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amethyst_rose2009 wrote...

I think Alistair's reaction at the landsmeet is very understandable.  After everything that Loghain has done Alistair feels that your pc, whether you are his best friend or his lover, has betrayed him. I've never played it that way and never will, because I completely agree with Alistair, it is a betrayal of trust and friendship. 


I agree with you more or less. It can see it as a betrayal of trust and friendship too, but at the same time I always felt that his trust and friendship wasn't the only issue. At the risk of repeating of what I have written elsewhere. The way I played it I was prepared to argue it with him and possibly give in in the end, because I thought there where other issues than just personal trust between him and me, when he demanded to be given the crown, even though he had never wanted it before. Sure, my own motives could be well be questioned, as I was going to marry Anora, but couldn't just say, "oops sorry then here is the crown you didn't want, just so you can have your revenge", just because he threw a tantrum, I thought. 

I just want to drive home the point that you can end up loosing Alistair, for simply trying to argue the point, unless you are also prepared to hand him the crown, even when you have previously gotten his assurance that he doesn't want it. Maybe it's not really his fault either. Sometimes things just get screwed up and things get said, that can't be unsaid.

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Jae Onasi wrote...
With that in mind, and the close relationship Alistair had with Duncan, Alistair's mourning and his making mention of Duncan's death several times is entirely in character and quite normal. 


If he TRULY loved Duncan, would he EVER consider abandoning the fight against the Blight? Would he?
He didn't genuinely love Duncan for what he is. Alistair loves only himself and he wanted someone to take care of him. That was the only thing Duncan was for Alistair. Someone who shows affection to him. The father figure that he never had.

But did he truly love Duncan? If he did, he would never ever insult Duncan's memory by refusing to fight the blight. ever.  


Love.  you keep using that word.  I do not think it means what you think it means.

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That's a bit of a stretch.  Love does not mean that your purposes in life are replaced by the purposes of those you love.  That's silly.

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Now, yes, I understand what happened. He loved Duncan, thought Loghain was a horrible man (he was right), and I seemed to be besmirching the Grey Wardens. It makes sense, but he was still showing a side of his personality that the game had never shown me previously. His behavior was wildly different than what I'd seen before, so it's not surprising that people find it out of character.

This is the part where I'm going to argue with you. Alistair cares very little about himself, and everything about what he sees as his duty. He sees being a Grey Warden as an honor, and it is his duty to avenge Duncan -- something he swore he would do. These are not character traits that came out of nowhere.

At the Landsmeet, suddenly he is confronted with the fact that what he thinks doesn't matter. Duncan is not going to be avenged. Perhaps you force him to become a King, or you take his worst enemy into the order and thus sully it in his mind forever. You -- the person he thought had his back -- suddenly betray him... and this is a character trait that comes out of nowhere?

What did you think  would happen? That he would make a snarky, disparaging remark and let it lie? Well, not this time... sometimes people do surprise you, and in this case finding himself a backbone and taking a stance could come as an unpleasant and inconvenient surprise for some people. But I completely disagree that it comes out of nowhere.




   I can agree to that. I would say it was drastic, against his oath, a stab in the back to us & his country but he felt very simliar to what i just described. Either way even if his character did point to this possibility & we betrayed him. Personal matters are to be set aside in the time of a blight, GW are to put the blight above all else. Which Alistair failed to do, he let his lust for revenge corrupt his mind just as Loghain let paranoia & fear corrupt his.

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I like the "character" of all the DA characters. They have depth and their own personalities above and beyond what is needed for a game, I think. I like them because I don't like them sometimes. They take issue with you, can be confrontational, are annoying at times, are funny at others, and in general are very much like real people. Mr. Gaider and all the writers at Bioware have done a wonderful job of creating personalities it is fun to hate sometimes. That is the point, isn't it? Let Alistair be Alistair!


:lol: Sure is fun.

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But remember what Alistair said about Loghain and Anora- these are the kinds of people who feel the need to fix everything themselves, who think they are 100% completely right. It's why I ended up putting Alistair on the throne and killed Loghain. When you've just spent the entire game making compromises and seeing the results of what happens when people do things they think are right, damned the cost (Branka....)...is the world going to really be a better place with them in any sort of position of power?



I actually like the parallels between Branka and Loghain. Hell, through Bhelen in there too. Yo writers, was that intentional?




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But you are again assuming that letting Loghain live is the only logical decision to make re. fighting the Blight.
I strongly disagree.
Given everything that the PC knows taht he's done up to the point of the Landsmeet, it is a pefectly logical other option to want him safely dead and out of the way so that the real business of dealing with the Blight can get underway.
Plus, he just needs to die.


