No it is not grey it is wrong, always, no exceptions, Rape is always wrong. It isn't about judging, it is about suffering and humanity. Video games are not to tintillation with the taboo and never were. They are about having a fun game, an enjoyable one, with a good plot. If all VG were for was tintillation then we would have whole games devoted to beastiality and eating feces. Obviously that is not what video games are about at all.
what has happened is people associate a mature rating with taboo things, somehow to be mature, sex has to be involved, but sex is handled so immaturely that it is laughable or cringe worthy. And now rape is being obsessed over. It isn't some fun way to make you care, or to further a plot, ANYONE who uses rape as a plot point just to make another character feel sad, or to shock the reader or just as fluff has handled it immaturely.
Rape is agonizing, hateful, self defeating. It happens too often all over the globe. Rape s not some evil trait you assign to a villain to hate him like Vaugan. It is a mature and agonizing topic, that gamers are obviously not mature enough to handle. They treat it as just a thing, and I blame video games for some of my experiences. I love them, but when women are treated as such ownership in these games...
Guys can't understand no. That isn't funny, interesting, or shocking, it is horrifying. Absolutely terrifying more than any horror RPG can come up with, it is soul churning, it is vile, it is the living nightmare. It ISN'T your toy. You don't get to play it for some sort of jollies and go OOh rapists mwahaha evil. And you can't say that it would make the game fun to have it involved when you have no idea what it is.
I met rapists, they don't wear dark cloaks or fancy rings, they are ordinary, deadly, and usually someone you know. That is how bad that many people have to fear for anyone near them. I used to imagine an escape outlet any time I was alone with someone, for years. It means wanting to die. It means no one believing you when you have proof, it means your friends inviting them any way, it means dreading going home because they are there and that it is useless to talk to anyone because no one cares.
It means being a kid and planning suicide out as your only release because at least then it stops playing in your head. It means having panic attacks and episodes and YES PTSD. It means still after all the years wanting to tear your face off due to what they said. It means when you finally find someone to love still questioning it, and your worthwhile ness to even be loved.
That horror isn't yours to throw in for laughs or as a character background for more "depth" it doesn't. It means you have no empathy for victims of rape, no creativity to have something real, and NO MATURITY. The above is what rape is really like, the things in video games are so unrealistic and immature as just to be toys so guys and girls can laugh and play at the idea.
rapists are not villains with an evil laugh, it is your best friend that you realize too late just wanted to get you alone, it isn't a evil duke who is slimy, it is the family member you always loved.
They spew hate, and if you struggle too much they hurt you, and if you don't struggle enough it means they talk like you like it. And they insult you like they see everyday in their adult movies and shows. And no matter what everyone says it is your fault. If You go to a friends house and they hurt you, we'll your fault for going. If you drink at all, your fault, if you wear clothes you like...your fault. Until you wear baggy clothing, you never drink, you never visit friends...and they still get you. And when you start suspecting everybody, you are horrible and they make you feel guilty for crossing them out of your life and you open up... And they use that guilt to destroy you all over again.
I don't think video games cause shootings...but I do believe that how some women are portrayed makes men admire rapist characters, and encourage that behavior. I hear men all over some forums say a girl character deserves it. I hear women adding it to their characters so you feel sorry for them, or worse how the romantic pairing meet up.
it's immature, not mature at all, any more then smearing feces on your face for fun is mature. Worse because real people find it horrifying and some people start getting ideas. Too many guys talk about wanting to rape a character. Too many women fantasize the despair.
It is nt morally grey