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David Gaider on "The Impracticality of Sexism"


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JediHealerCosmin wrote...

If we were to go a little backwards in time, we could count Mission Vao and Juhani as female characters which couldn't be romanced.
Although that's a little tricky... Juhani could be romanced by a female Revan as a bug, but I think they fixed it, can't remember.

I'm fairly sure Juhani was supposed to be romanceable by a female Revan. Not that it matters, as Revan is canonically male (though the Exile is canonically female, pleasantly).

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 David Gaider's responses were well said. I always want more respect for individuals. That being said, I wouldn't focus anything entirely on appearance. In any kind of 'fantasy. or adventures of any kind, really, since we're inside of a nonreality -- most of us, most of the time want to look as close to 'our version of perfect' as we can make our character, which may include a scar or some 'imperfection', or may not. The NPCs could be a little less ridiculously over-the-top *cough* with their figures/clothing. I hope the respect will include dialogue and plotlines more in the future. It's all evolving, hopefully, and not devolving.

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LinksOcarina wrote...

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I wasn't refering to actually banging her.

I was refering to what is considered  typically attractive. Of course you shouldn't romance her, but that doesn't mean you can't appreciate the beauty out of character. 


Ah.

Well that's dependent on your character YOU make--if Hawke is fugly, she likely will be too. But if Hawke is nice and handsome or pretty, she'll likely be pretty too.

Her appearance is entirely dependent on your Hawke. So I don't think a judgement can be made there.


If thats the case, why is Jimmy saying Aveline is not attractive by typical standards? 

If you'll notice, Jimmy said nothing about Bethany at all. Perhaps there was a good reason for that. 

Bethany's looks are dependent on the appearance of your character and she is your sibling. I did not list her for the same reason I did not list Carver on my males list - incest is not progressive. 


To the person who made the Kasumi point, she is a DLC character. Bioware has yet to make a DLC character you can have sex with of any gender, so she is excluded for the same reason Awakenjng characters are. 

I'll now make a list of traditionally attractive female companions or ship members you can have sex with in Bioware (post EA buy out, to keep things simple):

Ashley

Liara

Leliana

Morrigan

Jack

Tali

Miranda

Isabella

Merrill

Kelly Chambers

Samantha Traynor

Diana Allers

So I'd say until we can have a female who your standard 14 year old straight male would drool over who is immune to the insane sex appeal of being the main character in a video game, it is possibly painting the picture that every attractive female is ready and willing to hop into bed with you. And that's not very progressive at all. 

Modifié par Fast Jimmy, 28 mars 2013 - 04:51 .


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^

Can't edit on my phone, but take out Liara (if a mod can do this for me, it would be greatly appreciated, if not then please everyone imagine that this is the case). Since I already made the case that Asari are not female, it was incorrect to put her on there.

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Why didn't you list the males as a comparison? I find them almost any male "traditionally" attractive companion will also have sex with the PC.

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I'll do it for you: Zev, Alistair, Fenris, Anders, Jacob, Kaidan, Vega (since we've moved on from romance to sex), Cortez, Thane. I'll even leave out Garrus becuase you want to leave out Liara.

11-9.

Huuuuuuuuuge discrepancy.

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Fast Jimmy wrote...

To the person who made the Kasumi point, she is a DLC character. Bioware has yet to make a DLC character you can have sex with of any gender, so she is excluded for the same reason Awakenjng characters are. 


So's Sebastian.  Having excluded Varric and Sten as aliens, and Vega because you can sleep with him, we have no males left.

If there's an issue there, which there might be, it's not about gender

(Tali is an interesting definition of traditionally attractive.  Also, Javik is a DLC character you can have sex with:?)

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Xilizhra wrote...

JediHealerCosmin wrote...

If we were to go a little backwards in time, we could count Mission Vao and Juhani as female characters which couldn't be romanced.
Although that's a little tricky... Juhani could be romanced by a female Revan as a bug, but I think they fixed it, can't remember.

I'm fairly sure Juhani was supposed to be romanceable by a female Revan. Not that it matters, as Revan is canonically male (though the Exile is canonically female, pleasantly).


In my canon, there is no such thing as canon ;)

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Bethany's looks are dependent on the appearance of your character and she is your sibling. I did not list her for the same reason I did not list Carver on my males list - incest is not progressive.

Well. Times may change, in theory. Just saying.

So I'd say until we can have a female who your standard 14 year old straight male would drool over who is immune to the insane sex appeal of being the main character in a video game, it is possibly painting the picture that every attractive female is ready and willing to hop into bed with you. And that's not very progressive at all.

Standard 14-year-old straight males aren't going to be put off at all by Samara being monogendered.

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Don't leave out Garrus. He is male. Liara, Morinth and Samara are not female - they are mono gendered. If having boobs is all it takes to be female, then there is a whole different discussion that needs to be had.

And this isn't a comparison of the number male romances to female - it is the implication that every "droolable" female in Bioware games is also sexable. You don't think that sends a mixed, less-than-progressive message?

