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#351
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Marten Stroud wrote...

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Marten Stroud wrote...


We don't have anything to the contrary. :whistle:


Of course.... a woman who had only one man in her life automatically means she's straight.
I think you need to go out more. :whistle:


I think we should both get out more.

We're debating the sexuality of a fictional character.

There are no winners. :mellow:


But but...the internet lives off discussions about the sexualities of fictional characters!
Tumblr would crumble without it. :lol:

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WildOrchid wrote...

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They don't. Everyone's assumed straight until proven guilty otherwise.:lol:



Exactly. This is what pisses me off the most. Straights... -_-


See, my argument was based on character consistency, at least from what we know right now.

But you....you had to cross the line. Shame on you.

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Marten Stroud wrote...



I think we should both get out more.

We're debating the sexuality of a fictional character.

There are no winners. :mellow:


And I still say that your "proof" isn't enough. In fact, it's the most weak proof i've ever seen. :mellow:
I know about sexuality more than you, obviously. ;)

*at least you admitted that you need to go out more and since you have no arguments left, you used the "fictional character" card.

#354
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Oh boy. We've already started this whole straight vs. player-sexual nonsense.

This is probably going to be most of us in a few pages:

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LPPrince wrote...

I'm definitely not in the "make every romance option playersexual" camp.

I want my squadmates and those that are romanceable to be written in such a way that benefits them rather than me- their writing is for the sake of them, not for the sake of the player.

I use to mention that I felt an equal number of hetero, ******, etc etc romances would've been cool, but realized later on what a mistake it was to feel that way. Because by feeling that way, I was effectively saying, "make a character have this particular sexuality because it needs to fill a quota".

Thats cheap, from where my perspective lies now. Our sexuality is part of what makes us who we are, and simply switching a character's sexuality to fill a quota or writing a character from the get go with a particular sexuality to fill a quota is doing that character a disservice.

I'm in the process of writing a fanfic, and while I was creating characters, I had to consider their individual sexual preferences, even if it wasn't important and wouldn't be touched on. The reason I did this was because I felt I needed to create characters that could only ever be what they are, rather than change to better fit a situation or be a certain way to have a certain number. So if I wrote a character as say, pansexual, they could only ever be that, and writing them any differently would make them not who they really are/who they're supposed to be.

I found that I was still able to write characters with various different sexualities, without consciously numbering how many of certain types there were.

The difference between a story being read and a game being played though is quite big. A game is much more of a visual medium, and something you can argue is more engaging(depending on the person). I can understand the difference there, and the inherent desire many have to be able to romance whomever they please out of the options made available to them.

But personally, I'd rather each romanceable character have their sexuality be an ingrained part of their nature and character. Naturally, that would mean not every choice would be available to everyone.

One character could for example, as people have mentioned before, only be attracted to female dwarven characters.

Or perhaps another doesn't care what race or gender someone is, but instead values other parts of what and whom a person is, such as their personality and actions.

Perhaps another is only interested in a male of any race who shares similar feelings as their own, for example sympathizing with the templars.

I feel like a character has more depth and uniqueness if they're written for the sake of themselves, rather than the player. Hopefully that makes some sense to those of you reading this.

Anyway, thats just my opinion. Of course some others would agree, some would disagree, some have their own feelings on the specifics. I'd like to hear...err, read how others feel about how romances are written in these games and what they'd particularly prefer out of them.

Because even if we don't get exactly what we want, and lets be honest, the vast majority of us won't get exactly what we want down to every little detail, its nice to find out how others feel and get their opinions.

If I didn't accept other's opinions, I wouldn't of done the reconsideration of my earlier opinion and changed my tune. :)


*applauds*

See, that's what I mean by variety. It adds depth to the characters, it makes them unique and not "just another gay elf" and it helps you avoid those awkward situations (Anders' first flirting attempt in the clinic if you aren't interested comes to mind).

Also, I think one of Cassandra's lines if Hawke is male implies she has a crush on him, which doesn't happen if Hawke is female. So to me that hints she's straight.

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Marten Stroud wrote...

A woman who has expressed interest in men only is straight. ;)


I would never make an assumption as to a character's sexuality unless they flat-out state it one way or another. Just because we never *see* a character in a relationship with a given gender doesn't mean they never have or never will consider the possibility. The "straight until proven otherwise" fallacy is so limiting and dull.

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WildOrchid wrote...

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They don't. Everyone's assumed straight until proven guilty otherwise.:lol:



Exactly. This is what pisses me off the most. Straights... -_-

Ooh! Ooh!

I know the word!

It's... uhm...

Yea, I got it! Privilege.

Many privileged people tend to fill their roles exceptionally well.

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DarkKnightHolmes wrote...

Oh boy. We've already started this whole straight vs. player-sexual nonsense.

This is probably going to be most of us in a few pages:

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WildOrchid and I were only talking about Cassandra. I doubt either one of us cares that much about the sexual orientation of the other LIs. At least, I don't.

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No, please stop right there. We've already been down that discussion 1000000000000 times and it leads to nowhere.

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 *eyes thread worriedly*

SO HOW 'BOUT THAT CULLEN HE SURE SEEMS LIKE AN INTERESTING CHOICE FOR ROMANCE :whistle:

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Marten Stroud wrote...

