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Merril may be a bit airheaded but she is a bloodmage and can wipe the floor with anyone who attacks the party.

She reminds me of Phoebe from Friends, not a child, an adult but with child like talk sometimes


And I like Merrill, simply because I play my current Fem!Hawke as a womanizer who falls for her and tries to give up her womanizing for her.

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In that case, why not just not have flirting at all unless one of the characters just happens to be flirtarious? Which, incidentally, is what we got anyway.


But they don't would rather not homosexuals flirting with them. And that still isn't solved by what we have (at least for DA ][--ME3 was a bit better and honestly the way I'd prefer the romantic interaction to go. Romantic interaction, not the specific numbers and full-party or non-party aspect).

Why does anything in DA2 need to be solved? And, quite frankly, they can deal with it. If I can do so for numerous heterosexual flirtations with minimal impact, they can do so on their end.


I never really liked the All-BI set up anyways. I know it is fantasy, but even in fantasy, four bisexuals/demisexuals joining the party around the same time frame, that seemed really unrealistic.


This is hilarious. Most of my friend group is bisexual/queer.

But really... you can be okay with Flemeth during into a dragon and putting part of her soul into something, which can then be used to bring her back to life with some magic words. But four bisexual people knowing each other is just WAY TOO MUCH.

Honestly, I find that people who are against the bisexual options are assuming that everyone else in Thedas you encounter is straight. Newsflash folks: Straight is not some magical default that you are unless stated. For all we know, many many characters encountered have been bisexual or queer.

As a queer person.. if you hung out with me you might not know I am queer. Because that day I might only comment on a hot guy I see, and not any of the ladies. Or I might not feel like coming out. Otherdays, I might only comment on a pretty lady, and not any men. That doesn't make me gay for the day, just as the first option doesn't make me straight. So, really, can we stop assuming the sexualities of characters? 

ANYWAYS. To the topic of this thread... Having S/S options who are NPC's seems like it could be used as a way to keep teh gay out've the party. I would be okay with it as long as there are also S/S romance options within the party as well, so that it doesn't have the conotation of keeping queer characters out of the party. Though really, to be fair then there would also need to be O/S (opposite sex) NPC romance options. 

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Soundsystem wrote...

draken-heart wrote...

Xilizhra wrote...

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In that case, why not just not have flirting at all unless one of the characters just happens to be flirtarious? Which, incidentally, is what we got anyway.


But they don't would rather not homosexuals flirting with them. And that still isn't solved by what we have (at least for DA ][--ME3 was a bit better and honestly the way I'd prefer the romantic interaction to go. Romantic interaction, not the specific numbers and full-party or non-party aspect).

Why does anything in DA2 need to be solved? And, quite frankly, they can deal with it. If I can do so for numerous heterosexual flirtations with minimal impact, they can do so on their end.


I never really liked the All-BI set up anyways. I know it is fantasy, but even in fantasy, four bisexuals/demisexuals joining the party around the same time frame, that seemed really unrealistic.


This is hilarious. Most of my friend group is bisexual/queer.

But really... you can be okay with Flemeth during into a dragon and putting part of her soul into something, which can then be used to bring her back to life with some magic words. But four bisexual people knowing each other is just WAY TOO MUCH.

Honestly, I find that people who are against the bisexual options are assuming that everyone else in Thedas you encounter is straight. Newsflash folks: Straight is not some magical default that you are unless stated. For all we know, many many characters encountered have been bisexual or queer.

As a queer person.. if you hung out with me you might not know I am queer. Because that day I might only comment on a hot guy I see, and not any of the ladies. Or I might not feel like coming out. Otherdays, I might only comment on a pretty lady, and not any men. That doesn't make me gay for the day, just as the first option doesn't make me straight. So, really, can we stop assuming the sexualities of characters? 

ANYWAYS. To the topic of this thread... Having S/S options who are NPC's seems like it could be used as a way to keep teh gay out've the party. I would be okay with it as long as there are also S/S romance options within the party as well, so that it doesn't have the conotation of keeping queer characters out of the party. Though really, to be fair then there would also need to be O/S (opposite sex) NPC romance options. 


People being able to shapeshift and do magic is part of the lore of the game. Ergo its not unrealistic in Thedas. Everyone being bisexual is not part of the lore of the gameworld (yet), so a bunch of them just happening to run into eachother, and all of them just happen to be very much into the PC is abit unrealistic.

