UndergoingMitosis wrote...
Just as playing an over-sexualized female boob creature is also *a* male fantasy.
Growing up, in general, and growing up across multiple cultures, I can very firmly slap that down. I'm sure there 'are' men that find that idea interesting, but the majority of people I have come across, in my life, wanting to be more slender, be more curvy and have larger breasts - are not men.
More to the point, there was nothing overly sexual about my play addition play throughs of the Mass Effect series, DA:O and DA2 as a female character that had anything to do with your absurd assertion that it was due to some 'over-sexualized female bood creature' fantasy. Not only is the assertion wrong, but the suggestions itself is outright sick and offensive - making all sorts of assumptions about the males that would play a female character that - even if true in some cases - is not, I repeat not, in any way founded in sane reality for the rest.
I really want to emphasize that I'm not against lots of customization. If we get that, I'll be ecstatic. But considering Bioware is only giving us one race to play (because time), I'm thinking we're not going to get a whole lot of body diversity (again, because time).
If you want customization, then ask for it.
Asking for the female body to be changed, 'to your tastes' doesn't solve anything, just like asking for the male body to be changed, 'to my tastes' wouldn't solve anything. In both cases it only creates a new static, and leaves new people out. It puts people in the positions we were in prior. It leaves them out, and only includes us. I know how that feels. You should know how that feels. It's not a fun feeling. I don't like it. You don't like it. So why would either of want to do that to other people? Push for something that will actually include people.
Yes, I want to be able to play a character that looks how I'd like. Yes, I want you to be able to play a character that looks how you'd like. I do not want either of these things at the expense of other people - and I absolutely do not believe that people that want to play as male or female characters that look other than I, or you, would like do so out of some sick perverted fantasy.
Want to play a slender little bookworm girl, that's got long black hair, has really pale skin and small breasts? Fine. Want to play a more curvy feminine character with medium brunette hair and olive skin but dresses conservatively so the curves she happens to have aren't really on display as a personality quirk? Fine. Want to play a husky, outdoorsy female with tanned skin scars, average breasts and short blonde hair? Fine. Want to play a dark skinned muscle bound woman with tattoos and scars all over with large breasts and long braided hair? Fine. Want to mix and match aesthetics from those concepts and others? Fine. Now switch the genders and go through a variety of male body types, features and concepts. Those are all fine too. All of them are fine. The ones I don't like. The ones you don't like. The ones I do like. The ones you do like. All of them.
None of them are superior or right. They're all subject to taste. Asking that just one of them be forced on 'everyone' is, however, wrong. It's only doing, from a different angle, 'exactly' what is already done - what's been done already is that we have one body type, from both genders, always forced on us. You don't like that. So why would you do that again to other players? Ask for something that will 'actually' fix the problem. Ask for something that will 'actually' include people and bring them together.
Stop asking for one static to be replaced by another static, fixing nothing, only creating the same problem all over again - a cycle, not a solution. Ask for customization, something that can, if done right, actually fix the core problem.
You know what? Yes, customization 'is' less likely to happen, it will be harder to convince Bioware EA to give it to us . . . but you know what? Since when has the high road, the right choice, ever been the easy road to likely success?
Take the low road if you want to. No matter your intentions - it won't lead anywhere but to a cycle of the same problem repeated over and over and over. We'll have these, "the body type I like was left out and I think it should be the only body type we have access to" threads over and over and over, each one ignoring that they're just creating a new pool of happy people and new pools of unhappy people. Never thinking that if they all, in massive number, together, requested the customization control to serve all their tastes . . . maybe, just maybe, more than one group could be happy at a time.
But no. Let's be petty. "They got what they want now I want what I want and I don't care who gets left out as long as I get what I want." Let's be spitefull and assume anyone that likes other body types is some sort of pervert that oversexualizes women. Let's forget this is an RPG where we're supposed to create a character, a concept, of varying type - not one type - and try to play through the game as that character with all its flaws and limitations in place.
Variety. Choice. Customization. Inclusiveness.
Good.
Singularity. Lack of choice. Lack of customization. Exclusiveness.
Bad.