Qistina wrote...
Then you lost the most precious thing in your life...your virginity...better preseve it to someone who you trust and trust you in marriage....we gain trust through marriage...marriage is the symbol of trust, not sex
If you really trust me...marry me...
Virginity is not precious -- at least not to me, nor to anyone I've ever spoken with. I wasn't a virgin when I met my husband, nor was he, and it was a complete non-issue. People make too big a deal out of sex OR the opposite and treat it as if it's nothing. But sex is a great way to express your love -- it's making yourself completely vulnerable to another person so it's not like it is just another thing to do. But it's not something that is world changing either -- it's one of our basic drives, and fortunately, it can be a lot of fun as well.
And as an aside, even old people usually still have sex. Depending on what you consider "old" of course -- people who are frail, probably not, but people who are healthy and robust? That's part of what keeps them that way.
Had I married the first person I fell in love with, my life would not be nearly as wonderful as it is with my husband. And us not getting married had nothing to do with trust -- it had to do with us being teenagers.
ANYWAY, I hope DA3 has realistic romances, and the option to have sex can be there at several times. That sex doesn't have to happen at a scripted moment, and if the protag decides to wait, that doesn't end things. I'd love it if you had another FWB situations that develops into something WAY more, unexpectedly. It would be fun if it could be the Inquisitor who wanted a casual thing and has the option to fall in love.
But most of all, I just hope for an excellent story, with well written subplots to draw me in more.
Modifié par ejoslin, 27 mai 2013 - 12:14 .