slimgrin wrote...
Darth Death wrote...
Each generation is getting worse. Seems like people want porn in the form of storytelling to fill their lustful appetites.
This is why I love the BSN. Right here.
You know what's funny, and I'm not trolling now: It's that teenagers of every generation think their version of sex is new and original, and every generation past the teenage years think things are somehow worse than when they were teenagers. Hint, things actually haven't changed, people haven't changed, and things are not somehow "worse" when it comes to sex. it's always happened, it always will happen, it's the strongest drive we have apart from hunger and thirst, and you know, it's just part of being human.
What is getting worse is thanks to photoshop and various animated things, bodies now have an ideal that is impossible to obtain, and flawed humans somehow think they are not sexy because they can't live up to that ideal.
Political rant aside, sex is a part of life, a part of love, a part of romance, and a part of adult communication. You cannot tell me that men don't bond with each other when everyone looks at a pretty butt going by, just as women will talk about men and notice a square jaw or large hands or whatnot and will talk about that as well. We're sexual beings, and it's nice when that's acknowledged without it being surrounded by shame or tittering.
Sex can be portrayed maturely in a video game as a part of a romance. It doesn't have to be gratuitous; it doesn't have to be there to show the omgboobz -- it can be there, as explicit or as implied as possible (implied actually is better so people can fill in their own blanks) and have it be part of an expression of caring.
People giggle over the pearl and the three/foursome in DAO -- people get up in arms about the love scenes, both for and against. But there is nothing wrong wtih telling a story where making love is a part of a relationship. It doesn't mean it has to be THE FOCUS (and in fact, I hope it wouldn't be), but having it there is a nice touch.
I liked DAO's scenes, underwear silliness aside, because every single scene showed tenderness. Morrigan's scene, Leliana's scene, Alistair's scene, Zevran's scenes, -- the all showed caring. The DA2 scenes were fun in that they really portrayed the different personalities, even though the after was a bit of a letdown. The sex didn't need to be shown -- it was fine as is.
However, these were very short cutscenes, yet the topic of endless discussions, so ask yourself, "Why?"
The only thing I want is if there are romances, have them be adult enough to have the option for sex (the DAO was fabulous in the ability to have romance without sex), and treat that sex with the respect the relationships deserve. Don't make it about giggling, but about caring, because supposedly, that's why the scenes are there to begin with.
Not sure I have a real point here, but oh well.
Modifié par ejoslin, 18 mai 2013 - 12:09 .