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Hi guys,

I've made a bit of a mess for myself. I was in a relationship with Ashley before I died and when I came back, she and I were in such different places in life that it was impossible for us to get back together. I mourned for her loss, I really did. But then something happened. I started spending more time with Tali and before I knew it, she had a special place in my heart. I'm very much in love with her and wish to be with her. 

But now Ashley is back and I don't know what to do. When we were together I though she was the one. My heart still pounds for her and I long to be by her side. Tali is different, but I love her as dearly as I love Ashley. Neither of them is open to the idea of polyamorous relationship and I am at loss with what to do. Can you please help me out?

Sincerely,
Commander Shepard. Beast in uniting a galaxy, a tool in intimate relationships. 

Modifié par RainbowDazed, 01 septembre 2013 - 10:13 .


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Sir DeLoria

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Tali. Ash is horrible in ME3.

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RainbowDazed

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Horrible how? Is she still upset about the Cerberus thing?

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Do you still want Ash after she bugged you so many times about being with cerberus?

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RainbowDazed wrote...

Horrible how? Is she still upset about the Cerberus thing?


If you want Ash to live you'd want to "paragon" her about that and visit her in the hospital. And you wouldn`t want to miss the catfight between those two later. (Geth Dreadnought -->Choose Ash to come with you, best when no romance locked in yet)

Modifié par RatThing, 01 septembre 2013 - 11:09 .


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RatThing wrote...

RainbowDazed wrote...

Horrible how? Is she still upset about the Cerberus thing?


If you want Ash to live you'd want to "paragon" her about that and visit her in the hospital. And you wouldn`t want to miss the catfight between those two later. (Geth Dreadnought -->Choose Ash to come with you, best when no romance locked in yet)


Thanks, that's great advice! I love to watch two girls fighting over me. I'm a total paragon, so I'll be sure to visit her (wait, what - hospital?! I hope it's not... I'm not ready to have kids!). 

Laters,
Shepard

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McFlurry598

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 Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara.

Just romance Liara. You won't need any advice then.:wizard:

Modifié par McFlurry598, 01 septembre 2013 - 11:39 .


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RainbowDazed wrote...

RatThing wrote...

RainbowDazed wrote...

Horrible how? Is she still upset about the Cerberus thing?


If you want Ash to live you'd want to "paragon" her about that and visit her in the hospital. And you wouldn`t want to miss the catfight between those two later. (Geth Dreadnought -->Choose Ash to come with you, best when no romance locked in yet)


Thanks, that's great advice! I love to watch two girls fighting over me. I'm a total paragon, so I'll be sure to visit her (wait, what - hospital?! I hope it's not... I'm not ready to have kids!). 

Laters,
Shepard


Ahem yeah .....  it's not:P. But you'll find out soon enough. It's pretty early in the game.

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McFlurry598 wrote...

 Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara.

Just romance Liara. You won't need any advice then.:wizard:

Aside form "why should I romance Liara?"

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RatThing wrote...

RainbowDazed wrote...

Horrible how? Is she still upset about the Cerberus thing?


If you want Ash to live you'd want to "paragon" her about that and visit her in the hospital. And you wouldn`t want to miss the catfight between those two later. (Geth Dreadnought -->Choose Ash to come with you, best when no romance locked in yet)


This advice is not entirely correct. I romanced Ash in ME1 then went with someone else in ME2 (can't remember if it was Miranda or Tali that time). It is very important to go see her in the hospital. But you can still take the "let's just be friends" route (which I did) and she will still live. I think the main thing is to visit her all three times and be somewhat nice to her. Also, I told her to stuff it when she accused me of still being with Cerberus. (elevator scene with James)

BTW, Tali is a better romance option (IMO, of course) in ME3. Much more dialogue, particularly on missions. With Ash you never get any romance dialogue on a mission. The flirts btw Sheppard and Tali are pretty funny.

Modifié par cap and gown, 01 septembre 2013 - 12:26 .


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SvM madman wrote...