I didn't assume anything. But regardless what my PC does, Alistair should never abandon the fight. If my PC thinks screwing a nug makes him win, then Alistair can be digusted at him. Maybe even hate him. But why abandon the fight?

Alistair could have perfectly said: "You know what, screw you. I am not following you anymore. But I will fight the blight my way".
If he said that, then I would have respected him alot more, since
a- finally he is acting like a man 
b- Even if he hates me, he is still goign to do his duty and fight the blight.

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Ethical Scabs wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Jae Onasi wrote...
With that in mind, and the close relationship Alistair had with Duncan, Alistair's mourning and his making mention of Duncan's death several times is entirely in character and quite normal. 


If he TRULY loved Duncan, would he EVER consider abandoning the fight against the Blight? Would he?
He didn't genuinely love Duncan for what he is. Alistair loves only himself and he wanted someone to take care of him. That was the only thing Duncan was for Alistair. Someone who shows affection to him. The father figure that he never had.

But did he truly love Duncan? If he did, he would never ever insult Duncan's memory by refusing to fight the blight. ever.  


Love.  you keep using that word.  I do not think it means what you think it means.

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That's a bit of a stretch.  Love does not mean that your purposes in life are replaced by the purposes of those you love.  That's silly.

 

I LOVE that your response is TRULY bland & didn't defend your statement at all. lol. At least he has an opinion & is ready to defend it instead of nitpicking at others comments for some false sense of superiority.

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Sylrien wrote...

But remember what Alistair said about Loghain and Anora- these are the kinds of people who feel the need to fix everything themselves, who think they are 100% completely right. It's why I ended up putting Alistair on the throne and killed Loghain. When you've just spent the entire game making compromises and seeing the results of what happens when people do things they think are right, damned the cost (Branka....)...is the world going to really be a better place with them in any sort of position of power?

I actually like the parallels between Branka and Loghain. Hell, through Bhelen in there too. Yo writers, was that intentional?



  Well Loghain saw the error of his ways plus he has been a great general a long time He can obviously balance his ego along with the power he is give. Anora as well since she has been queen for 5 years(i think) but the only difference is no Anora has full control. So I personally would say Loghain would be fine now that we help him but Anora will probably do something stupid due to her ridiculous ego of DOOM!!!! lol

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Ethical Scabs wrote...
Love.  you keep using that word.  I do not think it means what you think it means.

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That's a bit of a stretch.  Love does not mean that your purposes in life are replaced by the purposes of those you love.  That's silly.


Ok, you seem to forget that Alistair is a Grey Warden. But ok.

If you directly oppose your loved one's purpose, then you are not honoring their memory. Thus, you do not really love them. You only loved the attention that they gave you. The idea of being loved. Tis is what Alistair loves. But not Duncan himself.

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Dragon Age1103 wrote...

Ethical Scabs wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Jae Onasi wrote...
With that in mind, and the close relationship Alistair had with Duncan, Alistair's mourning and his making mention of Duncan's death several times is entirely in character and quite normal. 


If he TRULY loved Duncan, would he EVER consider abandoning the fight against the Blight? Would he?
He didn't genuinely love Duncan for what he is. Alistair loves only himself and he wanted someone to take care of him. That was the only thing Duncan was for Alistair. Someone who shows affection to him. The father figure that he never had.

But did he truly love Duncan? If he did, he would never ever insult Duncan's memory by refusing to fight the blight. ever.  


Love.  you keep using that word.  I do not think it means what you think it means.

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That's a bit of a stretch.  Love does not mean that your purposes in life are replaced by the purposes of those you love.  That's silly.

 

I LOVE that your response is TRULY bland & didn't defend your statement at all. lol. At least he has an opinion & is ready to defend it instead of nitpicking at others comments for some false sense of superiority.


It's a quote.  One I would hope those on this board appreciate.  Alas.

By that definition of love, no person that has ever loved would be free to live their own life;  they would have to carry on the causes of those they had loved, after they passed.  Love would be a trap that forces one to lose all self-control.

So either love doesn't exist,  or it doesn't exist in that form.


 Better?

Modifié par Ethical Scabs, 19 janvier 2010 - 09:21 .


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I appreciated the quote!

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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Ethical Scabs wrote...
Love.  you keep using that word.  I do not think it means what you think it means.

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That's a bit of a stretch.  Love does not mean that your purposes in life are replaced by the purposes of those you love.  That's silly.


Ok, you seem to forget that Alistair is a Grey Warden. But ok.

