ourselves it is important not to lose perspective- we should and can respect each other.  

I'm a rape survivor and a molestation survivor. All perpetuated by men. Do I blame all men for their crimes? No. Do I assume all men want to rape children? No. 

Also: I don't expect special consideration when I'm gaming. If I'm not even speaking on the mic on XBOX I just play my game and move on with life. I don't care if the people I'm playing with ARE guys or girls because I have an expecation of their level of expertise. I'm curious sure- because I'm interested in people's lives and thoughts- but I'm not going to think "oh this player is a guy- he's probably better!" etc. 

Get your heads out of your asses.





 

Whilst I have sympathy for your experience. Women are statistically more likely to be child abusers than men are. And domestic violence is committed by both in equal measure.Women also murder children more frequently than men do, statistically speaking.

Way to completely miss the point of the post, Stardusk...

Also, thank you for this post, mrs_anomaly. It puts tiny BSN squabbles in perspective.

Modifié par kaileena_sands, 22 décembre 2012 - 04:05 .

[Zero132132]

Stardusk wrote...

mrs_anomaly wrote...

 I'm a woman and this whole thread is a gaslighting mess from hell... sort of.  (from both xx and xy)

I wonder if I spent all my free time compling empirical evidence that people of color are the scourge of the planet if I would be labeled as a racist and that my branding as a racist would in fact be objective- or would that just wander into the Brave New World realm of PC language? I wonder if my sole purpose were to point out how men have ravaged and pillaged and killed women and children for lesser reasons than righteousness or justice if I would be called a proper misandrist even if all my information were backed up with credible historical accounts and statistics. Does it imbue my pursuit of factual information with a window into my ultimate purpose? Does the pursuit of proving a group to be insidious and inferior and backed by facts make me a vangaurd for humanity? Wise? 

We are human beings. While it's good to understand everything we can about ourselves it is important not to lose perspective- we should and can respect each other.  

I'm a rape survivor and a molestation survivor. All perpetuated by men. Do I blame all men for their crimes? No. Do I assume all men want to rape children? No. 

Also: I don't expect special consideration when I'm gaming. If I'm not even speaking on the mic on XBOX I just play my game and move on with life. I don't care if the people I'm playing with ARE guys or girls because I have an expecation of their level of expertise. I'm curious sure- because I'm interested in people's lives and thoughts- but I'm not going to think "oh this player is a guy- he's probably better!" etc. 

Get your heads out of your asses.

Whilst I have sympathy for your experience. Women are statistically more likely to be child abusers than men are. And domestic violence is committed by both in equal measure.Women also murder children more frequently than men do, statistically speaking.

What a pro. You're great at missing the point. Like, entirely. I mean, it's genuinely impressive, the degree of head-up-your-ass involved here.

[mrs_anomaly]

Stardusk wrote...

mrs_anomaly wrote...

 I'm a woman and this whole thread is a gaslighting mess from hell... sort of.  (from both xx and xy)

I wonder if I spent all my free time compling empirical evidence that people of color are the scourge of the planet if I would be labeled as a racist and that my branding as a racist would in fact be objective- or would that just wander into the Brave New World realm of PC language? I wonder if my sole purpose were to point out how men have ravaged and pillaged and killed women and children for lesser reasons than righteousness or justice if I would be called a proper misandrist even if all my information were backed up with credible historical accounts and statistics. Does it imbue my pursuit of factual information with a window into my ultimate purpose? Does the pursuit of proving a group to be insidious and inferior and backed by facts make me a vangaurd for humanity? Wise? 

We are human beings. While it's good to understand everything we can about ourselves it is important not to lose perspective- we should and can respect each other.  

I'm a rape survivor and a molestation survivor. All perpetuated by men. Do I blame all men for their crimes? No. Do I assume all men want to rape children? No. 

Also: I don't expect special consideration when I'm gaming. If I'm not even speaking on the mic on XBOX I just play my game and move on with life. I don't care if the people I'm playing with ARE guys or girls because I have an expecation of their level of expertise. I'm curious sure- because I'm interested in people's lives and thoughts- but I'm not going to think "oh this player is a guy- he's probably better!" etc. 

Get your heads out of your asses.





 

Whilst I have sympathy for your experience. Women are statistically more likely to be child abusers than men are. And domestic violence is committed by both in equal measure.Women also murder children more frequently than men do, statistically speaking.