McFlurry598 wrote...

 Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara.

Just romance Liara. You won't need any advice then.:wizard:

Aside form "why should I romance Liara?"

It's more like, why wouldn't you romance Liara?

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Both the Quarians and the Alliance have a hatred against Cerberus, yet Tali still trusted you enough to join you. Ashley didn't, even if you were together at one point. The choice seems pretty clear to me.

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McFlurry598 wrote...

 Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara.

Just romance Liara. You won't need any advice then.:wizard:


No, just no. Never.

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McFlurry598 wrote...

SvM madman wrote...

McFlurry598 wrote...

 Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara.

Just romance Liara. You won't need any advice then.:wizard:

Aside form "why should I romance Liara?"

It's more like, why wouldn't you romance Liara?


Because she's a total creep.

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Sir DeLoria

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RainbowDazed wrote...

Horrible how? Is she still upset about the Cerberus thing?


She's changed into a total loner drama queen, who gets wasted and doesn't trust you. She also barely has any content. 

Tali on the other hand has one of the best and most popular romance arcs in the series(the only rival would be Liara). The reactions of your crew are also pretty funny, especially with the Citadel and From Ashes DLC.

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The choice seems pretty clear to me.

You are right, Tali is a horrible person for working with terrorist sympathisers although, in her defences, it's not like Shepard gave her a choice (don't fancy working with Cerberus? Fine, have fun playing with these armatures).

My advice would be: choose neither - your fickle attitude suggests that you don't love Ash, and if you "love Tali as much as Ash" as you claim then you don't love Tali either. Maybe date Allers or something.

Edit to add: There is an "edit" button.:police:

Modifié par AlexMBrennan, 01 septembre 2013 - 02:27 .


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Necanor wrote...

McFlurry598 wrote...

SvM madman wrote...

McFlurry598 wrote...

 Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara.

Just romance Liara. You won't need any advice then.:wizard:

Aside form "why should I romance Liara?"

It's more like, why wouldn't you romance Liara?


Because she's a total creep.

You say that like it's a bad thing:whistle:

McFlurry598 wrote...

SvM madman wrote...

McFlurry598 wrote...

 Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara. Liara.

Just romance Liara. You won't need any advice then.[smilie]http://social.bioware.com/images/forum/emoticons/wizard.png[/smilie]

Aside form "why should I romance Liara?"

It's more like, why wouldn't you romance Liara?

Becuase Tali exists

Although she doesn't go through a lot of trouble to get your corpse back from the shadow broker before he can give it to the collectors or become the next shadow broker and scatter time capsules preeching your greatness all over the galaxy. 

But she does have that Emergency Induction port going for her, and does help provide the opportunity for me to punch Admiral Gerrel and throw him out the airlock before ending a centuries long war by promising to let the geth kill him and his entire species, now if only I could just shoot him in the face:bandit:

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Romance Liara or this trooper gets it!


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Wait. There's a let's just be friends route with Ashley? I've never heard it. It's more like, "We'll see, okay." No, actually I think that is exactly what it is.

Anyway, I say if you already left Ashley for Tali, you might as well stick with Tali.

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Sir DeLoria

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The___Baron wrote...
But she does have that Emergency Induction port going for her, and does help provide the opportunity for me to punch Admiral Gerrel and throw him out the airlock before ending a centuries long war by promising to let the geth kill him and his entire species, now if only I could just shoot him in the face:bandit:


Jesus, what's wrong with poor ol Han? And why is the entire Quarian race responsible for the actions of one jackass? If humanity was judged like that, we would've been exterminated looong ago.

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Miranda

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Steelcan wrote...

Miranda



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A relationship with a woman who wanted to implant a control chip in your head must be ............ interesting.

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o Ventus wrote...

Steelcan wrote...

Miranda



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RatThing wrote...

A relationship with a woman who wanted to implant a control chip in your head must be ............ interesting.

She didn't hunt down Shepard's body, pry off his melted armor, clean it, and put it on display....