If you directly oppose your loved one's purpose, then you are not honoring their memory. Thus, you do not really love them. You only loved the attention that they gave you. The idea of being loved. Tis is what Alistair loves. But not Duncan himself.


I don't see any references to Grey Warden's in my statement.  I was merely attacking your central proposition, that if Alistair truly loved Duncan he would be a Blightaholic.

Everyone here can understand that he acts irrationally when storming out;  that's what anger does.  That's what immaturity does.  but you're warping the reasoning here.

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Dragon Age1103 wrote...

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I do not hate Alistair but I tend to dislike him more & more as the game progresses. I didn't even hate him after his childish actions at the Landsmeet but I did lose respect for him.
When I first met him I found him to be witty, funny, charming but after the landsmeet he lashed out like a spoiled child for the last time. He let his emotions get the better of him & destroy his judgment for what was best for his country, for Ferelden!
I wish i could of been the one to end his life, he deserved it for taking the same path as Loghain. Using some pathetic excuse to only bring harm to his country. Loghain was paranoid of the Orlesians & Alistair was too childish to let go of the past & stand for what was best for Ferelden. Because of his rash actions we lost a great Grey Warden but gained a legendary General. (depending on how you played it out.lqtm.)


But is taking Loghain into the Wardens necessarily the best thing for Ferelden?  I don't think there are any compelling reasons why it has to be that way.  In fact, I think its just as easy to see how letting Loghain live is just as bad for Ferelden as killing him would be.

Anora may make a big fuss over Alistair's emotional outburst, but that guy is her father.  Is she really any better for calling Alistair out to save her father's life?  I think you can see it both ways.

Most of my characters have seen Alistair's point after he lists off the numerous evil things that Loghain has done, and have gone with his decision.  That isn't to say that one hasn't tried to spare Loghain, and maybe another will.

But I really don't think its such a black and white decision - spare Loghain good for country, kill him bad for country.  There are pros and cons to both sides, depending on your point of view and your own personality.


  I can't agree that you can see it both ways. Loghain is not scheming at the Landsmeet after you defeat him. He admit he sees something in you he hasn't seen since Maric died. He holds much more value than Alistair, why?
   He saw that he let fear & paranoia get the best of him & that we(your character) are a HUGE asset to ending the blight b/c we are so strong & due to the influence we hold over others. Alistair would make a terrible king, he whines often, he can't let go that Duncan died plus he constantly blames himself effecting his judgment constantly. He is not old or wise nor is he a general of renown. He has very little to offer what we got from him(info, grey warden history, stories,) we can get in more detail from Riordin. He serves little to no purpose...he is loyal yes but he acts like a child all the time.
   Specifically to how the game plays out though it doesn't really matter if you take loghain b/c stat wise he is not superior to Alistiar nor do we gain a benefit from his experience as a general b/c we never use him for that he just joins our party. If we did though in my opinion he is clearly the better choice for Ferelden.


See, I see Alistair as having the potential to be a great king (and this coming from a perspective where both my female PCs have romanced him and thus spent a great deal of time with him in conversation and what not).  They believed he had what it took to lead the country and do it well, especially because he has a good heart and strong ideals for justice and right.

Loghain on the other hand can be seen as too cut throat and too black and white in some ways for what Ferelden needs.  Loghain isn't afraid to do despicable things to get the job done.  Sometimes, maybe that's what's necessary.  But not everyone sees every situation as "do this or fail miserably" - some would try their hardest to do what's right and hope that it turns out in the end.  Maric was that way, I think, at least at his core, though he had hard decisions to make too.

If you (or your PC) is the type that will do the dirty job to get the result you want, then I can see Loghain as being a great asset.  If you're the idealist who will do their damndest to not only do something but to do it right, in the right way as well as for the right purpose, then Alistair has great potential to be king.

Maybe he's a bit childish at times, but so was Cailan.  The PC probably won't know this, but so was Maric.  There'es no doubt in the peoples' minds that Maric was a great king.  Cailan was well-loved even if Anora technically ruled the kingdom.

I see Alistair as having all the heart it takes to be a great king, because he cares about the people - he'd do his best to do right by them.  Loghain, even after being apologetic, still cares more about the country than the individuals, and Anora probably falls somewhere in that same camp.

Like I said, it all depends from your perspective, but I really don't see it as a "there is no doubt that Loghain is the best thing for Ferelden".  I hate the way Anora rules the country in her epilogue, for instance, and Anora is very similar to her father.  But its a situation in where I can see both sides, and depending on the character, I could go either way.

But me, personally?  Alistair on the throne, maybe married to Anora for her poltical savvy.  I would spare Loghain if I could for his heroism and his loyalty to the country, but not at the cost of a good man on the throne.

