Maria Caliban wrote...
I think you can only say this if you've never gotten bad feedback.
I once got set a short story in Las Vegas and one of my beta readers felt the need to explain how I'd gotten everything wrong. I live in Las Vegas. They lived in the Northeast and had never visited the place.
Oh, and if you want horrible feedback, write an erotic story and post it online.
Reminds me of 7th grade English class. We were playing some board game where you have to name something that starts with a certain letter- in this case, a city that starts with S.
Some kid said Staten Island, and my teacher said he was correct.
But it wasn't correct. I was born and raised in New York City, so I know my hometown has five boroughs- Manhattan(where I'm from), Queens, The Bronx, Brooklyn, and Staten Island.
Note that in 7th grade I was(and still am) in South Jersey.
I tried telling my teacher she was wrong and her facts were messed up, but she swore that because she was the teacher, she was always right and I was not.
I told her to look it up on the computer right in front of her- she refused.
So it was pretty insulting, some person telling me I don't know my own hometown as well as she does when she's never been there before.
I know that feel, Maria. It may not be "feedback" per se, but the general gist of it is still there-
If you're going to critique/criticize/call someone out on something, you should know something about it instead of just coming up with stuff out of nowhere.
And if there's a legitimate flaw, you should man up to it.