xAmilli0n wrote...
Harle Cerulean wrote...
xAmilli0n wrote...
This, while of course interesting, might not really matter. What is the difference between a non-romance character who is gay and one that is not? Unless their sexuality plays some role in the story or their character development, then why even bother specifying or even mentioning it?
Why bother giving Aveline a husband? Two of them, in fact? Why bother hook up Fenris and Isabela? Why bother have Sebastian flirt with Bethany? Why bother have Carver flirt with Merrill? 
I'd argue that for Aveline, that was an important of her character development. For the others, it was more just for good fun. Would it have made a difference if instead of Carver flirting with Merrill, it had been Bethany?
Ask yourself that question. Would it have made a difference? If you're trying to tell me the answer is no and therefore I shouldn't care, then why shouldn't it be Bethany?
Part of it is an issue of being told, but not shown. We're told that Thedas is more open to homosexuality, but we see relatively few characters outside of the LIs who show same-sex interest. If a companion does, it's always an LI - and always in the past, never the present. Zevran flirts a little with Alistair, but it very much has the air of 'teasing the straight boy,' not serious flirting, and if offered the chance to foursome with Alistair, the Warden, and Isabela, Zevran turns it down... when he won't turn down any of the other combinations with Isabela, so clearly Alistair is the factor there that makes him not want to join.
Leliana joining the Warden with Isabela is about as close as we come to present same sex interest, and frankly, that scene very much plays into the straight boy fantasy of sleeping with two women at once. It's not about their attraction
to each other. Isbela in DA2 talking about how she likes women is also relatively close, but we don't see her seriously flirt with any women besides f!Hawke, either.
In short, we see a rather heteronormative picture, outside of the LIs attraction to the PC. There's a few gay or lesbian couples scattered here and there in DA:O, and in DA2 the only non-heteronormative couple I recall seeing is Bran and Seredipity.
So yeah, where's the harm in a little bit of that side flirting being same sex? It's not 'pandering' to show something that's supposedly in the world. If they're doing it between a bunch of straight couples, what's wrong with asking that there be one that isn't straight?