Lord Aesir wrote...
Commander Kurt wrote...
Lord Aesir wrote...
I brought up the nickname idea pages ago but nobody noticed...
It needn't be different for each companion. A unique pet name for each LI like Merril or Thane had would do wonders for those awkward moments though. Besides, how often do people really use one another's names in conversation? In my experience, friends only use one another's names either in greeting or in getting one another's attention. Anyone not as close can use the surname or title.
Preserving some element of customization is far higher on my list than an awkwardness issue that can be resolved in other ways.
Still no recognition..? I'm with you though, good thoughts.
Thanks 
My issue with nicknames, particularly if they were to go the route of every companion calling you by a nickname, is that nicknames are
offensive if someone hasn't earned the right to call you by one. Nicknames assume familiarity, as do pet names. Your LI calling you by a pet name? Sure, if that fits their personality. But you've hopefully established at least a certain level of familiarity with your LI before they start that. J. Random Companion calling you, idk, 'Chuckles' out of the blue five seconds after meeting her? Unless you're particularly personable, that's rude. I have a
name, use it until I say you can use something else.
And coming up with nicknames could be difficult. You can't nickname the PC based on appearance because we can edit that. Say they have a companion call you 'Red' because the default has red hair - well, that's nice, but if you don't play the default, it makes no sense. Personality is similar. Because it's not a pnp D&D or GURPS campaign, we can't have as much control over our PC's personality, but we still have some, within the guidelines of what is allowed us by the game's potential dialogue and actions. A nickname based off personality could easily be jarring because we don't percieve our PC's personality that way.
And nicknames are generally based off four things: a name (which we are presuming isn't set, if we need a nickname for companions to call us by, so that doesn't work), looks (addressed), personality (addressed), or hobbies/occupation. The latter only if it's something unusual enough to be worth comment by your friends. This doesn't seem like it would work well, because we may have very different ideas of our PC's hobbies. And when we're likely to have people calling us by job title used formally (if we are, in fact, an Inquisitor), having a job-based nickname wouldn't do much to make our friends seem particularly familiar.
Obviously, an LI could call us the cultural equivalent of "honey" or "sweetheart." That's not an issue there, aside from avoiding too sappy-weird of things (unless it suits the LI's personality, I suppose!)
But nicknames are not a sure-fire route. I wasn't entirely comfortable with Vega calling my f!Shep 'Lola' - he got away with it mainly because there's a certain amount of familiarity in their conversations before then. I'm still less pleased with it than if he'd called her 'Loca' to match m!Shep's 'Loco' - f!Shep's previous actions are no less crazy than m!Shep's, and there's an uncomfortable feeling of "Okay, so Vega can nickname a man on his own merits, but a woman is clearly just like other women?" IDK, maybe that one's just me - but either way, Shep is a much more defined character than our Dragon Age PCs, so nicknaming is easier. The same thing in DA2 or DA:O would have bothered me a lot more.