I don't ever dispute that women have and do commit crimes, violence, unfairness and misandry and princess syndromes. What I do dispute is judging an entire half of the population from a collection of facts and studies and writing them off. I'm not going to expend the effort to bandy about studies to prove men are worse than woman or vice versa. There is zero point in doing that. We have to share our lives and our planet. I will say that both my brother and I were abused. I'm quite aware of potential for men and boys to be abused as well. Anyone that would deny the possibility is simply completely ignorant and frankly stupid. I encounter the same wall of idiocy when discussing human trafficking and the existing human slavery in the USA with people. They refuse to see it exists. It's too difficult to acknowledge and live in their bubble comfortably. So please, save your facts about women who are the perpetrators of all are most of the evil on earth. I don't need to hear it. I love men, and I love women and I love children. I think it is a disservice to try to pretend bad things do not happen but I will never support evidence lynch mobbing to a section of the population thirsting for some rational reasons why they can hate a group of people. 

[Ashen One]

Stardusk wrote...

Whilst I have sympathy for your experience. Women are statistically more likely to be child abusers than men are. And domestic violence is committed by both in equal measure.Women also murder children more frequently than men do, statistically speaking.

You always know just what to say.

[Stardusk]

kaileena_sands wrote...

Stardusk wrote...

mrs_anomaly wrote...

 I'm a woman and this whole thread is a gaslighting mess from hell... sort of.  (from both xx and xy)

I wonder if I spent all my free time compling empirical evidence that people of color are the scourge of the planet if I would be labeled as a racist and that my branding as a racist would in fact be objective- or would that just wander into the Brave New World realm of PC language? I wonder if my sole purpose were to point out how men have ravaged and pillaged and killed women and children for lesser reasons than righteousness or justice if I would be called a proper misandrist even if all my information were backed up with credible historical accounts and statistics. Does it imbue my pursuit of factual information with a window into my ultimate purpose? Does the pursuit of proving a group to be insidious and inferior and backed by facts make me a vangaurd for humanity? Wise? 

We are human beings. While it's good to understand everything we can about ourselves it is important not to lose perspective- we should and can respect each other.  

I'm a rape survivor and a molestation survivor. All perpetuated by men. Do I blame all men for their crimes? No. Do I assume all men want to rape children? No. 

Also: I don't expect special consideration when I'm gaming. If I'm not even speaking on the mic on XBOX I just play my game and move on with life. I don't care if the people I'm playing with ARE guys or girls because I have an expecation of their level of expertise. I'm curious sure- because I'm interested in people's lives and thoughts- but I'm not going to think "oh this player is a guy- he's probably better!" etc. 

Get your heads out of your asses.





 

Whilst I have sympathy for your experience. Women are statistically more likely to be child abusers than men are. And domestic violence is committed by both in equal measure.Women also murder children more frequently than men do, statistically speaking.

Way to completely miss the point of the post, Stardusk...

Also, thank you for this post, mrs_anomaly. It puts tiny BSN squabbles in perspective.

I did not miss the point. There is a lot of misandry in her post, i.e. men are murderers and rapists and are responsible for all the ills of the world but hey, I don't judge all men like that. Pretty much what she said.

[Stardusk]

Ashen Earth wrote...

Stardusk wrote...

Whilst I have sympathy for your experience. Women are statistically more likely to be child abusers than men are. And domestic violence is committed by both in equal measure.Women also murder children more frequently than men do, statistically speaking.

You always know just what to say.

I surprised that you are familiar with the term 'mangina'. How do you know this term?

[JAZZ_LEG3ND]

Stardusk wrote...

Whilst I have sympathy for your experience. Women are statistically more likely to be child abusers than men are. And domestic violence is committed by both in equal measure.Women also murder children more frequently than men do, statistically speaking.

You put entirely too much faith in your statistics.
Perhaps you should put a little in humanity -- you may discover that we're not that bad.

[megabeast37215]

I go away and play 4-5 games... and this thread just blew the F up....

LOL

[llandwynwyn]

Mrs_anomaly, don't bother. This is a mess of a thread.

[VerySeed]

megabeast37215 wrote...

I go away and play 4-5 games... and this thread just blew the F up....

LOL

Actually BSN blew up.

[Zero132132]

Stardusk wrote...

