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Well..., said *** individuals need to understand ranting on a game forum, isn't going to equate to rights, or respect or whatever. What does complainingn here accomplish..?!

Excellent question. Why on earth are you posting here? You should be out playing video games or curing diseases! Time spent on forums is time wasted.

My sarcasm is to make a point. I would bet money that my point won't get across.

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Detsu wrote...

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Homosexual relationships are essentially a sexual fetish.  Just because it's a socially accepted sexual fetish (mostly) does not mean that he is inherently wrong for not wanting that fetish practiced.  Do you think paedophiles should be allowed to engage in their own sexual preferences?  Probably not.  Is it so hard to believe that someone could view homosexuality in the same light?  That's how it was viewed for many years before widespread social change since the 60s.

Actually I have nothing wrong with pedophilia, in and of itself. I have a big problem with child molestation, though.

And of course there's a simple and rational reason you can't compare child molestors to homosexuals. Child molestors are molesting children, meaning that their victim can't give informed consent.

Informed consent is one of the ideas that all definitions for crime are based on. Rape is unconsentual sex. Etc. But two homosexuals of consenting age, who consent to sex, are not doing anything wrong. This is basic and logical.

To demand that individuals be denied their right to do whatever they want between consenting adults is hate speech. Period.


I agree with you that a line must be drawn between the act of pedophilia and the lack of informed consent.  Regardless though what he expresses isn't hate speech.  It's radical opinion for sure, but I've seen diametrically opposed opinions on various other subjects.  I use pedophilia as an example because it is something that many people have strong opinions against and it helps people gain some insight into darth's perspective.  Unlike your average anti-pedophile however, he isn't expressing his opinions in vulgar,demeaning or hateful manner.  

Although this entire discussion really doesn't belong here...

Crawling_Chaos wrote...

ITSSEXYTIME wrote...

Homosexual relationships are essentially a sexual fetish.  Just because it's a socially accepted sexual fetish (mostly) does not mean that he is inherently wrong for not wanting that fetish practiced.  Do you think paedophiles should be allowed to engage in their own sexual preferences?  Probably not.  Is it so hard to believe that someone could view homosexuality in the same light?  That's how it was viewed for many years before widespread social change since the 60s.



Really?  Two consenting adults equates to an adult manipulating and taking advantage of a child? 

Homosexuality is just a fetish?

[fetish: an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is
psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an
object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete
sexual expression]

  Because homosexual relationships only consist of sexual gratification?  Really?  So I guess all relationships can just be considered a fetish?  I guess they all just boil down to sexual gratification from a specific object.
 


The homosexual part is a fetish.  Obviously, people can have a meaningful relationship with someone of the same sex.  However, the definition of homosexuality pretty much means "sexually attracted to members of the same sex".  As for the issue of manipulation: that is an important difference, however not all pedophiles manipulate children much like how not all men rape women.  

The fact that you immediately equate pedophilic relationships with rape and manipulation proves my point.  You belittle darth for his ignorance and then try to rationalize your own.

Also, I'm not a pedophile (before anyone accuses me of such)

Modifié par ITSSEXYTIME, 19 janvier 2010 - 03:25 .


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Crawling_Chaos wrote...

I really can't believe the stuff I'm reading from people on the Bioware forums. 


I know, people *gasp* actually have different opinions!! Am I hallucinating!?

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They've confirmed there's no f/f romances...with easily confirmes there's no m/m romances. SO....



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Well, this thread is certainly taking a turn for the worse. I don't see how you can equate a relationship between two consenting adults with rape (to put it one way, and let's not bother arguing historical "precedence").

Modifié par FollowTheGourd, 19 janvier 2010 - 03:25 .


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shinobi602 wrote...

I know, people *gasp* actually have different opinions!! Am I hallucinating!?

You've missed the point so spectacularly that you've only made CC seem even more correct.

All forums are full of the mentally unsound but this is real standout example.