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Don't leave out Garrus. He is male. Liara, Morinth and Samara are not female - they are mono gendered. If having boobs is all it takes to be female, then there is a whole different discussion that needs to be had.

*bites back immediate response*
Asari are female. They're monogendered, not no-gendered. They reproduce through parthenogenesis, not through hermaphroditism.

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As long as they don't give Morrigan the Ashley Williams treatment I'm good.

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So is virtually every droolable male.

All asari are mono-gendered. That gender is female. The game goes out of its way to illustrate that.

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Asch Lavigne wrote...
As long as they don't give Morrigan the Ashley Williams treatment I'm good.

If Morrigan murders Wrex and then spends the next two games chastising me for letting Cerberus help me save the galaxy, she's getting Virmire'd in my next play through.

Modifié par bobobo878, 28 mars 2013 - 05:12 .


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Fast Jimmy wrote...

And this isn't a comparison of the number male romances to female - it is the implication that every "droolable" female in Bioware games is also sexable. You don't think that sends a mixed, less-than-progressive message?


Maybe, but since it treats both sexes approximately equivalently, not a sexist one.  I don't find "killing 1000s of people makes you a hero" progressive, but it's not really relevant to this thread.

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Fast Jimmy wrote...

If you'll notice, Jimmy said nothing about Bethany at all. Perhaps there was a good reason for that. 

Bethany's looks are dependent on the appearance of your character and she is your sibling. I did not list her for the same reason I did not list Carver on my males list - incest is not progressive. 


To the person who made the Kasumi point, she is a DLC character. Bioware has yet to make a DLC character you can have sex with of any gender, so she is excluded for the same reason Awakenjng characters are. 

I'll now make a list of traditionally attractive female companions or ship members you can have sex with in Bioware (post EA buy out, to keep things simple):

Ashley

Liara

Leliana

Morrigan

Jack

Tali

Miranda

Isabella

Merrill

Kelly Chambers

Samantha Traynor

Diana Allers

So I'd say until we can have a female who your standard 14 year old straight male would drool over who is immune to the insane sex appeal of being the main character in a video game, it is possibly painting the picture that every attractive female is ready and willing to hop into bed with you. And that's not very progressive at all. 


Jack is not traditionally attractive. She's bald (in me2)!

Modifié par Sejborg, 28 mars 2013 - 05:13 .


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Sejborg wrote...

Jack is not traditionally attractive. She's bald (in me2)!

I disagree, but this is a subjective point. Posted Image

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HolyAvenger wrote...

So is virtually every droolable male.


Virtually is not the same as all. 

Men are stereotypically attractive if they are atheltic, muscular and fit. I have given numerous examples where said stereotypes of males are non-romanceable for no stated reason at all. Women who are buxom and angular of face are all romanceable and sexable, if they fall into the type of character that the game let's you have sex with (non-DLC, non-expansion characters). 

Would you all not view it as slightly possible predication to make the traditionally attractive females in their games undeniably willing to have sex with the main character? Seeing as how they have little problem doing the same to male characters?

Some would argue more male romances to create balance. I argue more "thanks, but no thanks" responses to romance requests. 

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Sejborg wrote...

Jack is not traditionally attractive. She's bald (in me2)!

And has no curves!

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What a self serving list, lol.

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lol you enjoyed saying that didnt you flament :P

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Wulfram wrote...

Fast Jimmy wrote...

And this isn't a comparison of the number male romances to female - it is the implication that every "droolable" female in Bioware games is also sexable. You don't think that sends a mixed, less-than-progressive message?


Maybe, but since it treats both sexes approximately equivalently, not a sexist one.  I don't find "killing 1000s of people makes you a hero" progressive, but it's not really relevant to this thread.


But it doesn't. Males are non-romanceable for no reason at all. No samurai code, no mysterious reason that can never be altered - it is blocked off. Vega, Varric, Sten... these are all male, all athletic and fulfill a stereotypical male physique. 

There is no female equivalent of Isabella or Miranda that is non-romanceable (read: non-sexable). I find it boggling that people on the BSN can't find that indicative of a negative portrayal of women. Since it indicates that if a female is broadly attractive, then they must be sexual available. 

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Fast Jimmy:  I argue more "thanks, but no thanks" responses to romance requests. 

Agree!

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Filament wrote...

What a self serving list, lol.


I see no one else serving me. So I guess I have to serve myself. 

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Fast Jimmy wrote...
Virtually is not the same as all.


Samara isn't romanceable and your point about her not counting because there are no male Asari is contrived as ****. She looks like a woman, talks like a woman and is very much "conventionally attractive".

Fast Jimmy wrote...
Vega, Varric, Sten... these are all male, all athletic and fulfill a stereotypical male physique.


Varric's a dwarf and Sten is a Qunari.

Modifié par Lennard Testarossa, 28 mars 2013 - 05:28 .