I'm getting this nagging suspicion that BioWare fans have absolutely no imagination whatsoever. You getting that too, Chris?
I was actually fine with the ending pre-EC. I'm a creative person, and things like worldcrafting and storyboarding plots are things which I enjoy. After the ending of ME3, I sat back in my chair, looked on with a mild sense of awe and spoke quietly "touché, BioWare. Touché." The most immediate concern in my mind was all of those fleets seemingly now stranded, and then many other issues came to mind.
Instead of running to the forums and screaming about it, I actually began to formulate the hypothesis that the reapers themselves would likely help with rebuilding civilisation. Except, of course, unless you choose Destroy. Then you're not going to have that chance at all and everyone's going to run out of resources and die. This is something I hinted at in my prior post on this thread. Hurrah for Shepard the Butcher, blessed be his name, cursed be his name.
Still, for Synth and Control, there was the option of having the reapers repair the relays. In Synth and Control I believe they only looked damaged, it was only in Destroy were the relays entirely obliterated, and that was just to add to the sense of melancholy of what Shepard had just done. But I digress. The fact of the matter is is that there could be many meanings to take away from the breath scene. I take it as the end of the legacy of Shepard the Butcher, the man dies alone contemplating his many sins. To me, that's the most meaningful ending.
But for the gung-ho people who'd rather be shooting faces and not dreaming up new worlds, then I suppose it's nice to think that you have your binary ending - where, hey, you defeated Dem Bad Guys and saved Us Gud Guys and everything is so very shiny, lollipops, and rainbows. Despite the fact that the kind of Shepard who'd just wipe out entire races (not only the geth, but those within the reaper consensus as well) is kind of a genocidal madman and not really a 'good guy' at all.
But hey, it HAS to be that Shepard is alive. And it can't be anything else.
Sigh. Gamers.