Thank you all for your help I found a work around.
Made a new yahoo email, switched new EA account to new yahoo e-mail, changed this acccount to current e-mail from old e-mail, and BAM it is all good...well kind of time to get my new Gamer Tag associated with this EA account (which has my old GT already) UG.
BUT you have to admit DiGNiiTy > II RADI0 II all day!