Zandilar wrote...
That isn't to say that assuming heterosexuality isn't a good bet, since it does make up the majority of human sexuality in our current culture and society. That assumption excludes any other possibility and is actually pretty rude in my opinion, as the only person who knows their sexuality is the person themself (and sometimes they're not even 100% clear on it).
I think I would actually like to add, hoping that it stays close to the thread topic, that the major issue with the assumption of heterosexuality is that it then leads to arguments about how the developers have "changed" the character dramatically. I think a great example of this is Kaiden in ME, who I've always thought read as slightly more interested in male Shepard than a hetero military guy would normally be (i.e., Vega). So it wasn't a surprise to me when they revealed that Kaidan is actually bisexual in ME3. Of course, since you couldn't romance him in the first game as a male, many people
assumed that he was heterosexual and were then outraged when "was changed". The mistake is on them for assuming that because only a FemShep could romance him and he mentioned a girl in his past, he
had to be straight.
It's the same thing with Anders. People
assumed that he was straight because he mentions women in DA: A. Not a bad assumption because there is evidence to support it. However, that only works in a binary situation (straight or gay). As soon as you account for any sexuality between those two then hetero assumptions become flawed. What would be more accurate would be say that, because of his behavior in DA: A, you assume that he is not gay. That's accurate. But you can't say that he's not bisexual or that he's just straight based on his actions in DA: A. That's just flawed reasoning skills.
To relate it to DA: I, Cassandra, Varric, and (possibly) Cullen are rumored companions and/or LI's. In all three cases, you have evidence to support that they are not gay: Cassandra interested in Arishok killing male Hawke; Varric and Bianca; and Cullen's faux romance with Fem Warden. However, there is no evidence that they are not bisexual, so if any of them are same gender love interests in DA: I, the argument that "have been changed" because of "pandering" and "fanservice" is flawed.