My Insecure Feelings Towards "Best of the Best" Players (help)
#176
Posté 15 février 2013 - 06:58
But yes, BOTB means nothing except that you have a lot of free time. Almost none of the challenges require a high level of skill to complete.
I'm working on it to sate my completionist tendencies, but with the amount of time I spend on the game, it'll probably be another few months, at least.
#177
Posté 15 février 2013 - 07:09
#178
Posté 15 février 2013 - 07:32
saints 944 wrote...
^Dbag answer. Kid after playing 950+ hours I can only say don't sweat it. It just a card and some people do not even deserve it, just keeping playing silver until it' casual then try gold.Dest1ny wrote...
My god... Its a banner on a meaningless game which usually doesn't display the skills of a player using it. Nothing more nothing less. You need to stop building it up as something important and significant. This topic is an example of the problems with banners and how people overthink too much.
Get out more. Seriously. In fact, chances are you'll get the banner (whenever that is) you'll wear it, do badly in a game and get exceptionally angry with yourself.
Not at all. It's a truthful and blunt answer. It's needed considering the paragraphs written by the op.
#179
Posté 15 février 2013 - 07:41
Dest1ny wrote...
saints 944 wrote...
^Dbag answer.Dest1ny wrote...
My
god... Its a banner on a meaningless game which usually doesn't display
the skills of a player using it. Nothing more nothing less. You need to
stop building it up as something important and significant. This topic
is an example of the problems with banners and how people overthink too
much.
Get out more. Seriously. In fact, chances are you'll get
the banner (whenever that is) you'll wear it, do badly in a game and get
exceptionally angry with yourself.
Kid after playing 950+ hours I can only say don't sweat it. It just a
card and some people do not even deserve it, just keeping playing silver
until it' casual then try gold.
Not at all. It's a truthful and blunt answer. It's needed considering the paragraphs written by the op.
It's an ignorant answer from an armchair psychologist who has no idea what they're talking about.
Modifié par CmnDwnWrkn, 15 février 2013 - 07:46 .
#180
Posté 15 février 2013 - 07:54
July R. Legend wrote...
It's a banner that has haunting me for a while. I'm always nervous whenever I enter a lobby and see a player with "Best of the Best" banner... Those people have done just about everything there is to do in multiplayer. Heh...I on the other hand have yet to even solo Silver...
I look at that banner and sometimes it feels like those players who use it are laughing at me in the background. When they see my N7 Rating of 1719, Challenge Points of 7850, and "Hero of the Last Days" banner (favorite banner btw) it feels like they're saying "Awww, look at the little one trying to rise up! You'll never be as good as me! Hahahahah!". It may be all an exaggeration, but this is how I feel... It feels like I'm being mocked by those players, and it hurts!
I suppose it's natural for them to feel this way though if they did, to feel this way towards players using HotLD banner, the average amount of players that use HotLD aren't known to be that good at the game. Granted, it was also one of the easiest banners to obtain when the event was out. But I'm using it because its the only one that I actually like. Before it existed there was no other banner I wanted on my profile, and I didn't have a banner on by choice. The instant I saw HotLD though after completing Operation Prophecy I fell in love. That banner was applied and I never took it off since. But now, there is one more banner that has caught my attention, it's a new banner that I would even give up my HotLD for. An interesting twist too as you'll soon understand, but anyway, that new banner is FemShep's "Best of the Best". Funny isn't it? But it's a banner out of my reach thanks to "Squad Elite" and "Solo Mastery".
This problem goes beyond simple jealously. In fact, I don't even think it is jealously. I'm not upset when I see someone with Best of the Best & knowing that it isn't one I have. And the banner by itself also isn't what is causing my insecurity. It's seeing other people with the banner combined with knowing that you have to have a high skill level to obtain it. That means all of those people I saw with Best of the Best have a high skill level! Inside, I should be happy whenever I team up with someone on multiplayer who has Best of the Best banner because it also means teaming up with an ally that's really strong... but I'm not. I should have the feeling of comfort that everyone always wants in a teammate, to play with someone that knows what they're doing in the game.... but I don't. This is what has been haunting me since I found out about Best of the Best banner. I get tortured mentally and I'm unsure as to what I'm supposed to do...
(My first encounter with a Best of the Best player was in a Gold session. They voted a kick on me for using a level 10 character. Everyone else was level 20. No one else agreed to the kick thoug, so that player just left. It showed that they were the one who voted the kick... Every other time after that which involved me encountering one of those players would always end in either them coming in the session & leaving immediately for an unknown reason, or me entering their session only to walk out before game start because of my insecurity. I have never been in a live game with someone who uses Best of the Best. But if I did then I'm sure my performance would be affected more negative than positive with the lack of morale.)