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ITSSEXYTIME wrote...Homosexual relationships are essentially a sexual fetish.  Just because it's a socially accepted sexual fetish (mostly) does not mean that he is inherently wrong for not wanting that fetish practiced.  Do you think paedophiles should be allowed to engage in their own sexual preferences?  Probably not.  Is it so hard to believe that someone could view homosexuality in the same light?  That's how it was viewed for many years before widespread social change since the 60s.


It's not a sexual fetish, well, no more so than heterosexuality is a sexual fetish. You are getting your Psychology 101 concepts mixed up.

As an aside, women were also viewed as hysterical, irrational and less-than-competent for anything but raising children. Social change in the 1960s and 1970s, fueled by increasing amounts of research which undercut such perceptions, changed things for the better. Same thing happened with homosexuality.

And sure, anyone can make a statement that they think gay people should go back into the closet and have their rights taken from them, or that women should stay at home and just make babies (and definitely should never play video games.) Pointing out that both such statements are ridiculous and idiotic is a pretty reasonable and measured response.

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There was no Lesbian option in the first game, Asari's have no gender.


"Gender" is a state of mind categorized based on societal perceptions of what it means to be masculine or feminine. Unless you're a tranquil from DA:O, you have a gender. You can't be a fully functional person and not have one.

"Sex" is the biological term for "what parts ya got down there." And the sex of asari is, in terms of contemporary definition, female, no matter how much Bioware tries to Word Of God it to the contrary.

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SEE..everytime this question is asked it gets personal. This is a ME2 forum..what does anyone's stance sexuality IRL have to do with anything...?!

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shinobi602 wrote...

Crawling_Chaos wrote...

I really can't believe the stuff I'm reading from people on the Bioware forums. 


I know, people *gasp* actually have different opinions!! Am I hallucinating!?


I'm all for opinions, but equating homosexuality to pedophilia, having the theocratically backed belief that homosexuality is something that needs to be purged, calling homosexuality a fetish.

These are opinions I can't stand for.

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If homosexuality is a fetish, then heterosexuality is.

Modifié par Collider, 19 janvier 2010 - 03:30 .


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Why is there a LI for nercrophiliac's?

Why isn't there a LI for Asians, and Hispanics?

Why isn't there a polygamist romance?

Why is there a domanatrix romance

Why isn't there a bisexual romance?

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I don't think sodomy is in their marketing strategy.

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DQE001 wrote...

ITSSEXYTIME wrote...Homosexual relationships are essentially a sexual fetish.  Just because it's a socially accepted sexual fetish (mostly) does not mean that he is inherently wrong for not wanting that fetish practiced.  Do you think paedophiles should be allowed to engage in their own sexual preferences?  Probably not.  Is it so hard to believe that someone could view homosexuality in the same light?  That's how it was viewed for many years before widespread social change since the 60s.


It's not a sexual fetish, well, no more so than heterosexuality is a sexual fetish. You are getting your Psychology 101 concepts mixed up.

As an aside, women were also viewed as hysterical, irrational and less-than-competent for anything but raising children. Social change in the 1960s and 1970s, fueled by increasing amounts of research which undercut such perceptions, changed things for the better. Same thing happened with homosexuality.

And sure, anyone can make a statement that they think gay people should go back into the closet and have their rights taken from them, or that women should stay at home and just make babies (and definitely should never play video games.) Pointing out that both such statements are ridiculous and idiotic is a pretty reasonable and measured response.


Heterosexuality is as much a fetish as anything, it's simply a more common one that serves a biological purpose (and thus is the most common)

"For the better" is subjective.  Societies perspective on these things changes as you pointed out but to dismiss either viewpoint as right or wrong is a gross oversimplification.  Social change happens because of outspoken individuals striking out against the commonly accepted social beliefs and whether or not you agree/disagree with said opinions I don't think anyone has the right to silence them.

That said, this discussion is far too political for ME2 forums.  OP's question has been answered and that's pretty much the end of this discussion.

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DeathCultArm wrote...

Why is there a LI for nercrophiliac's?
Why isn't there a LI for Asians, and Hispanics?
Why isn't there a polygamist romance?
Why is there a domanatrix romance
Why isn't there a bisexual romance?

