robertthebard wrote...
The really sad part about party member apologies is that you get to apologize to Alistair for Alistair lying to you if you role play being shocked to learn who he is. Then if you comment on him acting the ass about it, which he does, to the point where the writers added "Or you could just be an ass about it" to the dialog choices, he will break up with the female PC, and drop a -15 approval. This for his lie. I keep trying to tell people that the Landsmeet is insignificant, and that events like this one mean that I'm not going to get emotionally invested in him as a person. It's easier for me to just ignore him in camp. He can get as pissy as he wants there, I won't have to deal with it.
I can respect that. It pretty much echoes my feelings about Leliana and Morrigan. I got tired of backchat and approval losses for every single thing I did. Playing a warden as somewhat pragmatic and neither noble, nor deliberately cruel, I find those two just way too high maintenance. I'll happily take Alistair's few whiny moments over having to soothe, cajole, beg, grovel, coddle and reassure Leliana and Morrigan every 10 seconds. However, I can understand that others may find the challenge of keeping them happy some part of a deeper game, or puzzle. That's not wrong, just not something I enjoy, heh. I romanced Leli once, and did the "you're crazy, I'm outta here" line. It was totally worth it. Also worth it is the "It's not you, it's me. Alright, it is actually you." series. Awesomes.
Anyway, as I said, to each his own. I can understand some of the dislike for Alistair, just as I have my own dislike for Leliana and Morrigan. I've quite gotten to like Ohgren and Sten as well. Even some of my dislike of Wynne has been tempered recently. However, even if I don't like a character, I appreciate that Bioware has given them flaws and fatal mistakes. We may not agree with them, but it makes the story more engaging.