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xAmilli0n wrote...

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i am going to make a new thread tomorrow or something. About All Bi vs Gay/STR8/Bi. if you do post, try to keep it Civil and stay on topic.


That has been beat to death several times over already.  Start that thread at you're own risk.


Then this thread needs to get locked.

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Well i have no problems with more ss romances being added. I just don`t want them all to be bisexual. Feels like a shortcut as well.

Dragons and magic are part of the lore, so in Thedas its not unrealistic at all.

It is a shortcut. Gaider as said that he would prefer to do an even spread of sexualities, had he the resources. But the best way to be fair, given the limitations, is to simply make all four LIs romanceable by characters of both genders. Fairness trumps "realism" in this case, as it should in all cases, in my opinion.

But he also doesn't consider all the LIs to be "bisexual" anyway, but rather the sexualities of some characters are player-determined. Meaning they can be bisexual, exclsively straight or exclusively gay, depending on what you want to do for that playthrough.


Thats kind of a problem. My character determining a companions sexuality, in a way. Feels like a sim rather than an rpg. People just changing sexuality and whatsnot, just to cater to my needs or whatever.

Isn't the freedom to make choices that impact on the narrative/characters exactly what people on this forum keep saying Dragon Age needs more of?


Freedom to change the story and whatsnot, yes. Not to change peoples sexuality from the get go. Thats different. Its about your actions and moral choices etc changing the story. Not picking an option about what you want a followers sexual orientation to be.

I don't see how it's different. I don't understand why the player should have complete freedom to choose who lives or dies in the story, but sexuality should be immutable.

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sarakirrer wrote...

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Thats kind of a problem. My character determining a companions sexuality, in a way. Feels like a sim rather than an rpg. People just changing sexuality and whatsnot, just to cater to my needs or whatever.


I agree with your belief that one's character determining a companion's sexuality is problematic, but I also believe it was the only way to show equal treatment to both gay and straight players considering the resources available. I'd rather play a game that has four bisexual love interests than a game that treats gay player characters and straight player characters unequally.


Ohh I am all for all sexualities being treated equally as well. and i am well aware that this has not been the case in the past. I`d like to point out that romances, in general, is a fairly new concept in rpgs. I think i have only played 4 or 5 games that had them, to be honest. And 3 of those have had a possebility (usually just 1) gay romance. So I`d say same sex relationships got included fairly quickly. Look how long it took the movie or tv industry to include things like that.

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Plaintiff wrote...

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Rawgrim wrote...

Well i have no problems with more ss romances being added. I just don`t want them all to be bisexual. Feels like a shortcut as well.

Dragons and magic are part of the lore, so in Thedas its not unrealistic at all.

It is a shortcut. Gaider as said that he would prefer to do an even spread of sexualities, had he the resources. But the best way to be fair, given the limitations, is to simply make all four LIs romanceable by characters of both genders. Fairness trumps "realism" in this case, as it should in all cases, in my opinion.

But he also doesn't consider all the LIs to be "bisexual" anyway, but rather the sexualities of some characters are player-determined. Meaning they can be bisexual, exclsively straight or exclusively gay, depending on what you want to do for that playthrough.


Thats kind of a problem. My character determining a companions sexuality, in a way. Feels like a sim rather than an rpg. People just changing sexuality and whatsnot, just to cater to my needs or whatever.

Isn't the freedom to make choices that impact on the narrative/characters exactly what people on this forum keep saying Dragon Age needs more of?


Freedom to change the story and whatsnot, yes. Not to change peoples sexuality from the get go. Thats different. Its about your actions and moral choices etc changing the story. Not picking an option about what you want a followers sexual orientation to be.

I don't see how it's different. I don't understand why the player should have complete freedom to choose who lives or dies in the story, but sexuality should be immutable.


You pick who lives or die by doing an in game\\in story action. Picking a characters sexuality is more like an Out-Of-Character choice. Abit like using an editor, in a way.

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draken-heart wrote...

xAmilli0n wrote...

draken-heart wrote...

i am going to make a new thread tomorrow or something. About All Bi vs Gay/STR8/Bi. if you do post, try to keep it Civil and stay on topic.


