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Saibh wrote...

Well, I think the most obvious counterpoint is there's basically no romances that end happily in BioWare games, period.

Honestly, it really seems the discussion should end there in regards to BioWare somehow directing this at lesbian relationships. 


Quoting because I think of a better way to put it.

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I actually do have an example of a lesbian couple in a Bioware game not having anything bad happen to it. It's a stretch... But I only need 1 single example to prove this "pattern" wrong. Khalisah al-Jilani (punchable reporter) is shown to be in a relationship with an Asari in the Shadow Broker footage. Far as I know, nothing is shown to break them up or anything bad happen to them even by the end of ME3.

So there's your example. You can try to throw it out because it's a minor character, but that would be moving the goalpost and would prove that you really are just trying to complain for the sake of complaining.

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andy69156915 wrote...

I actually do have an example of a lesbian couple in a Bioware game not having anything bad happen to it. It's a stretch... But I only need 1 single example to prove this "pattern" wrong. Khalisah al-Jilani (punchable reporter) is shown to be in a relationship with an Asari in the Shadow Broker footage. Far as I know, nothing is shown to break them up or anything bad happen to them even by the end of ME3.

So there's your example. You can try to throw it out because it's a minor character, but that would be moving the goalpost and would prove that you really are just trying to complain for the sake of complaining.


She is? O.o
Didn't notice that. Do you have a link to a youtube video or anything?

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Allan Schumacher wrote...

This claim is perfectly fine and completely valid, and doesn't even need any sort of mental gymnastics to justify an absolute perspective that it never happens (since that just opens you up to scrutiny and obfuscates the thread). Whether it never happens or just rarely happens, ask for it because you want it and feel it's important. Going onto tangents such as how you're frustrated because you had to wait as long as ME3 for it to happen at all, and how it was still pretty crappy, turns the topic into something more adversarial than it needs to be, and argument sides start to become competing teams and nobody wants to lose.


Thanks for the link - a very interesting article

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andy69156915 wrote...

I actually do have an example of a lesbian couple in a Bioware game not having anything bad happen to it. It's a stretch... But I only need 1 single example to prove this "pattern" wrong. Khalisah al-Jilani (punchable reporter) is shown to be in a relationship with an Asari in the Shadow Broker footage. Far as I know, nothing is shown to break them up or anything bad happen to them even by the end of ME3.

So there's your example. You can try to throw it out because it's a minor character, but that would be moving the goalpost and would prove that you really are just trying to complain for the sake of complaining.


Thank you. It's true that it is "blink-and-you'll-miss-it" (and that all gamers might not even have the LotSB DLC) but yes, it's there. Thought again "relationship" might be a bit of a strech since (if I remember correctly) all we see is them dancing together and (maybe? I can't really remember) sharing a kiss, and that's all. But yes, it's there.

So, let's make these moments a bit more prominent in the future!

;)

EDIT
Well it seems like there's no dancing but there's definitedly a kiss. Great!

Modifié par MissOuJ, 30 mars 2013 - 12:21 .


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I sat at my computer for a good 5 minutes, racking my memory, for me to remember that. It's not a strong point, it's not a major character or scene or even conversation... But it's enough to disprove the claim about this pattern. That's what happens when you make an absolute claim like "not a SINGLE lesbian relationship ever ends well in Bioware games", because it only takes a single example to break the entire claim.

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Donnic and Aveline hook up Quest is one of my favourites in DA2 and I'm always happy to see Garrus and Tali being a couple in ME3, most of the time I even help EDI and Joker, but that couple annoys me a little bit....
Anyway.
I'm sure BW can include maybe in DA3 a gay couple for us. I love to play matchmaker. xD
Those Quests are always nice, besides the kill 20 Orcs so I give you a magic Sword kind of Quests.

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Actually, MissOuJ, there is dancing too. If you check earlier in that vid, you see the part where she's dancing with Asari. But merely dancing wasn't exactly a counter-example, so I didn't mention it.

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kumquats wrote...

Donnic and Aveline hook up Quest is one of my favourites in DA2 and I'm always happy to see Garrus and Tali being a couple in ME3, most of the time I even help EDI and Joker, but that couple annoys me a little bit....
Anyway.
I'm sure BW can include maybe in DA3 a gay couple for us. I love to play matchmaker. xD
Those Quests are always nice, besides the kill 20 Orcs so I give you a magic Sword kind of Quests.


