Detsu wrote...
ITSSEXYTIME wrote...
Homosexual relationships are essentially a sexual fetish. Just because it's a socially accepted sexual fetish (mostly) does not mean that he is inherently wrong for not wanting that fetish practiced. Do you think paedophiles should be allowed to engage in their own sexual preferences? Probably not. Is it so hard to believe that someone could view homosexuality in the same light? That's how it was viewed for many years before widespread social change since the 60s.
Actually I have nothing wrong with pedophilia, in and of itself. I have a big problem with child molestation, though.
And of course there's a simple and rational reason you can't compare child molestors to homosexuals. Child molestors are molesting children, meaning that their victim can't give informed consent.
Informed consent is one of the ideas that all definitions for crime are based on. Rape is unconsentual sex. Etc. But two homosexuals of consenting age, who consent to sex, are not doing anything wrong. This is basic and logical.
To demand that individuals be denied their right to do whatever they want between consenting adults is hate speech. Period.
I agree with you that a line must be drawn between the act of pedophilia and the lack of informed consent. Regardless though what he expresses isn't hate speech. It's radical opinion for sure, but I've seen diametrically opposed opinions on various other subjects. I use pedophilia as an example because it is something that many people have strong opinions against and it helps people gain some insight into darth's perspective. Unlike your average anti-pedophile however, he isn't expressing his opinions in vulgar,demeaning or hateful manner.
Although this entire discussion really doesn't belong here...
Crawling_Chaos wrote...
ITSSEXYTIME wrote...
Homosexual relationships are essentially a sexual fetish. Just because it's a socially accepted sexual fetish (mostly) does not mean that he is inherently wrong for not wanting that fetish practiced. Do you think paedophiles should be allowed to engage in their own sexual preferences? Probably not. Is it so hard to believe that someone could view homosexuality in the same light? That's how it was viewed for many years before widespread social change since the 60s.
Really? Two consenting adults equates to an adult manipulating and taking advantage of a child?
Homosexuality is just a fetish?
[fetish: an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is
psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an
object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete
sexual expression]
Because homosexual relationships only consist of sexual gratification? Really? So I guess all relationships can just be considered a fetish? I guess they all just boil down to sexual gratification from a specific object.
The homosexual part is a fetish. Obviously, people can have a meaningful relationship with someone of the same sex. However, the definition of homosexuality pretty much means "sexually attracted to members of the same sex". As for the issue of manipulation: that is an important difference, however not all pedophiles manipulate children much like how not all men rape women.
The fact that you immediately equate pedophilic relationships with rape and manipulation proves my point. You belittle darth for his ignorance and then try to rationalize your own.
Also, I'm not a pedophile (before anyone accuses me of such)
Modifié par ITSSEXYTIME, 19 janvier 2010 - 03:25 .