Commander Kurt wrote...
This thread makes me slightly sad.
I tried my damnest to like ASOIAF but two things ruined it for me; Lack of charm and lack of hope. [...]
I think DA:O was trying to be lighthearted with a sprinkle of darkness. DA2 tried to be dark with a sprinkle of lightheartedness. I liked them both, but I preferred the larger helping of charm and hope.
I understand what you mean. I have largely given up on the Walking Dead for a similar reason.... but...
Not to turn this into any more of a ASOIAF discussion, but I don't think you're giving the books enough credit here. Granted the series isn't done yet, so Martin could end it on a very negative note (say with the Ramsay Bolton becoming king), but I don't think that will happen because I think that would betray the tone of the series.
There are good characters, sure some of them have died, but there still rests hope. In fact, I'd argue the entire purpose of Daenerys in the books is to represent the hope of a better future (though for me, at least, she didn't become a particular interesting character until mid-way through the 3rd book). Plus there is Bran, well really all the Starks (including Jon), and even Tyrion is a relatively hopeful character. I could be wrong, and Martin could stab his fans in the back, but I don't think so. As with most writing, things have to get really dark before they can get better, that's the basic plot arc that I think Martin is using -- but who knows.
That I think is the big difference between DAO and DA2. It comes down to the first one being the fact that there was a "good" ending and the other one doesn't have one. The Warden saves the day, whereas Hawke starts a war. The plot arc wasn't really finished -- arguably even the personal story of Hawke's "rise to power" wasn't really finished.
I understand that the DA writers are in love with bittersweet but sometimes I don't think things have to be overtly dark or sad to be good. You could argue that Lord of the Rings is bittersweet at the end, with the Shire destroyed etc., but it never loses its sense that good things occurred and that justice was done. That's the sweet spot that DAO hit, but DA2 didn't.
All that being said, I think DA has already stolen enough from ASOIAF without needing to borrow more.