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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Ok, you seem to forget that Alistair is a Grey Warden. But ok.

If you directly oppose your loved one's purpose, then you are not honoring their memory. Thus, you do not really love them. You only loved the attention that they gave you. The idea of being loved. Tis is what Alistair loves. But not Duncan himself.


I can't believe that I 100% agree with the guy who believes kidnapping people and selling slaves is acceptable.
Yuck yuck yuck.
Now I feel filthy.
Pashera! You Alistair fanboys and girls. Stop. Please stop.
You are traumatizing me.

But what Knight said.
By abandoning the fight against the blight, Alistair proves that the execution of Loghain would have had nothing to do with Justice or Avenging the deaths of the people who died at Ostagar (be that Cailan, Duncan or any of others there), but an act born of Alistair's selfish needs. He wishes to kill Loghain not for Duncan, but for himself.
But even in his one moment of "showing backbone" he ultimately is a coward, because he hides his true motives behind all the talk about justice and duty.



Besides:
if justice was so important, should he not imediatly be put on trial for the murder of Loghain if you let him fight the duel? The duel was until one side yields and Loghain did yield. Alistair striking him down is thus murder.

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Ethical Scabs wrote...

It's a quote.  One I would hope those on this board appreciate.  Alas.


I liked it :lol:

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Ethical Scabs wrote...
I don't see any references to Grey Warden's in my statement.  I was merely attacking your central proposition, that if Alistair truly loved Duncan he would be a Blightaholic.

Everyone here can understand that he acts irrationally when storming out;  that's what anger does.  That's what immaturity does.  but you're warping the reasoning here.


No, I am not. He storms out claiming that he loves Duncan so much that he can't fight alonside Loghain, that I can understand. But he also has the audacity to say that he is abandoning the fight against the blight because he loves Duncan that much. Does that make any sense to you?

Duncan was not only a man, he was an ideal. He was a purpose. He IS Grey Warden.
How can you claim that Alistair loves Duncan while he is turning his back against 2 of his Grey Warden brothers and leaving them alone to fight the Blight? Is that love for Duncan? Or is it selfish love for being loved?

I am talking about love in its truest sense. Not love in the common form. See Aristotle and Plato for different layers of love. If Alistair loved Ducan in the truest sense of the word, he would have done anything to see Duncan's wish fulfilled. And that's not revenge. That's not justice. That's defeating the Blight.

EDIT: forget about love even. If he even respected Duncan, he would have never abandoned the fight against the Blight.

Modifié par KnightofPhoenix, 19 janvier 2010 - 09:35 .


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melkathi wrote...

Ethical Scabs wrote...

It's a quote.  One I would hope those on this board appreciate.  Alas.


I liked it :lol:


Me too. :)  I was totally waiting to hear a " you killed my father, prepare to die" joke in there somewhere... *sigh* 

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melkathi wrote...

I can't believe that I 100% agree with the guy who believes kidnapping people and selling slaves is acceptable.
Yuck yuck yuck.
Now I feel filthy.
Pashera! You Alistair fanboys and girls. Stop. Please stop.
You are traumatizing me.

But what Knight said.
By abandoning the fight against the blight, Alistair proves that the execution of Loghain would have had nothing to do with Justice or Avenging the deaths of the people who died at Ostagar (be that Cailan, Duncan or any of others there), but an act born of Alistair's selfish needs. He wishes to kill Loghain not for Duncan, but for himself.
But even in his one moment of "showing backbone" he ultimately is a coward, because he hides his true motives behind all the talk about justice and duty.



Besides:
if justice was so important, should he not imediatly be put on trial for the murder of Loghain if you let him fight the duel? The duel was until one side yields and Loghain did yield. Alistair striking him down is thus murder.


See,  I can agree the desire for revenge was selfish;  revenge always is.  That is definitely what Alistair was after, not justice.

That doesn't disqualify Alistair from having loved Duncan though, far from it.

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shantisands wrote...

melkathi wrote...

Ethical Scabs wrote...

It's a quote.  One I would hope those on this board appreciate.  Alas.


I liked it :lol:


Me too. :)  I was totally waiting to hear a " you killed my father, prepare to die" joke in there somewhere... *sigh* 


Or maybe something about fighting a land war in Orlais...

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I like Alistair just because of his faults.

All these "I do my duty, no matter what" Paladin type characters really bore me.

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melkathi wrote...

KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Ok, you seem to forget that Alistair is a Grey Warden. But ok.

If you directly oppose your loved one's purpose, then you are not honoring their memory. Thus, you do not really love them. You only loved the attention that they gave you. The idea of being loved. Tis is what Alistair loves. But not Duncan himself.