WildOrchid and I were only talking about Cassandra. I doubt either one of us cares that much about the sexual orientation of the other LIs. At least, I don't.


Well i hope she is available to both as i think that if not she will be available to neither like Aveline.

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Phate Phoenix wrote...

 *eyes thread worriedly*

SO HOW 'BOUT THAT CULLEN HE SURE SEEMS LIKE AN INTERESTING CHOICE FOR ROMANCE :whistle:


YES! HE IS A VERY SUITABLE CANDIDATE! :whistle:

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Please, guys...let's keep this thread light, yes?
No bitter debates about sexuality or gender or realism or what-have-you.
Most people have formed their opinion on this subject and won't budge and I'd rather not see this topic getting locked. It's fun to discuss LIs WITHOUT having to defend your opinion at every corner for once.

Let's discuss something else.


CULLEN. MAN, THAT FELLA. HE'S LIKE....AWESOME.
IMAGINE HIM RUNNING AROUND ALL...SHIRTLESS AND SWEATY. >.>

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So yeah, I want to spoon with my LI. :D

#365
MaraGriffyn

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Spooning would be good.

A return to random kissing would also be awesome. Three scripted scenes and a few party banters isn't enough for me to feel emotionally invested in a romance.

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Ap0crypha wrote...

*applauds*

See, that's what I mean by variety. It adds depth to the characters, it makes them unique and not "just another gay elf" and it helps you avoid those awkward situations (Anders' first flirting attempt in the clinic if you aren't interested comes to mind).

Also, I think one of Cassandra's lines if Hawke is male implies she has a crush on him, which doesn't happen if Hawke is female. So to me that hints she's straight.


Well, I still think that, going with the "characters written for the sake of themselves" train of thought, some characters would be forward about pursuing a romance, while others would be more reserved and likely wait for someone to come on to them.

Depends on, again- how they're written.

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Marten Stroud wrote...

iPoohCupCakes wrote...

WildOrchid wrote...

Marten Stroud wrote...



Is that consistent with her character?

She seems to have an incestuous love for her dead brother and has only shown (admittedly mild) interest in one person - a man.

Vivienne seems like the more likely player-sexual female.


LOL. Which man? She looks more gay to me. :D
Either way, she better be a LI.

I'm not gonna lie, Cassandra does have that vibe to her that she swings that way. B)


Short haired woman=lesbian? <_<


Nope. 

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wright1978 wrote...


Well i hope she is available to both as i think that if not she will be available to neither like Aveline.


I wanted to romance Aveline tho. :(
I wonder if there will be a character who's not available to protagonist...

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Ap0crypha wrote...

*applauds*

See, that's what I mean by variety. It adds depth to the characters, it makes them unique and not "just another gay elf" and it helps you avoid those awkward situations (Anders' first flirting attempt in the clinic if you aren't interested comes to mind).

Also, I think one of Cassandra's lines if Hawke is male implies she has a crush on him, which doesn't happen if Hawke is female. So to me that hints she's straight.

Gaider himself have stated explicitly that, if given more resources, variety would be the way he'd prefer to go, but as it is, inclusiveness takes precedence. "Realistic" or not.

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Blackrising wrote...

CULLEN. MAN, THAT FELLA. HE'S LIKE....AWESOME.
IMAGINE HIM RUNNING AROUND ALL...SHIRTLESS AND SWEATY. >.>


*Mind blows*

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Marten Stroud wrote...

So yeah, I want to spoon with my LI. :D


Wasn't there a mod for DA:O that let you spoon your LI or, if you were the forever alone type, your mabari?

Cause that was hilarious. I kept imagening my Warden crying silently into her dog's fur because nobody wants her.
But yeah, I approve of spooning, hugging, kissing, sparing, pillow fights, random slaps on the butt and everything else that doesn't involve long, drawn-out talks about your feelings. (Not that I don't love the talks as well, mind you.)

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WildOrchid wrote...

wright1978 wrote...


Well i hope she is available to both as i think that if not she will be available to neither like Aveline.


I wanted to romance Aveline tho. :(
I wonder if there will be a character who's not available to protagonist...


I had something similar with Bethany. Why did she have to be Hawke's sister?! :(

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Ap0crypha wrote...

*applauds*

See, that's what I mean by variety. It adds depth to the characters, it makes them unique and not "just another gay elf" and it helps you avoid those awkward situations (Anders' first flirting attempt in the clinic if you aren't interested comes to mind).

Also, I think one of Cassandra's lines if Hawke is male implies she has a crush on him, which doesn't happen if Hawke is female. So to me that hints she's straight.

If its the line i think your making reference to, then Cassandra will still say it regardless of Hawke's gender. 

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WildOrchid wrote...

wright1978 wrote...


Well i hope she is available to both as i think that if not she will be available to neither like Aveline.


I wanted to romance Aveline tho. :(
I wonder if there will be a character who's not available to protagonist...


Honestly, I think there will be because there always is, and even more explicetly in newer Bioware games. (*weeps brokenly over Joker*) If there is going to be another Averline situation, Cassandra and Varric are both likely canidates; Varric because he's turned the player down before and has dialogue indicating he wouldn't be interested in human players, and Cassandra because of Regalyan.

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I want a scene like this one for my romance (ok I know I'm off topic^^)