I don't see how people are saying Kaidan's sexual orientation was suddenly retconned in #3. Plenty of people come out later in life, or come to a cathartic realization that the reason they have been romantically unhappy/unlucky so far in life is because A.) They haven't found the right person and B.) They are shopping in the wrong department. Happens all the time in real life, especially where I live (Los Angeles). Plus, if you're Kaidan's age (mid 30s), its only developmentally natural that you start thinking long term future - children, marriage, house with picket fence in British Columbia, etc. Being relatively well-read, I also enjoyed Bioware using the old trope of brothers-in-arms: The intense camraderie and care shared between soldiers in a foxhole during war, can transcend any physical or emotional love shared with a significant other. The other soldier knows you right down to your core, because everything you were, are, or ever could've been, can be taken away in a violent second.
Because of this exceptional circumstance, where the other grunt in the foxhole may very well be the last face you ever see again, the last warm embrace you ever enjoy, it results in a special type of love. So yes, Kaidan realized that Shepard was the only one who was constantly there for him, and hence developed some serious bromance for him.
I'm not gay or bisexual myself, but I really liked that Bioware added some depth to Kaidan's personality and character (though not enough imo, so this may be their way of compensating the fans). Its literally character development

. In my headcanon, if Kaidan didn't get with Liara or Diane Allers, then Shepard and Vega will be the Best Men at the wedding of Major Kaidan Alenko and Lt. Steve Cortez in Vancouver.
And thanks to the OP for the link - will pre-order that baby ASAP.
Modifié par Jhushx, 16 juillet 2013 - 04:24 .