Xilizhra wrote...
So Humans don't have arranged marriages? And marriage isn't about dynastic and politics, as well as establishing family status? Dwarves don't have arranged marriages to strengthen the clans and cast bonds? Elves don't have elders which are involved in their marriage contracts?
I don't agree with any of that either, but we were talking about qunari. Also, only city elves have that marriage system; the Dalish are free to choose whom they will.
See what I said above for further explaination, but frankly the Qunari system lacks the negative consequences of the systems present in Thedas. It's impersonal and mechanical, but not more so than marrying for politics which is so common. But, it has no bearing on the relationship a Qunari has with another Qunari outside the breeding program, unlike a political marriage in Thedas and it still has none of the potential risks of abusive violent relationships, as it's tightly controlled and overseen by the Tamarassan and Ben Harthass.
I think you're making assumptions about oversight that may or may not be actually true.
So, the arranged marriage system still exists in Thedas. If the Qunari is so alien, why do we see such parralels, you even see it with the mages and chantry. Special dispensation, vows of celibacy. Its not that different at all.
Not really, the Qun doesn't damage and waste recources, the sadistic and abusive behaviour often associated with rape, is a behaviour which isn't tolerated within the Qun, just look at the tenants, all Qunari are part of the whole. Damageing another would be the equivalent of damaging yourself. And behaviour which is anathema to the Qun is dealt with by the Ben Hathrass and Tamarassan, via re education or if necessary wiping their minds.
We already know that the eugenics program is tightly controlled by the Tamarassan, so they will have oversight of who mates with whom and what goes on. There may very well be abuses, no system is perfect, but for a system which pervades all aspect of Qunari life, you don't think that Tamarassan know what goes on when they oversee who mates with who to track genetics?
It's not a leap of logic, when you already know a great deal about Qunari mindset, behaviour, the Triumverate and the teachings of the Qun.