Lilaeth wrote...
Am1_vf wrote...
Spaghetti_Ninja wrote...
That's one of the things that annoy me about the Chantry. We see little actual bigotry, aside from the mage-hating and the sexist discrimination against men regarding priesthood. Yet it's obviously based on medival Christianity, complete with the martyred saviour figure, church structure and a pope.
I mean, come on. Every real-life religion with more than a couple million followers has SOME laws against partaking in worldly pleasures, ranging from sex out of wedlock to drinking alcohol or eating specific types of meat. That's how religions work, they tell you how to live your life. The Chantry is way too modern for a medival world like Thedas, still stuck in the age of feudalism with kings, nobles and peasants.
Well, I hear there was a time when people could marry just with two witnesses and some sort of contract (it could even be a painting signed by the artist, the couple and the two witnesses). It was somewhere near the end of the middle ages that the Church decided they wanted to be in every important moment of everyone's life.
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Way back after WWI, one of my great aunts was married like that - she and her fiancee 'stood up' in front of witnesses and affirmed their commitment to live together as man and wife. And they had a wedding certificate stating that this was how they were married. It might even still be legal where I live, I'm not sure. I suspect same sex couples could do this in Thedas. Apart from the inheritance thing, no-one seems too bothered about other peoples' sex lives. If only our world was the same!
Sounds like they had their marriage registered without a church ceremony (a 'marriage civil'), but it's still a marriage in a legal sense. In the Netherlands such marriages are the only legally binding form of marriage (so if you want to have a church marriage, you first have to have a 'civilian marriage').
In principle, secular marriages like this were pretty common in medieval Europe, but the Church got increasingly meddlesome in this respect. I recently read a case about a 15th century Dutch nobleman who married his mistress this way, but got threatened with excommunication for this. The nobleman quickly caved in and begged to be allowed a church marriage to legalise his union. And so it was done (although presumably such marriages were still common among ordinary folk as well).





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