I don't understand why people are so hung up about the endings still and Sheps death :S Destroy = Evil as you are committing genocide against the Geth and killing EDI, your friend. Control = Controlling the reapers to help rebuild and provide protection and keep the peace in the Galaxy (and I swear to God if anyone mentions Indoctrination Theory I won't waste my breath answering them). People say it is mind control, so your telling me that you would prefer a gang of murderers to be allowed to do what they want with their free will and kill as many people as they'd like, or simply re-habilitate them to be working members of society (which is basically what the Control option does, it like the re-writing of the Geth heretics, its not mind control or brainwashing, it is simply changing the math). And finally synthesis = Peace and happiness for everyone forever, as all life in the Galaxy is united under one banner and work together for a better future.
And this DLC is probably going to be the best yet as I would love to have more fleshed out romances and conversation with squadmates that were basically left out e.g. Samara, Jack, Miranda, Grunt, (Mordin, Jacob, Legion, Thane, Kasumi if possible). How can one dislike the concept of having a proper farewell to the characters we have all grown to love over the past 5 years, it utterly confounds me how so many people are cynical of this.