CELL55 wrote...
It's all about perception, I think. Even if the sexual attitudes are reasonable and explainable for Thedas, so much of the rest of the world appears too close to 'ye olde medieval tymes' for them to be anything other than jarring.
Or maybe I'm just too picky. [smilie]../../../images/forum/emoticons/tongue.png[/smilie]
I remember having a long discussion with a chap for whom heavy armour having penalties for weight broke his suspension of disbelief. I think he owned several sets of armour. Which is to say: the specific elements that hold up immersion are so subjective that their discussion will rarely be meaningful.
I would say that the setting is largely anachronistic - that despite being roughly medieval it has elements from a span of history, many of which are strictly modern, such as it's language and use of humour. But that's fairly irrelevant, because immersion isn't logical and no argument changes your experience.
KiddDaBeauty wrote...
Thedas doesn't have hundreds of years of religious bans on sexuality. Medieval Europe did. You can't compare sexual attitudes of the two because of this.
I'd say that in itself is anachronistic. One of the most interesting things about religions is their abaility to formalise and ritualise useful behavoiur without the need to explain why it's useful.
The downside being it rarely puts them down when they cease being useful
because the reason was irrelevant.
While not actually religious I like the umbrella example: people don't open umbrellas indoors because it's bad luck. It's not unlucky, what it is is ever so slightly dangerous, but being ever so slightly dangerous never stopped anyone doing anything. We adopt a useful behavoiur for reasons we don't understand.
Without access to relatively modern standards of health and cleanliness unfettered sexuality would be remarkably dangerous. The romances would be somewhat itchy affairs and Isabella would be an outright hazard. It would be unusual for their not to be a social or religious stigma associated with sexuality.
Well, either that, diseases are differently in Thedas or everyone has magic genitalia.
(I literally wrote that whole thing out in order to use the term "magic genitalia".)
Modifié par Ziggeh, 28 juillet 2013 - 02:13 .