Well.. Different strokes but I can't agree with the last statement :-) if it was real life it would probably be more important. (I don't want to be reaped any more than anybody else does:-)
But it's a game and really, the important thing is to entertain. These games, appeal to lots of different people and not all of us are getting a fair shake. I like stopping the Reapers
and the romance and there is plenty of room for both and the game
contains both. I wasn't expecting a lot of "getting it on with crewmates" or even equal choices since I am a girl and I know what I want is not something game designers are going to lose any sleep over but I was looking forward to that scene and I (naively as it turns out) thought that they wouldn't
couldn't mess it up TOO much... Right?
I didn't know or realize they would go out of their WAY to mess it up.
I can explain what I mean by masculine point of view. A masculinely focused watcher of that scene is probably more likely in that situation to want to watch the woman's body and the woman's face. Probably in that order. Someone like me mostly wants to watch the man's face.. although a look at his body is entertaining too. In this scene the bulk of the time we were exclusively watching HER face as he spoke and during the brief love scene we (as unfortunately, expected.) saw a lot of her and very little of him.. (although what little we got was nice because at least it seemed he was being distracted from his headaches

None of that was a problem except the very disappointing focus on only showing HER face while he was speaking the most intense lines he has in the whole game!
The direction of the whole scene camera- wise, was very poor, shoddilly done and couldn't have been written by anybody but a male for males with little thought for anyone else. And it was a sudden departure from the rest of the game where the camera was on the speaker so I have to assume it was deliberately crafted that way. I just went to You tube and watched the same romance scene with Male Shepard and Ashley and it was ENTIRELY different. The camera was always on HER face as she was speaking and was superbly directed, much longer and lovingly crafted. That is what I am objecting to!
They didn't even get the sound right. At one point it was obvious that they tossed in an abrupt extra line recorded at a different time and didn't even bother to get the sound level or voice modulation and tone anywhere near what was said before. The effect is jarring.
I realize this is an old game I am playing.. and that these games have a long way to go even now before they will be fair to everybody who plays them. But what I am hoping that this situation improved at least a little over the subsequent releases.
I want to know if this rather aggregious difference in quality (depending on your orientation) continues in the other games and I would like to know without watching them ahead of time on youtube (and spoiling the fun) or buying the games and potentially being so disappointed and saddened as I was by this one. Which is why I asked. I wasn't asking for any more content. Just a reasonable expectation that the content I was getting was crafted with equal quality and attention. If that is asking too much then something is wrong.