That has been beat to death several times over already.  Start that thread at you're own risk.


Then this thread needs to get locked.


But this thread got so lively.  And I didn't mean to outright discourage you from making the more specific thread, just that you should be ready for the type of discussion that tends to bring.

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This thread is very civil, actually. Don`t see the need to close it.

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xAmilli0n wrote...

draken-heart wrote...

xAmilli0n wrote...

draken-heart wrote...

i am going to make a new thread tomorrow or something. About All Bi vs Gay/STR8/Bi. if you do post, try to keep it Civil and stay on topic.


That has been beat to death several times over already.  Start that thread at you're own risk.


Then this thread needs to get locked.


But this thread got so lively.  And I didn't mean to outright discourage you from making the more specific thread, just that you should be ready for the type of discussion that tends to bring.


the more specific thread was about NPC S/S LI specifically, not what is going on here.

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Thats kind of a problem. My character determining a companions sexuality, in a way. Feels like a sim rather than an rpg. People just changing sexuality and whatsnot, just to cater to my needs or whatever.

They're not your needs that are being catered to, but the needs of those who've been historically disenfranchised from this kind of thing. It's none of your concern.


Not to mention that in any given playthrough, the majority of your companions are not bi. As an example If your pc is male Anders is gay, if your pc is female Anders is straight. That is not the same thing as bi.


No, Anders is always pansexual - he says so himself, ffs.  Do I really need to link the post where Gaider says that while your perception may change between playthroughs, who Anders is doesn't change?  Not telling f!Hawke about Karl doesn't make him straight, it makes him not telling the woman he's crushing on that he likes dick because it's irrelevant.

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draken-heart wrote...

the more specific thread was about NPC S/S LI specifically, not what is going on here.


That's true, but the discussion that's been going on here has been generally civil and productive--I think it would be a shame to discourage that from going on even though it's only tangentially related to the original topic.

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Rawgrim wrote...

You pick who lives or die by doing an in gamein story action. Picking a characters sexuality is more like an Out-Of-Character choice. Abit like using an editor, in a way.

Well, I don't have a problem with that. Choosing which of Hawke's siblings dies is also an out-of-game choice tied to class. And we make an out-of-game choice about the general state of the world, both in Dragon Age and Mass Effect in the form of save imports, which affects narrative and sidequests.

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sarakirrer wrote...

draken-heart wrote...

the more specific thread was about NPC S/S LI specifically, not what is going on here.


That's true, but the discussion that's been going on here has been generally civil and productive--I think it would be a shame to discourage that from going on even though it's only tangentially related to the original topic.


now you are all talking about random stuff in no relation to S/S NPC romances.

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Thats kind of a problem. My character determining a companions sexuality, in a way. Feels like a sim rather than an rpg. People just changing sexuality and whatsnot, just to cater to my needs or whatever.

They're not your needs that are being catered to, but the needs of those who've been historically disenfranchised from this kind of thing. It's none of your concern.


Not to mention that in any given playthrough, the majority of your companions are not bi. As an example If your pc is male Anders is gay, if your pc is female Anders is straight. That is not the same thing as bi.


No, Anders is always pansexual - he says so himself, ffs.  Do I really need to link the post where Gaider says that while your perception may change between playthroughs, who Anders is doesn't change?  Not telling f!Hawke about Karl doesn't make him straight, it makes him not telling the woman he's crushing on that he likes dick because it's irrelevant.

Honestly, it bothers me that someone would hide that aspect of themselves from a person they purport to love.

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Plaintiff wrote...

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You pick who lives or die by doing an in gamein story action. Picking a characters sexuality is more like an Out-Of-Character choice. Abit like using an editor, in a way.

Well, I don't have a problem with that. Choosing which of Hawke's siblings dies is also an out-of-game choice tied to class. And we make an out-of-game choice about the general state of the world, both in Dragon Age and Mass Effect in the form of save imports, which affects narrative and sidequests.


