Foopydoopydoo wrote...
Ugh dear sweet potato jesus. That women suck at driving is a "fairly accurate generilization," which is an oxymoron if ever I've heard one. That men are better than women at math is a "fairly accurate generlization." Women are passive is a "fairly accurate generlization." Do you wanna keep playing this game or have I made my point? Generilizations do not represent a universal view, no matter how much you might like the idea, so telling me I should just be quiet and accept the fact that because I have a penis I am a neanderthal is incredibly, mind-bogglingly hypocritical.
And what you seem to be failing to realize is that what you're suggesting isn't an objectively better solution. It's benefiting one group over another. Which isn't right whatever your moral outrage might say.
I don't want to play a muscle bound man-ape in games. Yet that's what I get. Always. Would I prefer playing an average/skinny guy? Yes. Do I feel I have the moral high ground in asking for it? Yes. Do I also realize that me getting what I want comes at the cost of someone else losing what they love? Yes.
My beliefs, wants and desires might be, in my eyes, morally superior to any other conclusion but they remain my beliefs, wants and desires. Someone might believe something totally contradictory to my own beliefs but that doesn't make what they want less valid.
EDIT: Oh and btw I was calling THIS (the "which group should we try and placate?" argument that is going on, between us, right now. Is stupid) argument stupid. Not you. Hence "this argument is stupid" and not "your argument is stupid."
You're not understanding me, which is what I find frustrating. I never, ever, said that because you have a penis, you are a neanderthal. I said that bioware assumes, correctly or incorrectly, that their core audience would like to be a buff man who likes to stare at sexy ladies. I have made no personal judgments about you or anyone else. I wasn't even sure of your gender until this last post.
Do I think my fight is different from yours? Yeah. I do. It's not about diversity in body representation. It's about objectification, it's about over-sexualization, its about feeling a little like an outsider every time you pick up a game, because the women weren't designed to look strong and capable for you, they were designed to look sexy for the male players (the ones that the developer believes is their core audience). Each and every time, it makes me (and many, but not all, other female players) feel just a little less welcome in their own gaming experience. Every time I see something like Bethany or Isabela's enormous breasts, or nearly the entire female cast of Mass Effect 2, or the incredibly thin arms + big boobs of ME3 femShep and the DA:O models, I feel like I'm intruding just a little on a dude world that wasn't meant for me.
And that's only in recent Bioware games. A couple years ago, a friend of mine found out I was into RPGs and handed me his copy of the Witcher. Ha. That was a video game that definitely didn't care if any woman played it ever.
I'm allowed to raise a stink about the generalization that Bioware is currently making: that men like to stare at sexy ladies, and that's who buys our video games. I threw my hat in the ring and provided support for a dissenting opinion. Obviously some women are not in agreement. I make no generalizations about what other women want, and I make no generalizations about what the sum of men want. I am merely stating that if Bioware wants to sell games, they have to make generalizations about who is going to play their games and what kind of gaming experience those people want.
I was going to say some more about wanting my games' strong capable women to look like strong, capable women (in the long-sword swinging sense), but I've said it, and other people have said it, and if you're not getting by now, you're not going to get it. Hell, I already said a whole lot in this post, and I didn't even mean to. I'm done. You can tell me that I'm being judgemental and selfish again. I know that's not what I'm doing, and I'm done trying to convince you otherwise.
In the end, Bioware is gonna do what Bioware has to do to make more money. But unless we make a stink, they aren't going to change, because they are going to think their current formula works just fine, thank you very much.
Modifié par UndergoingMitosis, 27 mars 2013 - 07:14 .