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Faulcun

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I'm not really sure what to make of some of the threads that have popped up in the past few hours. You know which ones im talking about lol.

In all seriousness though, I've decided to share a small story with all of you. I'm not quite sure why, but maybe it will make some people think differently about these communities.

There are only a few games that I have a true passion for, even long after they have died. Mass effect being one of them (not saying its dead). One of the others is Alien Vs. Predator 2 by Monolith and Lithtec released back in 2001. Not the garbage that was released a couple years ago. Anyways, I met my wife playing that game. She was apart of another clan [XLR], and I was a Hive General (aliens) in Fusion clan [fu].

We had played together a few times when she visited our clans server. Eventually she joined our clan as a Predator and became a General over time as well. I had a girlfriend at the time which didnt work out, and went through a few others. Over the next 7 years we continued playing together even after the game died. Its actually still running to this day, which we ocasionally fire it up and play once in a while.

Anyways, we were friends who enjoyed playing the same type of games together, and that was it. In 2007, after I had had it with the girlfriend at the time, for some reason we began talking more seriously with each other. Now here is the kicker. I live in the United States on the east coast. She lived in The Netherlands. Thats Europe, in case you needed to know. Yeah, on the other side of the planet, europe.

After a while, we came to the discussion of where the relationship was going to go, obviously. Well at the time I was building an import race car for the circuit tracks. I was attempting to finish it before a huge car meet in Ocala, Florida. So I invited her over to the United States to come with me for this 4 day event in March, 2008. It would be her very first time coming to the USA and staying for a week. I wont bore you with the details of the trip, but that road trip with her was one of the best times of my life.

I had also invited her for a second trip back for the 4th of July. This time she stayed for two weeks, and I took her to see my family in New York, as well as for the fireworks. This was the second best time of my life. After we got back, we decided to make it a permanent thing. We filed the paperwork at the end of that week. Six months later, on Dec 8, 2008, she left her country and arrived here.  On Dec 10, 2008, we got married.

We are still currently happily married, and she plays Me3 with me...... and wants to supercharge her car..... 

I couldnt ask for more :P

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darkpassenger2342

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no no no no no

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Titus Thongger

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that's a sweet story

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JShepppp

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Touching story; no matter the path, the destination is what matters when it comes to this stuff. Don't listen to the others who ignore or bash your story. Glad you are happily married and found someone you click with.

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Faulcun

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lol thx. Oh I dont care about them. Point is though, you actually can meet somebody playing violent, bloody video games, and get married lol.

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Faulcun wrote...

lol thx. Oh I dont care about them. Point is though, you actually can meet somebody playing violent, bloody video games, and get married lol.

 im sure women across the world are thrilled to hear you inspire millions of creepy dudes with your coincidental occurence.

Modifié par darkpassenger2342, 28 décembre 2012 - 06:54 .


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darkpassenger2342 wrote...

Faulcun wrote...

lol thx. Oh I dont care about them. Point is though, you actually can meet somebody playing violent, bloody video games, and get married lol.

 im sure women across the world are thrilled to hear you inspire millions of creepy dudes with your coincidental occurence.



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Hmm. That's a sweet story.

I feel a bit self-conscious at the moment, however. Certain persons will know why.

Ashen Earth wrote...

I think I'm going to vomit.


Would it help if I said I love you?

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Lovely post, OP, good on you for sharing your story.

Luckily my partner and I have been together long enough we don't get the "how did you two meet?" question so much any more, but I really look forward to the day where I can answer "on the internet" without feeling embarrassed.

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Huh...pretty sick story. Kudos to you.

9.5/10 (as stated before, you spelled biower wrong)

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It is refreshing to see a positive post on the forums. Sweet story. :)

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Faulcun

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karmmh wrote...

Lovely post, OP, good on you for sharing your story.

Luckily my partner and I have been together long enough we don't get the "how did you two meet?" question so much any more, but I really look forward to the day where I can answer "on the internet" without feeling embarrassed.


I'll be honest, I tell people "mail order bride" when they hear her accent lol. I think its hilarious when their jaws drop. Then I tell them the real story, and their jaws drop again lol

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It's a nice story. A bit unlike all the other online gaming dating that goes on. Not the distance. But one party actually making the effort to travel to go see the other. It doesn't happen often. Then there's those that lie about their age, their job, what they look like, etc... I guess that's why there's plenty of MTV sitcoms about that sort of ****.

I think it would be cool to find an eventual paragon while playing Mass Effect together. Especially if it just happened randomly one night. Like a one night stand that makes you see that person differently.

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JShepppp wrote...

Touching story; no matter the path, the destination is what matters when it comes to this stuff. Don't listen to the others who ignore or bash your story. Glad you are happily married and found someone you click with.

This this this. I'm glad things worked for you.

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frustratemyself

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That's a sweet story op. I take it people are jelly that he found a real live woman that plays video games?

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Pics or it didn't happen

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Spam removed. Bans handed out.

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manbearpig654 wrote...

Pics or it didn't happen


here you go
Image IPB

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That car is stolen.
reported.
to the bsn and the police.

Modifié par darkpassenger2342, 28 décembre 2012 - 07:43 .


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Faulcun

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darkpassenger2342 wrote...

um, this thread isnt locked lol


It's an honest thread. Why would it be?

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xxrpggamemanxx

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Jay_Hoxtatron wrote...

??

Maybe 2 mods locking at the same time cancel each locks :P

Off Topic: This thread wasn't really spam... Don't think it needed locked. The mods removed the spam posts from it and left the serious ones here.

On Topic: Redheads <3

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Faulcun

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darkpassenger2342 wrote...

That car is stolen.
reported.
to the bsn and the police.


Actually, it was stolen from me. I got it back though, just a frame. I'm rebuilding it again. I couldnt let it go out like that.

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darkpassenger2342

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Faulcun wrote...

darkpassenger2342 wrote...

That car is stolen.
reported.
to the bsn and the police.


Actually, it was stolen from me. I got it back though, just a frame. I'm rebuilding it again. I couldnt let it go out like that.


ahah yeah. and i dont think it should have been locked either, but stan said locked and bans handed out lol.. guess not.

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Oh dear.
It seems Ninja Stan missed.

It's a nice story. :3
I've had some aquintances who've met through clans.
Happens a lot in MMos.

Modifié par Ziegrif, 28 décembre 2012 - 08:14 .


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Ninja Stan wrote...

Spam removed. Bans handed out.


It doesnt say "locked". I dont know what you guys are reading.