Thats the game making a choice for you, so you don`t lack a mage or whatever. Its an event. If you had 1 sibling, and you for whatever reason got to pick his or her class, then it would be the same. All the stuff you import in ME and DA are based on choices you made in game. It imports your in-game deeds. So to speak. If you put Alistair on the throne, for example, it only happens because you convince him to do it. If i remember correctly it also requires the Persuasion skill + him being friends with you. You don`t change the character before you even run into him.

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I dont mean to offend anyone with this post, so please don't take this the wrong way, but why is there so much emphasis on the sexuality of the companions/npc? Why is it so important for such a vocal portion of the player base i mean? Like, i dont understand why every character should need to cater to everyone's individual sexual preferences (the "every character/npc/romance option should be bi idea specifically). That isn't realistic, and the sexual portion of the game, while adding extra depth to the character arcs, is wholly unnecessary to the game in general. I would prefer romance options continue to be somewhat limited, to create a tighter focus on the characters, add more depth, make it more realistic, instead of having the option to **** around the country side instead of saving it.

Though like I said, the romance/sex portions of the game really aren't necessary, and i'll probably ignore them like I largely did in the past 2 games. I was just looking for context into this. I'm wholly in support of same-sex, bi-sex, and hetero-sex, but i think it would be super weird having every character with a possible romance option throwing them selves at the main character regardless of anyone's sexuality or gender.

Real people have preferences, its more realistic that the characters do as well.

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draken-heart wrote...


now you are all talking about random stuff in no relation to S/S NPC romances.


Then go message a mod and ask them to close the thread. There is a list of them right below the quick reply box.

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draken-heart wrote...

sarakirrer wrote...

draken-heart wrote...

the more specific thread was about NPC S/S LI specifically, not what is going on here.


That's true, but the discussion that's been going on here has been generally civil and productive--I think it would be a shame to discourage that from going on even though it's only tangentially related to the original topic.


now you are all talking about random stuff in no relation to S/S NPC romances.


I made several comments about SS/ NPC romances though. They got ignored. By you and the others.

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Plaintiff wrote...

Harle Cerulean wrote...

Thrillho_82 wrote...

Xilizhra wrote...


Thats kind of a problem. My character determining a companions sexuality, in a way. Feels like a sim rather than an rpg. People just changing sexuality and whatsnot, just to cater to my needs or whatever.

They're not your needs that are being catered to, but the needs of those who've been historically disenfranchised from this kind of thing. It's none of your concern.


Not to mention that in any given playthrough, the majority of your companions are not bi. As an example If your pc is male Anders is gay, if your pc is female Anders is straight. That is not the same thing as bi.


No, Anders is always pansexual - he says so himself, ffs.  Do I really need to link the post where Gaider says that while your perception may change between playthroughs, who Anders is doesn't change?  Not telling f!Hawke about Karl doesn't make him straight, it makes him not telling the woman he's crushing on that he likes dick because it's irrelevant.

Honestly, it bothers me that someone would hide that aspect of themselves from a person they purport to love.


In the long run, yes, I can definitely agree with that - but in initial flirting?  No.  f!Hawke doesn't need to know right off the bat.  And there's nothing to say Anders doesn't eventually tell an f!Hawke.  We don't see it happen, but it's entirely possible that some time in those intervening years we never see, he admits to f!Hawke what his relationship to Karl was.  Pretty much up to headcanon, that.


*edit: I will add that personally, I would be happier with non-subjective sexualities, if only because I despise the biphobia that's rampant on these boards, and the way even a lot of supporters of all LIs being available to either sex of PC will hasten to explain that it's not because they're bisexual, they're just straight or gay depending on your sex!!  So I'd love to have the bisexuality be in your face and undeniable (without necessarily being the promiscuous stereotype; I love Zev and Isabela, but it'd be nice to have a bisexual who is open about it who isn't promiscuous). <_<  But even with that personal preference for non-subjectiveness, I don't have a problem with Anders not telling f!Hawke about it at first, because it really isn't relevant to his initial flirting with her.  

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Strik1101 wrote...

