SpamBot2000 wrote...
Dunabar wrote...
Serious note though..
Is it so hard for people to get sleep at night knowing there are people that just don't agree with their stance on ME3? >.>
Well, a serious question deserves a serious answer. I guess I am somewhat bothered by how easily many people are letting shoddy practices slide, because that makes a repeat performance all the more likely. The state of gaming could be much improved if people decided it should be.
As to why people who claim to be satisfied with BW's products and actions are so militant against differing opinions, it is a little odd. Don't these people have everything they wanted? Are they so thirsty for some kind of a full spectrum dominance that they will tolerate no other opinion? Or is their satisfaction so precariously grounded that they are terrified it will shatter when exposed to any doubt? "Must... ignore... obvious... flaws... at... any... cost!"
That would explain the toxic bile of the "positive" folks. Cognitive dissonance is painful. Makes people want to lash out.
Okay here is my little 2 cents to go into the smew of everything of what I dub as
"The ME3 conflict"Just fyi SpamBot2000 when I say "You" in this, I don't mean you, yourself.
You have three points in this conflict. The Pro-ME3 lovers, the Pro-ME3 Haters, and the folks in the middle ground.
I myself am of the middle ground but I lean more in the direction of the Pro-ME3 lovers in the sense that I love Mass effect 3. I honestly do love this game, I like the story, I like the direction, the feeling, and more. Is there anything I don't like about the game? Yeah a few small things (small in my opinion anyways), but it doesn't mean I don't love the game still. The common thing though that has sparked most of this overgrown flame war is exactly the same thing we all have in common, it's an
Opinion. Here though is how I feel about opinions..
Opinions are like ***holes, everyone has one, and if you don't like their opinion get your nose out of their ***
Problem is though is that people don't want to just shrug it and let it go, they want to fight, they want to feel like their reason for their opinion is to be the beacon of light the community should look to. But see neither the Pro sides are actually entirely in the right, you actually need a balance. Too much love for the game doesn't help the company develop something new for the next one, however too much hate may also discourage the company for trying something new in fear of getting a lot of backlash again. So you really do need to balance out your likes and dislikes about the game. However, at the same time you need to also learn not to take it to heart that someone disagrees with you. At this point you can talk about it like civil folks, argue about it like little children, or just nod your head to agree to disagree.
Some people wanted chocolate ice cream and they got vanilla ice cream, so they complain that they didn't get their chocolate ice cream.
Some people wanted chocolate ice cream, got vanilla ice cream, and said "You know I actually kind of like this. Everyone shut up about the vanilla ice cream and enjoy it!"
But in the end, do you know who is truly in the wrong in it all? It's both the extreme haters and lovers, but it's also neither of them at the same time. How and Why? Because again you need the haters to be vocal about what they didn't like in the game so the company can review it. But you also need the lovers to point out what they loved about the game so the company isn't afraid to try new edgy things in the future.
The key is
BalanceAs for me, I'm not afraid to tell people what I loved or what I disliked about Mass Effect 3. If people lose sleep over my opinions of what I liked or disliked about the game, is that my issue to deal with or theirs? I think the answer is pretty obvious. I will drop my two cents where I want to, speak my opinion, discuss it as civil as I can, and move on with my life from there. None of us need to lose sleep or experience pain over a simple difference of opinion, even more so when the opinion is based on a
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Modifié par Dunabar, 14 avril 2013 - 05:23 .