Yeah I think in this sort of environment its difficult to back who's trustworthy and who isn't. Who's flaky and who isn't. I think there needs to be a balance of selfishness and selfless acts to survive. Definitely a level of pragmatism is needed to not only survive but to lead a group. And who knows when you might need that selfless act from a stranger later on. As far as the kids thing, that was dumb of me to phrase it like that (because I know when I didn't have kids that bugged the hell out of me when people said that). However I don't think we can back away from them being around and provide a measure of support for them, even the annoying ones
. I think it was the assumption that you need to just dump the ones who aren't currently or never will be resilient is what bugged me about it, because who's to say they wont become reliable or play a part of something bigger. Sarah or someone else considered equally useless may save Clem or a group member at the last minute. Or she could remain flaky and weak and be an even bigger burden. Who knows?
I still maintain the primary dislike of her is because she's weak, (the toughen up/grow up princess/you should know better thing always irks me. When attributed to children and teens even more so) and Clem being the more mature of them really isn't unusual considering the relative experiences of both the characters. Also I would say Clem being wise beyond her years is an exception, not a rule and I hope that the cognitive dissonance I might feel, about being an adult playing as a child, can be kept at bay (I've certainly heard some reviewers say it's a little unsettling and unrealistic for them).
Also - being a community with out children or the sick/vulnerable didn't work out so well for Crawford. To me, Woodbury seemed reasonably okay, egalitarian on first acquaintance - if it weren't for the Governor being a complete psycho. Surely there has to be at least one non-dysfunctional group in this universe!
Thus my modifier I'd take care of my kids but not someone else's. Oh she might become a badass but at the moment she's just the load and I rather not risk Clem's life on the off chance Sarah might eventually be useful. Also relying on strangers to be selfless is...welp I wouldn't do it not in TWD realm. I never said she wouldn't ever be resilient but in the meantime she's a danger to Clem and that for me isn't gonna fly.
Honestly though yes I'd take care of a kid like Clem. She's sharp enough to lie when needed (about Lee being her baby sitter), she saved Lee's life by warning him, she tries to cheer people up when she can and she knows when to be quiet and just observe. She's a load but she brings benefits to outweigh them.
That said yes Clem is an exception (thankfully) I doubt I'd made it through season 1 if she was more like Sarah.
Didn't that happen because the girl was selling herself for the guy's medicine he cut her off and she got pissed off and killed him without destroying the brain? I don't recall it that well. If they had kicked her and her sister out immediately that issue probably wouldn't have gotten so bad. (Also now that I'm thinking about it didn't they start trying to protect everyone and eventually realized that was infeasible then started kicking people out?)
Really, I think it's just a matter of deposing your leader as soon as it becomes readily obvious he's a sociopath.
Yeah this. Or at least a sociopath who clearly doesn't take the mental state of those underneath him in account.