I dont mean to offend anyone with this post, so please don't take this the wrong way, but why is there so much emphasis on the sexuality of the companions/npc? Why is it so important for such a vocal portion of the player base i mean? Like, i dont understand why every character should need to cater to everyone's individual sexual preferences (the "every character/npc/romance option should be bi idea specifically). That isn't realistic, and the sexual portion of the game, while adding extra depth to the character arcs, is wholly unnecessary to the game in general. I would prefer romance options continue to be somewhat limited, to create a tighter focus on the characters, add more depth, make it more realistic, instead of having the option to **** around the country side instead of saving it.

Though like I said, the romance/sex portions of the game really aren't necessary, and i'll probably ignore them like I largely did in the past 2 games. I was just looking for context into this. I'm wholly in support of same-sex, bi-sex, and hetero-sex, but i think it would be super weird having every character with a possible romance option throwing them selves at the main character regardless of anyone's sexuality or gender.

Real people have preferences, its more realistic that the characters do as well.


Spot on.

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Honestly, it bothers me that someone would hide that aspect of themselves from a person they purport to love.



It bothers me that someone would hide the fact that they were going to blow up the Chantry from a person the purport to love, too. :lol:

Joking aside, though, I agree with this sentiment. I always wished that Anders had also confided in a
female Hawke, if only because the fact that Karl was once Anders' lover
gave his loss and Anders' actions as a result of it a deeper meaning. I didn't really understand why Anders confiding in Hawke was restricted to male Hawke.

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sarakirrer wrote...

Plaintiff wrote...
Honestly, it bothers me that someone would hide that aspect of themselves from a person they purport to love.



It bothers me that someone would hide the fact that they were going to blow up the Chantry from a person the purport to love, too. :lol:

Joking aside, though, I agree with this sentiment. I always wished that Anders had also confided in a
female Hawke, if only because the fact that Karl was once Anders' lover
gave his loss and Anders' actions as a result of it a deeper meaning. I didn't really understand why Anders confiding in Hawke was restricted to male Hawke.

Perhaps social stigma. It's easier for a girl to admit that they had been with another girl before since many guys find it "hot" while a guy who had been with another guy would generally turn people off. 

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Strik1101 wrote...

I dont mean to offend anyone with this post, so please don't take this the wrong way, but why is there so much emphasis on the sexuality of the companions/npc? Why is it so important for such a vocal portion of the player base i mean? Like, i dont understand why every character should need to cater to everyone's individual sexual preferences (the "every character/npc/romance option should be bi idea specifically). That isn't realistic, and the sexual portion of the game, while adding extra depth to the character arcs, is wholly unnecessary to the game in general. I would prefer romance options continue to be somewhat limited, to create a tighter focus on the characters, add more depth, make it more realistic, instead of having the option to **** around the country side instead of saving it.

Though like I said, the romance/sex portions of the game really aren't necessary, and i'll probably ignore them like I largely did in the past 2 games. I was just looking for context into this. I'm wholly in support of same-sex, bi-sex, and hetero-sex, but i think it would be super weird having every character with a possible romance option throwing them selves at the main character regardless of anyone's sexuality or gender.

Real people have preferences, its more realistic that the characters do as well.

What I don't understand is, why the hell do you care? There isn't an optimal solution regardless because of resource issues, so this is literally the best we're going to get, and IN NO WAY does having sexually-restricted romance options somehow make the themes better. It simply does not work in any universe.

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Rawgrim wrote...

Strik1101 wrote...

I dont mean to offend anyone with this post, so please don't take this the wrong way, but why is there so much emphasis on the sexuality of the companions/npc? Why is it so important for such a vocal portion of the player base i mean? Like, i dont understand why every character should need to cater to everyone's individual sexual preferences (the "every character/npc/romance option should be bi idea specifically). That isn't realistic, and the sexual portion of the game, while adding extra depth to the character arcs, is wholly unnecessary to the game in general. I would prefer romance options continue to be somewhat limited, to create a tighter focus on the characters, add more depth, make it more realistic, instead of having the option to **** around the country side instead of saving it.