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People being able to shapeshift and do magic is part of the lore of the game. Ergo its not unrealistic in Thedas. Everyone being bisexual is not part of the lore of the gameworld (yet), so a bunch of them just happening to run into eachother, and all of them just happen to be very much into the PC is abit unrealistic.

The majority of elves we've seen so far, whose sexuality has been brought up, have been bisexual. Hence, with that as a sort of norm for them, Merrill and Fenris fit perfectly. This only leaves Isabela and Anders, who are perfectly acceptable statistically (though really, the odds that any party would naturally absorb the combination of Aveline/Isabela/Anders/Fenris are very low too). In any case, none of them are truly into the PC beyond a moment of attraction unless the PC pursues this.

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Still beat only having one option to choose from. If you don't like the only option available, tough luck. If Cortez was the only option, my Shep would have been forever alone.


Its a roleplaying game, though. Not a dating sim. I didn`t like any of the love interests in ME1. Tought luck for me too. The game was still damn good.

What does that have to do with anything?

Bioware obviously can't account for everyone's precise personal taste, but they can at least make an effort to represent sexual minorities. Something they apparently just weren't able to do for homosexual men in ME1 or 2, despite apparently being more than capable of providing six heterosexual romance options in a single game, and minor content for people who might be interested in pursuing a lesbian relationship.

Whether or not a homosexual player likes the options presented to him is irrelevent, the problem is that there aren't any for the first two games and then only two in ME3.

It would've been relatively simple to make any of the ME2 romances bisexual or same-sex only, if they'd just bothered to do it. Homosexual romance content is not any more difficult to create than heterosexual romance content, it's purely a matter of pronouns. There's really no excuse for the lack of it in ME1 or ME2, nor for providing up to seven potential romanceable women for a heterosexual manShepard in ME3, while every other sexual orientation makes do with less than half that amount.

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As far as I know, no where in the lore of the game is anything stated as to the sexual mores of Thedas. But, we know that there are homosexual characters, bisexual characters, and straight characters. So what? It's just like real life. Don't want to engage in a same sex relationship, then do what I do; tell the guy you're not interested and hit on Merril. Frankly, I think it's great that Bioware is providing content for other fans of the game to enjoy, even if it's content I have no interest in playing.

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Rawgrim wrote...

People being able to shapeshift and do magic is part of the lore of the game. Ergo its not unrealistic in Thedas. Everyone being bisexual is not part of the lore of the gameworld (yet), so a bunch of them just happening to run into eachother, and all of them just happen to be very much into the PC is abit unrealistic.

What's "unrealisitic" is that we're supposed to accept the notion that several characters are apparently more than willing to engage in a sexual relationship with a member of another species, but not with same-gendered members of their own species.

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Plaintiff wrote...

Bioware obviously can't account for everyone's precise personal taste, but they can at least make an effort to represent sexual minorities. Something they apparently just weren't able to do for homosexual men in ME1 or 2, despite apparently being more than capable of providing six heterosexual romance options in a single game, and minor content for people who might be interested in pursuing a lesbian relationship.

Whether or not a homosexual player likes the options presented to him is irrelevent, the problem is that there aren't any for the first two games and then only two in ME3.

It would've been relatively simple to make any of the ME2 romances bisexual or same-sex only, if they'd just bothered to do it. Homosexual romance content is not any more difficult to create than heterosexual romance content, it's purely a matter of pronouns. There's really no excuse for the lack of it in ME1 or ME2, nor for providing up to seven potential romanceable women for a heterosexual manShepard in ME3, while every other sexual orientation makes do with less than half that amount.


Actually, there is a VERY good reason for them to not have had any homosexual romances in the first 2 ME games.  The fact that few, if any, other games had done it therefore they didn't know if it would be accepted.  And, the fact that even just those few years ago homosexuality was more frowned on then it is today.  Heck, I'm not sure if any States even allowed gay marriage when ME2  was being developed.  The simple fact of the matter is there are more heterosexuals then homosexuals in the world.  Ergo, it makes sense for a company to produce a product aimed at the clientele they KNOW they have, instead of a minority to whom that content may end up alienating to the majority.

