Just finished my first complete trilogy (+ all DLC) run ending up with Destroy ending. It took around 150+ hours and was hell of a ride. I love everything about the game, except the ending. I got a perfect one (100% readiness, 7800 assets) with Shepard living but still hoped for something more than few static drawings with brief commentary.
I instantly did a Citadel rerun with MEHEM and it provided the reunite scene I missed in the original, although I prefer to think that all the synthetics including EDI are wiped out by the Catalyst. Kind of accepted it as a part of my choice though.
Still, I love the trilogy so much that I'm not going to replay. All the hype, emotions, action, laugh and cries were once in a lifetime experience and I don't want to span it. For me it was like a favourite book, or a favourite tv show starting with the same BioWare logo. I can say I really lived this world, this war and these characters. So now I feel like I've lost a friend
BUT I still have the post-war Citadel party to be held! Yay!