Bionuts wrote...
Exactly. Perhaps the OP has a problem with women acting sexual. I'm not sure why. Are you intimidated by women that do what they want?
Not trying to insult you. Just a question, out of curiosity.
The character is fictional, she wants what her creators make her want.
If a writer deliberately crafts a world where every single woman
just happens to "want" to be sexually appealing to a man or men, then that's some pretty unfortunate implications right there. It's no better than making a world where every woman
just happens to "want" to stay home and cook and clean. It sends a message that "this is the way women should be, and if you are different, you are doing Woman wrong".
However, I don't think Bioware is that sort of world, and I don't think the developers intended to make Flemeth overtly sexual. And even if they did, there is a nice variety of female characters to counteract that. The decision to make Flemeth "sexier" (if that was the intention) is confusing, but it's an isolated example.