Of course, as time went on many people started clamoring for homosexual romances.  In ME3, there were 2.  Could they have had more?  I don't know.  You tell me.  You spend most of the time flitting around the universe in command of a frigate, occasionally hopping out to kill things.  Not exactly a dating mecca for anyone.  (Personally, I dislike the idea of romance on your ship; what about the chain of command?  Morale? )  But I digress.  Bioware has seen that they can include homosexuality in their games without it adversely affecting their bottom dollar.  Heck, you should be happy for them.  After all, they've pioneered not only romance options, but homosexual romance options!  You don't see THAT in WoW, do you?  Or any other game really.  To look back and say, "Well, they COULD have done THIS, or THAT!  But they didn't so they're bad!' is ludicrous.  This is new ground they've broken, who can blame them for going slowly? 

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Actually, there is a VERY good reason for them to not have had any homosexual romances in the first 2 ME games. The fact that few, if any, other games had done it therefore they didn't know if it would be accepted. And, the fact that even just those few years ago homosexuality was more frowned on then it is today. Heck, I'm not sure if any States even allowed gay marriage when ME2 was being developed. The simple fact of the matter is there are more heterosexuals then homosexuals in the world. Ergo, it makes sense for a company to produce a product aimed at the clientele they KNOW they have, instead of a minority to whom that content may end up alienating to the majority.

That excuse worked... sort of... in ME1. It stopped in ME2, when the same damned company's own Dragon Age got away with it. Not that I'm terribly angry about it, but it's noteworthy.

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Actually, there is a VERY good reason for them to not have had any homosexual romances in the first 2 ME games.

Dazzle me.

The fact that few, if any, other games had done it therefore they didn't know if it would be accepted

I don't consider that an acceptable excuse. If "it hasn't been done before" was a good reaason to not do things, then no new developments would ever be made.

And, the fact that even just those few years ago homosexuality was more frowned on then it is today.  Heck, I'm not sure if any States even allowed gay marriage when ME2  was being developed.  The simple fact of the matter is there are more heterosexuals then homosexuals in the world.  Ergo, it makes sense for a company to produce a product aimed at the clientele they KNOW they have, instead of a minority to whom that content may end up alienating to the majority.

I don't consider kowtowing to moronic bigotry to be an acceptable excuse either.

Of course, as time went on many people started clamoring for homosexual romances.  In ME3, there were 2.  Could they have had more?  I don't know.  You tell me.

Considering they had seven romanceable females for a straight Shepard, I think it would've been more than feasible, yes. Some of those females might have needed to be cut out of development at the conceptual stage, however, in order to make room for the new characters, and others would need to be reconceptualised as bisexuals or lesbians.

You spend most of the time flitting around the universe in command of a frigate, occasionally hopping out to kill things.  Not exactly a dating mecca for anyone.  (Personally, I dislike the idea of romance on your ship; what about the chain of command?  Morale? )  But I digress.  Bioware has seen that they can include homosexuality in their games without it adversely affecting their bottom dollar.  Heck, you should be happy for them.  After all, they've pioneered not only romance options, but homosexual romance options!  You don't see THAT in WoW, do you?  Or any other game really.  To look back and say, "Well, they COULD have done THIS, or THAT!  But they didn't so they're bad!' is ludicrous.  This is new ground they've broken, who can blame them for going slowly? 

I'm glad that they're doing it, yes. But as the only game company that is doing it, flaws in their implementation are much more obvious. And it affects the amount of money they get from me.

When I learned that the ME games allowed for stragiht and lesbian romance, but did not make provision for homosexual males, it had a negative impact on my view of the series, and as a result, I didn't buy any of the games until they were bundled together in the ME boxed trilogy. If it weren't for that, I would never have played any Mass Effect games at all.

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I don't consider kowtowing to moronic bigotry to be an acceptable excuse either.

Well... to be fair, the only reason any company really considers important is "will this make us more or less money?"

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Rawgrim wrote...

Soundsystem wrote...

draken-heart wrote...

Xilizhra wrote...

EntropicAngel wrote...

Xilizhra wrote...

In that case, why not just not have flirting at all unless one of the characters just happens to be flirtarious? Which, incidentally, is what we got anyway.


