But will you ask for my trust prior to the release?
BioWare doesn't ask for anyone's "trust." Trust is highly subjective and based on one's own perception of events and influenced by one's feelings of historical behaviour. If one feels BioWare "broke their trust" with DA2, then one will continue to feel that way until he feels that trust is regained, which may or may not ever happen. If, on the other hand, one still trusts BioWare, then nothing has changed. Regardless, neither has any effect on how BioWare is approaching their work regarding DA3 or the content in the game.
Will I be missing out on huge chunks of the game if I want to wait for reviews? Like the stunt you pulled with DA2 with the preorder special edition DLC?
Special editions with exclusive bonuses are enticements to pre-order the game. Generally, once those exclusives are done, the enticements to pre-order are gone. It's a reward for those who choose to commit early to buying the game. Think of them like Kickstarter bonuses. If you wish to wait for reviews before buying the game, then you risk missing out on the bonuses provided for those who buy early. This isn't BioWare or EA being a jerkface or "pulling stunts". This is you
choosing not to take part in the bonus offer. The offer was clearly stated, the expiry was pretty heavily implied (ie. "preorder" means prior to the street date), pre-order reservation generally only costs $5, and IIRC, most game stores allow no-charge cancelling of a pre-order. There are also plenty of sites that publish previews, gameplay previews, and features on games prior to release. The choice is entirely yours.
Or have you come to the conclusion that that might not have been a very nice move? Will I feel punished for just getting the standard edition and not trusting you blindly again, and missing out on huge chunks of the game?
Again,
you choose which version of the game you buy. No one else makes that choice for you. Publishers release special editions, collector editions, super-deluxe editions, and bonus offers to entice players to buy them. If
you choose not to buy the versions with the bonus content, why are you expecting the bonus content? You have the chance to purchase the special editions or the bonus content the same as everyone else. If you feel punished for not receiving such bonus content, then you might want to consider remedying that for the next game. Publishers sell you the precisely the version of the game you choose to buy.
Am I still a customer that needs to be eleminated and punished for not preordering? Now I understand you haven't decided upon that yet, but try and keep in mind how different kinds of bonuses might be perceived from different customers.
No one is punished for pre-ordering. In fact, people are rewarded for pre-ordering with bonus content and sometimes exclusive content that can only be obtained by pre-ordering from certain retailers, or pre-ordering at all. Those who receive the basic game, without the bonus content, are not being punished anymore than average people are "punished" for not being extraordinary. At 5'6", I am not being "punished" by not being a good enough basketball player to be drafted by an NBA team. Nor are all the non-winners of a foot race "punished" for not winning. Nor are all the non-winners of a lottery "punished" by not winning. Nor is a person "punished" with merely a regular soft drink and regular fries for not Super Sizing their combo meal.
Of course I don't expect you to say the game is going to be crap or whatever. You are saying the only thing you CAN say. That it will be the best thing you can possibly make. But keep the other things in mind.
As for never playing Bioware games again. I don't know. Dragon Age might be a goner, we shall see. But there is still other Bioware games being made by other Bioware departments.
Neither BioWare nor EA has any responsibility or control over how
you choose to spend your money. They release a product to sell, and only
you can choose how you will spend that money. If you really want the bonus content, the extras, and the "big chunk of game" you say you're missing (which isn't really a "big chunk of game" or necessary to finish the base game), then you would probably be happier spending the extra money on a special edition, or committing the money to a pre-order. If you don't wish to do so, then you should probably accept that maybe, just maybe, you'll be missing out on some content that you might enjoy and regret not purchasing it later.