I love that quest as well! I just love how they've gender-flipped the whole "awkward boy meets hot girl, awkward boy is awkwardly trying to start something with the hot girl, while being truly, endearingly awkward" romance arch. I love the moment Aveline is talking about goats and wheat and I remember the first time I was like

"Aveline, you been smoking something you shouldn't?"

"It's a dowry tradition"

"... Dowry... Oh my god this will be priceless!"

:lol:

And if I remember correctly I had Isabela with me the whole time (which only made it funnier) and by the time she told Donnic to "bend [Aveline] over a basin already" I was laughing so hard I'm sure I was this close to cracking a rib.

I'm hoping for a happy female SS couple as well, and I actually have high hopes about this - for me this seems like an issue that's just been overlooked, and now that we're discussing it, at least it's out there and people are aware of this and taking notice.

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andy69156915 wrote...

I sat at my computer for a good 5 minutes, racking my memory, for me to remember that. It's not a strong point, it's not a major character or scene or even conversation... But it's enough to disprove the claim about this pattern. That's what happens when you make an absolute claim like "not a SINGLE lesbian relationship ever ends well in Bioware games", because it only takes a single example to break the entire claim.

If you'll insist on this counting, I'll redo my statement to make it only apply to Dragon Age, where it remains true. And perhaps a more valid concern for DA writers; at least ME seems to have left the rather horrible example of ME2 behind... sort of.

I also do not believe it's invalid to say that things have improved, but could improve more.

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Annnnnd... Goalpost moved. Specifically to "well it's still true for Dragon Age!".

Typical and expected.

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andy69156915 wrote...

Annnnnd... Goalpost moved. Specifically to "well it's still true for Dragon Age!".

Typical and expected.

What the hell are you talking about? I conceded your ME point, even though the counterexample was on the shallow and poor side, because it technically still is a counterexample. It's just not the case for both franchises.

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Xilizhra wrote...

I also do not believe it's invalid to say that things have improved, but could improve more.


Amen!

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David Gaider wrote...

Xilizhra wrote...
What is with this pattern, Bioware? It seems to be consistently committed by different people, so I don't know if it's an issue with a single writer... is it some kind of corporate culture issue? An addiction to certain tropes? Because while there are certainly plenty of straight relationships that have the same issues, there are also those that work out basically fine, and even one gay male one that seems to be going well (Wade/Herren). So again, I must ask; what is the reason for this pattern?


Thank you for pointing out this issue. I wasn't aware there was that many relationships in the Dragon Age which could be perceived as happy and working out well. Clearly the writers slipped a few by me. I'll need to work on that, clearly.


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Xilizhra wrote...

andy69156915 wrote...

I sat at my computer for a good 5 minutes, racking my memory, for me to remember that. It's not a strong point, it's not a major character or scene or even conversation... But it's enough to disprove the claim about this pattern. That's what happens when you make an absolute claim like "not a SINGLE lesbian relationship ever ends well in Bioware games", because it only takes a single example to break the entire claim.

If you'll insist on this counting, I'll redo my statement to make it only apply to Dragon Age, where it remains true. And perhaps a more valid concern for DA writers; at least ME seems to have left the rather horrible example of ME2 behind... sort of.

I also do not believe it's invalid to say that things have improved, but could improve more.

Okay so if it only applies to Dragon Age looking at the OP that leaves Leliana/Marjolaine and Branka/Hespith in DAO with the possibility of Celene/Briala in Masked Empire.

I don't know if 2 (possibility 3) instances can make a trend, disturbing or otherwise, when spread over 2 games, 1 expansion, 4 books and 19 issues of comics (so far).Image IPB

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aTrueFool wrote...

Xilizhra wrote...

andy69156915 wrote...

I sat at my computer for a good 5 minutes, racking my memory, for me to remember that. It's not a strong point, it's not a major character or scene or even conversation... But it's enough to disprove the claim about this pattern. That's what happens when you make an absolute claim like "not a SINGLE lesbian relationship ever ends well in Bioware games", because it only takes a single example to break the entire claim.