But they don't would rather not homosexuals flirting with them. And that still isn't solved by what we have (at least for DA ][--ME3 was a bit better and honestly the way I'd prefer the romantic interaction to go. Romantic interaction, not the specific numbers and full-party or non-party aspect).

Why does anything in DA2 need to be solved? And, quite frankly, they can deal with it. If I can do so for numerous heterosexual flirtations with minimal impact, they can do so on their end.


I never really liked the All-BI set up anyways. I know it is fantasy, but even in fantasy, four bisexuals/demisexuals joining the party around the same time frame, that seemed really unrealistic.


This is hilarious. Most of my friend group is bisexual/queer.

But really... you can be okay with Flemeth during into a dragon and putting part of her soul into something, which can then be used to bring her back to life with some magic words. But four bisexual people knowing each other is just WAY TOO MUCH.

Honestly, I find that people who are against the bisexual options are assuming that everyone else in Thedas you encounter is straight. Newsflash folks: Straight is not some magical default that you are unless stated. For all we know, many many characters encountered have been bisexual or queer.

As a queer person.. if you hung out with me you might not know I am queer. Because that day I might only comment on a hot guy I see, and not any of the ladies. Or I might not feel like coming out. Otherdays, I might only comment on a pretty lady, and not any men. That doesn't make me gay for the day, just as the first option doesn't make me straight. So, really, can we stop assuming the sexualities of characters? 

ANYWAYS. To the topic of this thread... Having S/S options who are NPC's seems like it could be used as a way to keep teh gay out've the party. I would be okay with it as long as there are also S/S romance options within the party as well, so that it doesn't have the conotation of keeping queer characters out of the party. Though really, to be fair then there would also need to be O/S (opposite sex) NPC romance options. 


People being able to shapeshift and do magic is part of the lore of the game. Ergo its not unrealistic in Thedas. Everyone being bisexual is not part of the lore of the gameworld (yet), so a bunch of them just happening to run into eachother, and all of them just happen to be very much into the PC is abit unrealistic.


I'm just going to jump in here, even though I'm quite sure I will regret it.

All I can say is, who cares?  In a fantasy world where almost anything can happen why does it matter to you if a character is bi or not?  Not to mention that the only way you could possibly know if said character is bi is by meta gaming, WHO CARES?  WHy the hell does it matter?  Let them all be bi for fairness sake! 

Edit to be on topic:

I am perfectly fine with NPC romance options, however, I would prefer that all romance options remain hero-sexual so that everyone, no matter of sexuality, has access to any romantic interest they may choose.

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[quote]Plaintiff wrote...

[quote]Wolfva2 wrote...


[quote]The fact that few, if any, other games had done it therefore they didn't know if it would be accepted[/quote]
I don't consider that an acceptable excuse. If "it hasn't been done before" was a good reaason to not do things, then no new developments would ever be made.
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 I didn't say it hasn't been done before was a good reason not to do things.  What an asinine remark!  If that was the case, then they wouldn't have added SS relationships in DA and ME2!  D'UH.  I said they DIDN"T KNOW IF IT WOULD BE ACCEPTED.  So, in your world, it makes great sense for a company to take a great risk in doing something no one else has done.  ME 1 should have had Shepard in an N7 ball gag and backless chaps perhaps?  Instead of the SSV Normandy it would have been the SSV Pink Flamingo.  ALL relations would have been same sex.  The game, of course, would have tanked.  As would Bioware.  Instead, they decided to play it safe, to slowly introduce certain previously taboo features into the game.  As they were accepted, they expanded the scope, and still are.  

Let me clue you in to a fact of life.  If you want change, you do it gradually.  The people who marched down the street screaming, "We're HERE!  We're QUEER!!  Get USED TO IT!!!" did more to set back the acceptance of homosexuality then any bigot.  On the other hand, people like Ellen Degeneris, who somewhat quietly came out and lived her life as a lesbian woman without bashing people over the head?  She's done more to advance the acceptance of homosexuality.  Bioware is taking it slow and easy.  You'd rather they go hard and fast.  Ok, that's your opinion.  You can refuse to buy their games because they haven't gone far enough fast enough for your liking.  You can complain here that they aren't doing enough.  Me?  I'll sit back and point out that AT LEAST THEY'RE DOING SOMETHING!  As opposed to the rest of the gaming countries which aren't doing anything.  I kinda sorta think that SUPPORTING THEM in their effort would go a wee bit farther then refusing to support them because they aren't flamboyant enough.  Frankly, if you read the comments in this thread, you might see there isn't exacly universal acceptance of homosexuality even in this day and age.  Slow and easy is the right approach.