I did not miss the point. There is a lot of misandry in her post, i.e. men are murderers and rapists and are responsible for all the ills of the world but hey, I don't judge all men like that. Pretty much what she said.

No, ******, what she said was that if you collected a bunch of statistics implying that, it shouldn't mean a damned thing in terms of how you should interact with people, because even if some group is statistically more likely to have certain attributes, assuming that those attributes apply to every single member is really, really, really ****ing stupid.

You missed the point completely, and said "well actually, women ARE worse than men." How stupid do you have to be to misread something so completely? Seriously...

[Happy Shepard]

It's like traveling between completely different dimensions with this thread and the others.

[soulstriker09]

llandwynwyn wrote...

Mrs_anomaly, don't bother. This is a mess of a thread.

[BridgeBurner]

Am I the only man in this thread without an axe to grind, who just wants to see some boobies?

I am an unsophisticated, uncouth moron, but...

I like boobies!

This thread needs less heated discussion and more bosoms.

[mrs_anomaly]

Stardusk wrote...

kaileena_sands wrote...

Stardusk wrote...

mrs_anomaly wrote...

 I'm a woman and this whole thread is a gaslighting mess from hell... sort of.  (from both xx and xy)

I wonder if I spent all my free time compling empirical evidence that people of color are the scourge of the planet if I would be labeled as a racist and that my branding as a racist would in fact be objective- or would that just wander into the Brave New World realm of PC language? I wonder if my sole purpose were to point out how men have ravaged and pillaged and killed women and children for lesser reasons than righteousness or justice if I would be called a proper misandrist even if all my information were backed up with credible historical accounts and statistics. Does it imbue my pursuit of factual information with a window into my ultimate purpose? Does the pursuit of proving a group to be insidious and inferior and backed by facts make me a vangaurd for humanity? Wise? 

We are human beings. While it's good to understand everything we can about ourselves it is important not to lose perspective- we should and can respect each other.  

I'm a rape survivor and a molestation survivor. All perpetuated by men. Do I blame all men for their crimes? No. Do I assume all men want to rape children? No. 

Also: I don't expect special consideration when I'm gaming. If I'm not even speaking on the mic on XBOX I just play my game and move on with life. I don't care if the people I'm playing with ARE guys or girls because I have an expecation of their level of expertise. I'm curious sure- because I'm interested in people's lives and thoughts- but I'm not going to think "oh this player is a guy- he's probably better!" etc. 

Get your heads out of your asses.





 

Whilst I have sympathy for your experience. Women are statistically more likely to be child abusers than men are. And domestic violence is committed by both in equal measure.Women also murder children more frequently than men do, statistically speaking.

Way to completely miss the point of the post, Stardusk...

Also, thank you for this post, mrs_anomaly. It puts tiny BSN squabbles in perspective.

I did not miss the point. There is a lot of misandry in her post, i.e. men are murderers and rapists and are responsible for all the ills of the world but hey, I don't judge all men like that. Pretty much what she said.

I'm sorry, in order not to appear as a misandrist I should have pointed out equal evidence that women commit crimes right? Pot calling the kettle. I'm not a misandrist and I committed no such thing. 

[Airealite]

[llandwynwyn]

[Deerber]

Annomander wrote...

Am I the only man in this thread without an axe to grind, who just wants to see some boobies?

I am an unsophisticated, uncouth moron, but...

I like boobies!

This thread needs less heated discussion and more bosoms.

Make it two. 

[Stardusk]

JAZZ_LEG3ND wrote...

Stardusk wrote...

Whilst I have sympathy for your experience. Women are statistically more likely to be child abusers than men are. And domestic violence is committed by both in equal measure.Women also murder children more frequently than men do, statistically speaking.

You put entirely too much faith in your statistics.
Perhaps you should put a little in humanity -- you may discover that we're not that bad.

LOL.

[Airealite]

Stardusk wrote...

JAZZ_LEG3ND wrote...

Stardusk wrote...

Whilst I have sympathy for your experience. Women are statistically more likely to be child abusers than men are. And domestic violence is committed by both in equal measure.Women also murder children more frequently than men do, statistically speaking.

You put entirely too much faith in your statistics.
Perhaps you should put a little in humanity -- you may discover that we're not that bad.

LOL.

I lost it

Oh God

My sides