I can't believe that I 100% agree with the guy who believes kidnapping people and selling slaves is acceptable.
Yuck yuck yuck.
Now I feel filthy.
Pashera! You Alistair fanboys and girls. Stop. Please stop.
You are traumatizing me.


Gooood. I can feeeel your anger Image IPB
In time you will call me...master.

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Tirigon wrote...

I like Alistair just because of his faults.
All these "I do my duty, no matter what" Paladin type characters really bore me.


He fails at being even that. Apparently defeating the blight does not rank high up in his so called "duty".

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KnightofPhoenix wrote...

Ethical Scabs wrote...
I don't see any references to Grey Warden's in my statement.  I was merely attacking your central proposition, that if Alistair truly loved Duncan he would be a Blightaholic.

Everyone here can understand that he acts irrationally when storming out;  that's what anger does.  That's what immaturity does.  but you're warping the reasoning here.


No, I am not. He storms out claiming that he loves Duncan so much that he can't fight alonside Loghain, that I can understand. But he also has the audacity to say that he is abandoning the fight against the blight because he loves Duncan that much. Does that make any sense to you?

Duncan was not only a man, he was an ideal. He was a purpose. He IS Grey Warden.
How can you claim that Alistair loves Duncan while he is turning his back against 2 of his Grey Warden brothers and leaving them alone to fight the Blight? Is that love for Duncan? Or is it selfish love for being loved?

I am talking about love in its truest sense. Not love in the common form. See Aristotle and Plato for different layers of love. If Alistair loved Ducan in the truest sense of the word, he would have done anything to see Duncan's wish fulfilled. And that's not revenge. That's not justice. That's defeating the Blight.

EDIT: forget about love even. If he even respected Duncan, he would have never abandoned the fight against the Blight.


Okay.  Alistair inevitably respects his ethics (or his desire for revenge masquerading as 'the right thing to do') more than his Grey Warden oaths.  I agree with that 100%.

As I posted earlier,  he tries to be a hard-ass on the Connor/Isolde issue,  but doesn't have the gumption to handle the hard decision.  That scene right there foreshadows the whole Landsmeet debacle;  He's willing to do thte nitty-gritty required of a Warden,  but only if he sees it as a noble act.

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I decided to test a theory out I had. I have done this with Human Noble and Dalish Elf. I wanted to see just how different Loghain would be at Landsmeet and when you arrive in Denerim with Arl Eamon. To me the difference is staggering. I actually felt the regret at Landsmeet for what Loghain did. Knowing all I did it was very difficult but Loghain had to go, for many reasons.



If Alistair is hardened, it is a huge difference from unhardened when all these decisions come down. When I spoke to him he wanted to be King. Albeit in an indirect way. With his statement that Anora and Loghain think they know what is best and theirs is the only way is what I am referring to.



The dialog choices I got were somewhat different than if you never speak to Loghain at Ostagar or the King's Guard. But in the end I still chose what I felt was the right path regardless what Riordan said. Choices are not always black and white but have undeniable shades of grey and the consequences therein.



There is no way I would choose Loghain over Alistair regardless what Origin story I play, but then I tend to be somewhat a Paladin by nature. Still, it was rather enlightening to see the regret for the choices Loghain made not just in the facial expressions but the tone of his voice. Still he made some rather bad choices and throwing in with Arl Rendon Howe knowing he had to be arm twisted to give up fighting the Orlais side when Ferelden was going for their independence was undisputedly what set me against him. Not to mention all his other bad choices he made.



So bottom line, Alistair is who I will choose every time because it does come down to a choice of the two.

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Ilvra wrote...

Or maybe something about fighting a land war in Orlais...


How about this:

Alistair:
You never said anything about not killing Loghain.



Rhiodan:
Duncan recruited you to help us stop a blight. It's a prestigious line of work, with a long and glorious tradition.



Alistair:
I just don't think it's right, not killing Loghain.



Rhiodan:
Am I going MAD, or did the word "think" escape your lips? You were not recruited for your brains, you hippopotamic land mass.



Player:
I agree with Alistair.



Rhiodan:
Oh, the sot has spoken. What happens to him is not truly your concern.
I will recruit him. And remember this, never forget this: when Duncan found
you, you were so slobbering drunk, you couldn't buy Brandy!

[turning to Alistair]



Rhiodan:
And you: friendless, brainless, helpless, hopeless! Do you want me to send you back to where you were? Peeling potatoes in the Chantry!




Ok, the drunk&brandy part still needs some work... but you get the idea