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Let me clue you in to a fact of life. If you want change, you do it gradually. The people who marched down the street screaming, "We're HERE! We're QUEER!! Get USED TO IT!!!" did more to set back the acceptance of homosexuality then any bigot.

No they didn't. Quiet integration is all well and good, but visibility is an important component as well, and you're vastly underestimating the networking power of bigots. Regardless, no societal change has ever come about of being entirely well-behaved.

In any case, Bioware... is doing something, to be sure, but that's no reason to not exhort it to do better. Of course, they may have settled upon a winning format here already and just need to keep it. Regardless, the system of bigotry is rapidly dying.

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I didn't say it hasn't been done before was a good reason not to do things.  What an asinine remark!  If that was the case, then they wouldn't have added SS relationships in DA and ME2!  D'UH.  I said they DIDN"T KNOW IF IT WOULD BE ACCEPTED.  So, in your world, it makes great sense for a company to take a great risk in doing something no one else has done.

Um, yes. Because that is how everything gets done. Every advancement carries that risk.

ME 1 should have had Shepard in an N7 ball gag and backless chaps perhaps?  Instead of the SSV Normandy it would have been the SSV Pink Flamingo.  ALL relations would have been same sex.  The game, of course, would have tanked.  As would Bioware.  Instead, they decided to play it safe, to slowly introduce certain previously taboo features into the game.  As they were accepted, they expanded the scope, and still are.

Translation: "Strawman, strawman, strawman, offensive homosexual stereotyping, strawman."

Let me clue you in to a fact of life.  If you want change, you do it gradually.  The people who marched down the street screaming, "We're HERE!  We're QUEER!!  Get USED TO IT!!!" did more to set back the acceptance of homosexuality then any bigot.  On the other hand, people like Ellen Degeneris, who somewhat quietly came out and lived her life as a lesbian woman without bashing people over the head?  She's done more to advance the acceptance of homosexuality.

Do you seriously believe that civil rights advancements just happen automatically?

Ellen Degeneres didn't "live quietly", her coming out was big news, and her sexuality became a major aspect of her sitcom, and is prevalent in her current talk show.

Bioware is taking it slow and easy. You'd rather they go hard and fast.  Ok, that's your opinion.  You can refuse to buy their games because they haven't gone far enough fast enough for your liking.  You can complain here that they aren't doing enough.  Me?  I'll sit back and point out that AT LEAST THEY'RE DOING SOMETHING!  As opposed to the rest of the gaming countries which aren't doing anything.  I kinda sorta think that SUPPORTING THEM in their effort would go a wee bit farther then refusing to support them because they aren't flamboyant enough.

Well, right now, next to you, Bioware looks like a chapter of PFLAG. Equating increased homosexual representation with increased "flamboyancy", not to mention your other comments, completely undermine any point you might think you had.

Frankly, if you read the comments in this thread, you might see there isn't exacly universal acceptance of homosexuality even in this day and age.  Slow and easy is the right approach.

The fact that bigots post on this forum is not news to me.

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who said ball gag

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Rawgrim wrote...

People being able to shapeshift and do magic is part of the lore of the game. Ergo its not unrealistic in Thedas. Everyone being bisexual is not part of the lore of the gameworld (yet), so a bunch of them just happening to run into eachother, and all of them just happen to be very much into the PC is abit unrealistic.


I must've also missed the part of the lore that says everyone in Thedas is straight. Because we've actually seen a pretty good representation of queer characters, with no backlash to suggest that same-sex relationships are anything but accepted. 

People need to stop assuming "Everyone is straight unless otherwise mentioned". Heterosexism is both bigoted and ridiculous. 

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Let me clue you in to a fact of life.  If you want change, you do it gradually.  The people who marched down the street screaming, "We're HERE!  We're QUEER!!  Get USED TO IT!!!" did more to set back the acceptance of homosexuality then any bigot.  On the other hand, people like Ellen Degeneris, who somewhat quietly came out and lived her life as a lesbian woman without bashing people over the head?  She's done more to advance the acceptance of homosexuality.