You sure do love your unrelated non sequitors don't you DCA. Plan on contributing to anything?

As a side note, there was a bi romance in ME (Liara) so there might be one in ME2.

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I'm trying to contribute. It was just as on-topic as was an of the *** rants were. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, i'm just tired of the same two topics.

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Permutation wrote...

I don't think sodomy is in their marketing strategy.


Obviously. That's EA's department, amirite?

Ho ho ho ho hoooh! Zing!

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ITSSEXYTIME wrote...

Heterosexuality is as much a fetish as anything, it's simply a more common one that serves a biological purpose (and thus is the most common)

"For the better" is subjective.  Societies perspective on these things changes as you pointed out but to dismiss either viewpoint as right or wrong is a gross oversimplification.  Social change happens because of outspoken individuals striking out against the commonly accepted social beliefs and whether or not you agree/disagree with said opinions I don't think anyone has the right to silence them.

That said, this discussion is far too political for ME2 forums.  OP's question has been answered and that's pretty much the end of this discussion.

Sure is Psych 101 in here. That isn't how fetishes work. The term was defined earlier, go reflect on that for a bit.

Also, HURP DURP SUBJECTIVISM IS A CONVENIENT WAY TO DODGE QUESTIONS.

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Can we stop talking about sexual orientation? And start to waste our time with a religion debate instead? need something to entertain me right now.

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ITSSEXYTIME wrote...

I agree with you that a line must be drawn between the act of pedophilia and the lack of informed consent.  Regardless though what he expresses isn't hate speech.  It's radical opinion for sure, but I've seen diametrically opposed opinions on various other subjects.  I use pedophilia as an example because it is something that many people have strong opinions against and it helps people gain some insight into darth's perspective.  Unlike your average anti-pedophile however, he isn't expressing his opinions in vulgar,demeaning or hateful manner.  

Although this entire discussion really doesn't belong here...


Differing viewpoints are what make discussion go round, but posting in a thread centered around Viewpoint A by Viewpoint B that the world would be a much better place once they were all banned from existence comes across as a bit demeaning and spiteful to me.  I agree however that Bioware's forums are not the place for extended debate on the topic.  However, it's worth pointing out yet again that Bioware has -not- confirmed or denied the issue that is this thread's topic, and these arguments don't start in similar threads until someone posts intentionally inflamatory remarks. 

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DeathCultArm wrote...

I'm trying to contribute. It was just as on-topic as was an of the *** rants were. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, i'm just tired of the same two topics.

Well, if you're tired of the forums... maybe you should take a break from them? Everyone has better things to do than post on a forum. Go read a classic book or something.

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I promote these threads.



I am not interested in game developement, but I hope that one of these threads - on a myriad of game boards much like this one - encourages some young homosexual to go out and become a developer. Not only a developer - but a Lead Designer on RPGs.



That's when equality happens - when you take it from "The Other".



When young gamers - who happen to be gay - go out and start making games, start leading the design on games, and decide: "Hey, there needs to be an option for people like me." That's when these threads will die.



My posting on threads like this is in support of the possibility of it happening. And I won't stop until you bigots come and find me and beat down my door and drag me out of my house and burn me on my lawn - just like the hate filled, fundamentalist, Theocrats that you are.



Long live God - Death to Religion.

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Crawling_Chaos wrote...

I'm all for opinions, but equating homosexuality to pedophilia, having the theocratically backed belief that homosexuality is something that needs to be purged, calling homosexuality a fetish.

These are opinions I can't stand for.


Then you're intolerant just like the opposite side of the fence. Don't be a hypocrite. Alot of people are hypocrites when it comes to this issue. They cry for tolerance and want us to be all jolly about it, while if someone disagrees with it and thinks it's wrong in THEIR opinion (that California pageant thing, prime example), they throw a pissy fit and find it unacceptable and they just won't tolerate it, oh the irony.

Funny indeed.

Modifié par shinobi602, 19 janvier 2010 - 03:36 .


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I'm not leaving b/c of worthless, redundant topics. I'll just be as redundant, until they stop. And if they don't then...