I can click out the window to the BSN at any time and go and play games. If someone is insufferable or vulgar or annoying, I can just stop doing it and still enjoy gaming completely free of the BSN's influence.
However, one cannot play MP in a game and not run the risk of people being juvenile, vulgar or a pain to be around. I'm glad your track record with ME3 has been good, but undoubtedly the risk is still there. Lack of manners and decency on MP is a widespread problem, occurring in much more than just Bioware's games.
All the measures you take to avoid disrespectful behaviour on an internet forum still apply to multiplayer gaming. You can move on to try something else, whether it be a different MP session, the single player mode, or even go play a different game altogether and come back later.
I haven't played as much as Maria, but I have actually
never run into a twit while playing ME3 multiplayer, in large part because I have a small group of people that I typically play it with. Some of these people I know in real life (old university classmates typically), a couple are forumites from various places that I have been a frequent poster.
Even in games of Counterstrike (going back 13 years now...) it was easy to ignore the petulant ones, and in my local area (Edmonton based server) the real twits typically got shunned off the servers by the typically mature group anyways. It helped that most of us knew each other, or were only 1 or 2 degrees of separation from each other.
It sucks if you don't know anyone that would also be interested in playing with you, but I have two really good friends that I typically co-op game with, to the point where a game offering co-op piques our interest simply because it contains co-op. Our favourite part of SWTOR was doing the class quests, which actually doesn't even involve any of the other group members. This is because they were the most well written, and it was
just cool watching your friend make his or her choices, as well as sharing the choices I make with them. I have co-op'd through both IWD campaigns with 2 friends, each of us controlling 2 characters. I actually have never played through either of them by myself.
I'll agree the experience is probably less interesting when playing with a total stranger, but fortunately I find gaming is becoming more popular so I am finding it easier to find people that game among my actual friends (rather than just tapping the geekier friends).
Modifié par Allan Schumacher, 22 janvier 2013 - 09:10 .