Let me clue you into a fact of life. Change requires both. Your ridiculous arguement that queer people demanding acceptance is harmful is laughable. I'm sorry people demanding respect is so traumatic for you. I'm sorry you think folks saying, "Hey. Maybe lots of sexualities should be represented in gaming rather than just the privileged few.**" equates to marching in the streets shouting.

Has Bioware done better than many gaming companies? Yes. But these forums are filled with whiny little babies so scared of the gay that the idea of some characters who aren't hetero that they want Bioware to take them out of the games. I am glad Bioware has said that this is something they won't do. But that doesn't mean I'm going to let homophobic things on this site slide.

Whether meant to or not this thread has the implication that same sex romances should be made an out of party experience, so that they can be avoided. 

To keep going with the topic, some out of party stuff would be cool. But even in ME3 I found myself unsatisfied with the two NPC LI's, because their romances came across to me as less developed than those with party members. The problem again is that then they would need two straight options, since this Bioware team seems more into keeping the LI count even than the ME team (which I totally agree with). Hence, again, we come back to the simplest, fairest and least costly option being making the characters romanceable regardless of PC gender.

(** Personally I would like to see more representation of lots of groups that have been historically ignored. Like women, POC, queer people, trans people, and any number of others that at 2am I'm missing.)

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 I didn't say it hasn't been done before was a good reason not to do things.  What an asinine remark!  If that was the case, then they wouldn't have added SS relationships in DA and ME2!  D'UH.  I said they DIDN"T KNOW IF IT WOULD BE ACCEPTED.  So, in your world, it makes great sense for a company to take a great risk in doing something no one else has done. 


Jade Empire gave the option of a same-sex relationship with a male character named Sky and that game was released a couple of years before the first Mass Effect game. By the very same company, in fact.


ME 1 should have had Shepard in an N7 ball gag and backless chaps perhaps?  Instead of the SSV Normandy it would have been the SSV Pink Flamingo.  ALL relations would have been same sex.  The game, of course, would have tanked.  As would Bioware.  Instead, they decided to play it safe, to slowly introduce certain previously taboo features into the game.  As they were accepted, they expanded the scope, and still are. 


Wild strawmen and really asinine stereotypes. That's charming.

I failed to notice any assless chaps or pink flamingos in Dragon Age 2, which contained just as many same-sex options as straight options for male characters. Somehow the first and second Mass Effect game managed to include a homosexual relationship between Shepard and a female character without rupturing the Universe As We Know It, though I suspect the inclusion was not entirely for the courtesy of gay female players.

Let me clue you in to a fact of life.  If you want change, you do it gradually. 


Which reality are we speaking of? Social changes don't just spring out of nowhere, people have to demand them.

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Why does anything in DA2 need to be solved? And, quite frankly, they can deal with it. If I can do so for numerous heterosexual flirtations with minimal impact, they can do so on their end.


That's a fair point of view. But I don't think you can argue for more of something, while simultaneously arguing that everyone must experience it. Be it either side.

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I think if the game is good, people will buy it. Skyrim has "bisexuality" in it, and it sold extremely well. DAO had it as well, even though they don't have the homosexual LIs (Isabela and Anders) initiate the move but still.


Skyrim doesn't have really any sexuality in it, but I see your point.


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And it wouldn't bother you if a male character made "leading" statements (to use your word) toward your male PC? Or, I suppose, if a female character did the same?

I suppose what I'm getting at is that if some characters can't be overly flirtatious, then none of them should, gay or straight. 

And if that's something you're for, then fair enough. I liked that our companions in DA2 expressed an interest in the PC (a lot, actually), but can agree to disagree. 



It doesn't. As I said before, I thought ME3 did it well. I was very alert to the changes, but honestly there was never a time where it felt like Cortex was coming onto me--while at the same time there was definitely the option to jump that way--and I liked that. Or for Kaidan, even better: I didn't even experience it in game because I didn't buy him liquor.

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...and minor content for people who might be interested in pursuing a lesbian relationship.


That's not true, and you know it: the Liara romance is every bit as valid as any other.



And, unrelated to that ^ post, I have to say, I'm seeing a lot of finger-pointing here that only cripples any points that are being made.