I don't want to feel this way... I don't want to feel like everyone who has high accomplishments will look down on me for having so little. It's a painful heartache that shouldn't hurt, and I shouldn't care about what other people think. Yet, it's still there. Is it normal to feel this way? What is it that's causing me to feel like this? And how do I stop it?
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the banner means nothing. 99% of it is just grinding and time played. nothing is diffcult to do. i guess you can say lone wolf is kinda, but in reality its not since you can kroguard geth, also if you have an IL friend who is good they can just solo gold on your account for you. I've come across some BotB banner people who were terrible at the game. They also could have missile glitched their way for lone wolf. I mean one guy i came across was only a silver player (i checked his N7HQ) cause he was terible in gold. I think he scored like 4k while trying. and got me a 15 revive medal. I think a friend did his lone wolf for him or he missile glicthed cause I don't see how he could have done it as a kroguard and geth,
dont be insecure, its just a banner and means nothing. and who cares about skill level. its just a vieo game. people take it too serious IMO
#181
Posté 15 février 2013 - 08:07
Regardless of whatever accolades they have, they can either be really skilled or they can suck ass.
#182
Posté 15 février 2013 - 08:15
#183
Posté 15 février 2013 - 08:34
If the OP is being serious: Not to be mean but it sounds like you have some self - esteem issues that have nothing to do with ME3. I strongly encourage you to seek counseling.
Modifié par Vech24, 15 février 2013 - 08:36 .
#184
Posté 15 février 2013 - 08:45
CmnDwnWrkn wrote...
It's an ignorant answer from an armchair psychologist who has no idea what they're talking about.
Not sure how its ignorant. I have as much idea as anyone else. It's easy to say you have no idea either. It's a point of view. God FORBID someone have a point of view that is straight forward and just that - a point of view. Nothing ignorant about it or illustrates such.
#185
Posté 15 février 2013 - 08:49
#186
Posté 15 février 2013 - 08:54
Modifié par Striker93175, 15 février 2013 - 08:55 .
#187
Posté 15 février 2013 - 08:57
#188
Posté 15 février 2013 - 09:01
Striker93175 wrote...
Buh bye BotB!
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I just LOL'd, hard.
Modifié par UKStory135, 15 février 2013 - 09:01 .
#189
Posté 15 février 2013 - 09:07
I just wear the femshep BotB because she's hot (I have a thing for redheads).
Modifié par artificial-ignorance, 15 février 2013 - 09:09 .
#190
Posté 15 février 2013 - 09:08
The way you put it down shows how ignorant it is. Next time think before you put it down but if you DID think that OT then think AGAIN about it for a good full 5 minutes.Dest1ny wrote...
CmnDwnWrkn wrote...
It's an ignorant answer from an armchair psychologist who has no idea what they're talking about.
Not sure how its ignorant. I have as much idea as anyone else. It's easy to say you have no idea either. It's a point of view. God FORBID someone have a point of view that is straight forward and just that - a point of view. Nothing ignorant about it or illustrates such.
Modifié par saints 944, 15 février 2013 - 09:09 .
#191
Posté 15 février 2013 - 09:12
Psychologist know how to say things without sounding like a Dbag.CmnDwnWrkn wrote...
It's an ignorant answer from an armchair psychologist who has no idea what they're talking about.
#192
Posté 15 février 2013 - 10:08
saints 944 wrote...
Psychologist know how to say things without sounding like a Dbag.CmnDwnWrkn wrote...
It's an ignorant answer from an armchair psychologist who has no idea what they're talking about.
Did it ever occur to you that maybe you're reading into things that other people wouldn't aren't seeing? Frankly I saw nothing d-bagesque about the post in question. It was blunt, yes, but it also clearly had the wellbeing of the OP in mind.
Also, saints, I'm starting to doubt you're actually reading the things you're responding to because CmnDwnWrkn clearly wrote 'armchair' psychologist, not psychologist, which makes your response nonsensical.
#193
Posté 15 février 2013 - 10:14
I honestly had no idea that people had such negative thoughts about the banner. It's a shame.
To the OP: have fun, be a good teammate and kill as much as you can. That's all anyone can ask or expect from another player in the game, regardless of the banner, challenge points or N7 ranking.
#194
Posté 15 février 2013 - 10:25
#195
Posté 15 février 2013 - 10:36
At the present time, I'm using Best of The Best banner, but sometimes I like to use Hardcore, Outsider or Monster banner.
Not a big deal.
#196
Posté 16 février 2013 - 12:00
AND really... if you only play bronze and they have the BoB banner.... what are they even doing there?
#197
Posté 16 février 2013 - 12:05
#198
Posté 16 février 2013 - 12:06
Just because they have it, doesn't mean they can play better than you. Let your inner beauty SHINE TROUGH!
#199
Posté 16 février 2013 - 12:15
Shenani's? I'm calling shenanigans.
#200
Posté 16 février 2013 - 12:20





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