If you'll insist on this counting, I'll redo my statement to make it only apply to Dragon Age, where it remains true. And perhaps a more valid concern for DA writers; at least ME seems to have left the rather horrible example of ME2 behind... sort of.

I also do not believe it's invalid to say that things have improved, but could improve more.

Okay so if it only applies to Dragon Age looking at the OP that leaves Leliana/Marjolaine and Branka/Hespith in DAO with the possibility of Celene/Briala in Masked Empire.

I don't know if 2 (possibility 3) instances can make a trend, disturbing or otherwise, when spread over 2 games, 1 expansion, 4 books and 19 issues of comics (so far).

Mass Effect still has issues even if they're not quite universal, remember. And not having anything beyond four (you missed the Dorothea/Marjolaine thing) may not be entirely encouraging when all of them have gone badly. In any case, as I mentioned, it's an easy issue to fix.

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Can we also say Bioware games have a disturbing trend regarding polygamous relationships as they usually tend to be included mainly as joke fodder?

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MissOuJ wrote...
I mean, we can't (or at least I can't) find a simple example of NPC female SS relationship that doesn't end badly - I'm glad the relationships exist (which is, again, more than most gaming companies do) but that doesn't mean we should stop asking for improvements if and when we find problematic tropes.


It's right that we shouldn't stop asking for improvements. They aren't prominent enough, and there was a thread just recently on having more promminent same-sex NPC relationships. I think it's absolutely fair to say that we need more NPC SS relationships , whether F/F or M/M. 

I think you would find a lot less resistance if the definition of "happy" female SS relationship didn't mean eternally toghether without absolutely any external drama or otherwise any kind of pressure, complication, or otherwise negative content. 

Take PC relationships, for example. The counterpoint has been either: (i) the PC doesn't count (which I think is  a fair objection); or (ii) the PC relationships end unhappy too, even though in-game they were quite happy (which is where is where I feel quite a lot of resistance is appropriate). 

It's an abitrary line.

Let's look at NPCs. Hawke might murder Aveline in the DA2 ending (after having set her up with her love), and Aveline either had to kill Wesley herself or watch Hawke do it. Yet somehow Aveline is an example of a happy relationship heterosexual, with positive relationships. 

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I don't think you can kill Aveline.

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I think you would find a lot less resistance if the definition of "happy" female SS relationship didn't mean eternally toghether without absolutely any external drama or otherwise any kind of pressure, complication, or otherwise negative content.

My standards here are "not breaking up" and "not having someone be horribly killed." Drama that doesn't contradict those is fine.

And Wesley's death happened long before Donnic ever entered the picture. Aveline/Wesley would not qualify for my standards, to be sure, but Aveline/Donnic definitely does.

Modifié par Xilizhra, 30 mars 2013 - 02:29 .


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Sorry Xilizhra. You're right, 3 (maybe 4) over 2 games, 1 expansion, 4 books and 19 issues of comics makes a trend.Image IPB

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Jayne126 wrote...

And where are all the pigeons?! I never saw any pigeons!

Could that mean they secretly hate them? Or promote hate against them? They've hearts too!


They have pigeons in ME3. And in DA, Shale obviously killed them all by DA2...

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OK, I thought a bit and read though this thread again. I still don't think this is such a giganormus issue and I strongly doubt its intentional, but OP kinda has a point. Although most bioware relationships fail some don't, and so far non has been lesbian (we need a shorter word for lesbian).
This should properly be fixed.

Modifié par Aolbain, 30 mars 2013 - 03:22 .


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David Gaider wrote...

Xilizhra wrote...
What is with this pattern, Bioware? It seems to be consistently committed by different people, so I don't know if it's an issue with a single writer... is it some kind of corporate culture issue? An addiction to certain tropes? Because while there are certainly plenty of straight relationships that have the same issues, there are also those that work out basically fine, and even one gay male one that seems to be going well (Wade/Herren). So again, I must ask; what is the reason for this pattern?


Thank you for pointing out this issue. I wasn't aware there was that many relationships in the Dragon Age which could be perceived as happy and working out well. Clearly the writers slipped a few by me. I'll need to work on that, clearly.

 


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