Though like I said, the romance/sex portions of the game really aren't necessary, and i'll probably ignore them like I largely did in the past 2 games. I was just looking for context into this. I'm wholly in support of same-sex, bi-sex, and hetero-sex, but i think it would be super weird having every character with a possible romance option throwing them selves at the main character regardless of anyone's sexuality or gender.

Real people have preferences, its more realistic that the characters do as well.


Spot on.

Personally for me, as long as I have options in s/s option and not get stuck with just one option, I don't care if they're all bisexual or set orientations. I don't think it's asking too much to have equal representation. That's why if bisexality is not possible, I would generally prefer 2 bi/2 gay/2 straight. 

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Strik1101 wrote...

I dont mean to offend anyone with this post, so please don't take this the wrong way, but why is there so much emphasis on the sexuality of the companions/npc? Why is it so important for such a vocal portion of the player base i mean? Like, i dont understand why every character should need to cater to everyone's individual sexual preferences (the "every character/npc/romance option should be bi idea specifically). That isn't realistic, and the sexual portion of the game, while adding extra depth to the character arcs, is wholly unnecessary to the game in general. I would prefer romance options continue to be somewhat limited, to create a tighter focus on the characters, add more depth, make it more realistic, instead of having the option to **** around the country side instead of saving it.

Though like I said, the romance/sex portions of the game really aren't necessary, and i'll probably ignore them like I largely did in the past 2 games. I was just looking for context into this. I'm wholly in support of same-sex, bi-sex, and hetero-sex, but i think it would be super weird having every character with a possible romance option throwing them selves at the main character regardless of anyone's sexuality or gender.

Real people have preferences, its more realistic that the characters do as well.


I don't find your post offensive at all. The reason why I believe the sexuality of companion characters is important is that I believe that every person (regardless sexuality, gender, etc) should have the opportunity to see themselves represented equally in media. It can be really discouraging NOT to see yourself reflected in the games you play (and the television you watch, books you read, etc).

In roleplaying games like Dragon Age, this concept is especially important because many people enjoy playing characters that reflect themselves. For a lot of peope who enjoy the romances, this includes having the ability to romance someone that matches their sexual preference.

Like I've said before, I too think having every love interest being bisexual (or Hawke-sexual) is problematic; however, I'd rather give gay and straight players equal opportunity to romance the players of their choice rather than have an unequal amount of gay or straight love interests. That may not be a priority for everyone, but it is for me!

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Strik1101 wrote...

I dont mean to offend anyone with this post, so please don't take this the wrong way, but why is there so much emphasis on the sexuality of the companions/npc? Why is it so important for such a vocal portion of the player base i mean? Like, i dont understand why every character should need to cater to everyone's individual sexual preferences (the "every character/npc/romance option should be bi idea specifically). That isn't realistic, and the sexual portion of the game, while adding extra depth to the character arcs, is wholly unnecessary to the game in general. I would prefer romance options continue to be somewhat limited, to create a tighter focus on the characters, add more depth, make it more realistic, instead of having the option to **** around the country side instead of saving it.

Though like I said, the romance/sex portions of the game really aren't necessary, and i'll probably ignore them like I largely did in the past 2 games. I was just looking for context into this. I'm wholly in support of same-sex, bi-sex, and hetero-sex, but i think it would be super weird having every character with a possible romance option throwing them selves at the main character regardless of anyone's sexuality or gender.

Real people have preferences, its more realistic that the characters do as well.

What I don't understand is, why the hell do you care? There isn't an optimal solution regardless because of resource issues, so this is literally the best we're going to get, and IN NO WAY does having sexually-restricted romance options somehow make the themes better. It simply does not work in any universe.



Sure you can have great themes when the romances are "restricted" as well. They neither make them better or worse. And it does work in plenty "universes".

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Sure you can have great themes when the romances are "restricted" as well. They neither make them better or worse. And it does work in plenty "universes".

You can have "great" themes, but they won't be better than they would be with bisexual characters, as you said. And what I meant is that the idea of the themes being superior doesn't work in any universe.