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That's a fair point of view. But I don't think you can argue for more of something, while simultaneously arguing that everyone must experience it. Be it either side.

No one has to experience any single romance.

And, unrelated to that ^ post, I have to say, I'm seeing a lot of finger-pointing here that only cripples any points that are being made.

He brought it on himself. His post was a veritable finger magnet.

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No one has to experience any single romance.


True. But they do have to experience the flirting, possibly increased by that petitioned inclusion.

He brought it on himself. His post was a veritable finger magnet.


...you know, I was kind of serious, but seeing you actually show a sense of humor makes me not care that much.:P

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Alistair mentions being raised to treat WOMEN with respect


has nothing to do with his sexuality. At all. To me, anyway. You can replace the word "women" with "mother" or "parents." I guess I just don't see it.


Actually, it does as the conversation itself is about sex.  But IIRC, in that conversation he also asks, "Have you ever licked a lamppost in winter?" to both males and females, which I actually thought was an admission to bisexuality.

ETA: Actually, on further reflection, that statement really doesn't have much to do with whom he's attracted to (the women with respect one) -- and instead talks about how he was taught to court women.

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True. But they do have to experience the flirting, possibly increased by that petitioned inclusion.

They don't need to experience it any more in DA2 than in DAO. Of course, people hated Zevran too, but again, my sympathies are minimal for anyone who can't maneuver through a few lines of dialogue without going nuts on the forums. The only real problem is when you're forced to initiate things, like with Jacob in ME2.

Also, truly, I don't see any response to his post that wasn't deserved.

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[quote]Soundsystem wrote...

[quote]Rawgrim wrote...

People being able to shapeshift and do magic is part of the lore of the game. Ergo its not unrealistic in Thedas. Everyone being bisexual is not part of the lore of the gameworld (yet), so a bunch of them just happening to run into eachother, and all of them just happen to be very much into the PC is abit unrealistic.

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I must've also missed the part of the lore that says everyone in Thedas is straight. Because we've actually seen a pretty good representation of queer characters, with no backlash to suggest that same-sex relationships are anything but accepted. 

People need to stop assuming "Everyone is straight unless otherwise mentioned". Heterosexism is both bigoted and ridiculous. 

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Let me clue you in to a fact of life.  If you want change, you do it gradually.  The people who marched down the street screaming, "We're HERE!  We're QUEER!!  Get USED TO IT!!!" did more to set back the acceptance of homosexuality then any bigot.  On the other hand, people like Ellen Degeneris, who somewhat quietly came out and lived her life as a lesbian woman without bashing people over the head?  She's done more to advance the acceptance of homosexuality.
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Let me clue you into a fact of life. Change requires both. Your ridiculous arguement that queer people demanding acceptance is harmful is laughable. I'm sorry people demanding respect is so traumatic for you. I'm sorry you think folks saying, "Hey. Maybe lots of sexualities should be represented in gaming rather than just the privileged few.**" equates to marching in the streets shouting.

Has Bioware done better than many gaming companies? Yes. But these forums are filled with whiny little babies so scared of the gay that the idea of some characters who aren't hetero that they want Bioware to take them out of the games. I am glad Bioware has said that this is something they won't do. But that doesn't mean I'm going to let homophobic things on this site slide.

Whether meant to or not this thread has the implication that same sex romances should be made an out of party experience, so that they can be avoided. 

To keep going with the topic, some out of party stuff would be cool. But even in ME3 I found myself unsatisfied with the two NPC LI's, because their romances came across to me as less developed than those with party members. The problem again is that then they would need two straight options, since this Bioware team seems more into keeping the LI count even than the ME team (which I totally agree with). Hence, again, we come back to the simplest, fairest and least costly option being making the characters romanceable regardless of PC gender.

(** Personally I would like to see more representation of lots of groups that have been historically ignored. Like women, POC, queer people, trans people, and any number of others that at 2am I'm missing.)


Thats the thing with fantasy settings. Unless stuff is explained otherwise, the reader\\viewer is to expect things works as in our world. Thedas has dragons. Fine. then thats realistic in Thedas. And I didn`t say homosexual relationships were not accepted in Thedas. I just said it was unrealistic that every love interest just happen to be bisexual, and all of them are into Hawke.


And I am sure ALOT of different sexualities are being ignored in games and such, homosexuality is not one of them.