respect what everyone else gets out of the game. not a lot to ask is it?
That old saying about respecting people's opinions unfortunately does not account for the fact that opinions can be flat out wrong.
Of course you are free to construct whatever fanfiction that maximises your enjoyment of the series, and if pretending that everything after Eden Prime was a dream makes you happiness then you can obviously do that... but you cannot claim that your fanfiction is true and that the literal interpretation is false which unfortunately is what every IT video out there is doing (what happened to respecting other people's opinions?)
At the end of the day, there is a very good reason why you see lots of conspiracy theories: humans are so good at detecting patterns that we'll see them even if there are none (e.g. Hearing "White Chirstmas" in white noise). Our world simply has become to complicated to be intuitively understood and we simply can't tell what' really there without at least a rudimentary grasp of hypothesis testing and statistics (which people like Clevernoob evidently lack - no, observations consistent with both the null hypothesis and the experimental hypothesis do not confirm your theory)