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daveliam wrote...

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So people like us only deserve an inch?

It seems I forgot to add this part of the cycle where the "victims" cry bigotry.

Nobody "deserves" anything as far as romances are concerned. There is just no sense behind people crying that DA:O was "unfair" or thinking that they must have one gay LI for every straight LI.


Yawn.  We've been through this before and you will never understand because you are always on the receiving end of the benefit.  You get more options so, of course, it's not a problem for you.  There's no purpose in continuing this conversation because you aren't open to hearing the other side of the  argument, which I tried very hard to do the other day.

I'm still waiting for all these benefits my sexual orientation and skin color bestow upon me


Skin color = irrelevant to this thread's topic.

Sexual orientation = in the context of this thread, you (if you are straight) have more options in the series than other sexualities.  More options = a benefit.


Straight people get 4 possible romances in the series. Bisexual ones gets 7. How does that make straight people getting the most?

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I like it how the "white straight male" is the bad guy(we do have our wrong'ums). But it does seem peopl are attacking the lowest hanging fruit i.e. the only group that is social acceptable to attack.


There has never been a problem with LGBT in black, asian or middle-eastern communities(or whatever other skin based structure you identify with). /Sarcasm

Keep up the thread it's hilarious.

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eluvianix wrote...

Self-pity? That ironic coming from the one who has issues with his own self-entitlement.


I'm not the one who turned the number and availability of LIs in a work of fiction into a social justice debacle. Nor would I because I'm not that pathetic.

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So love interests? anyone?


Cassandra, Vivienne, Scribe Girl, Morrigan. They will all be mine.

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greengoron89 wrote...

eluvianix wrote...

Self-pity? That ironic coming from the one who has issues with his own self-entitlement.


I'm not the one who turned the number and availability of LIs in a work of fiction into a social justice debacle. Nor would I because I'm not that pathetic.


because works of fiction have no bearing on and are never affected by the society that creates them yeah???

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Inquisitor Recon wrote...

daveliam wrote...
Yawn.  We've been through this before and you will never understand because you are always on the receiving end of the benefit.  You get more options so, of course, it's not a problem for you.  There's no purpose in continuing this conversation because you aren't open to hearing the other side of the  argument, which I tried very hard to do the other day.

I'm sorry but "you won't understand because you're one of the privileged" isn't an argument.

First realize that Bioware doesn't owe either of us anything. They don't owe anybody anything in the romance department. So there isn't anything wrong if Fanboy#1 can't bang Mercenary#1. This is the same with FemWarden and Alistair, MaleWarden and Morrigan, etc. Romances if included at all should be left to the discretion of the writers who shouldn't be concerned about some requirement to provide multiple options to everybody in order to satisfy those on the forums here who are downright obsessed with the romances. Notions of "fairness", political correctness and "inclusion" shouldn't factor into this.


It's good then that Bioware doesn't share your opinion.

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Rawgrim wrote...

daveliam wrote...

eluvianix wrote...

daveliam wrote...

Inquisitor Recon wrote...

eluvianix wrote...
So people like us only deserve an inch?

It seems I forgot to add this part of the cycle where the "victims" cry bigotry.

Nobody "deserves" anything as far as romances are concerned. There is just no sense behind people crying that DA:O was "unfair" or thinking that they must have one gay LI for every straight LI.


Yawn.  We've been through this before and you will never understand because you are always on the receiving end of the benefit.  You get more options so, of course, it's not a problem for you.  There's no purpose in continuing this conversation because you aren't open to hearing the other side of the  argument, which I tried very hard to do the other day.

Maker...why do some have to be so stubborn? It's like talking to a brick wall sometimes. I hate feeding a troll, but half of their comments seriously irritate me.


It's just not worth it.  I learned that the hard way the other day.  Doesn't matter in the long run though because the DA team has hinted that it will probably be playersexual romances again and I expect a balanced ratio.


How do you figure its balanced when bisexuals gets twice as many options ans straight or gay people?


That's what happens when you accept more than one group.

If you have chocolate ice cream and vanilla and offer everyone some you don't get to complain about the people who have no issue eating both. Plus bisexual people will ALWAYS in any scenario end up with more options.

2/2/2  is the most even right?

Straight Male gets 2 females
Straight female gets 2 males
Bi female gets 2 females and 2 males
Bi male gets 2 males and 2 females
Gay male gets 2 males
Gay female gets 2 females

That's what happens when you're less picky. You get more options!

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More options = a benefit.

This is a myth. Quality > quantity.

eluvianix wrote...
Self-pity? That ironic coming from the one who has issues with his own self-entitlement.

This entire thread began with some self-pity about the lack of "fairness" in the Mass Effect series and continued to its present state. You want entitlement? Look in the mirror.

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It's good then that Bioware doesn't share your opinion.

It's a shame whenever they share the opinions of a such an unskilled troll like yourself.

Modifié par Inquisitor Recon, 08 septembre 2013 - 04:38 .


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MasterScribe wrote...

andrew252 wrote...

So love interests? anyone?


Cassandra, Vivienne, Scribe Girl, Morrigan. They will all be mine.


I'm pretty sure past characters aren't gonna be LIs

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MasterScribe wrote...

andrew252 wrote...

So love interests? anyone?


Cassandra, Vivienne, Scribe Girl, Morrigan. They will all be mine.

But what about bob and scott!I know scotts a dick but if you really learn what she really is.....a dick

Modifié par andrew252, 08 septembre 2013 - 04:38 .


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Ryzaki wrote...

Rawgrim wrote...

daveliam wrote...

eluvianix wrote...

daveliam wrote...

Inquisitor Recon wrote...

eluvianix wrote...
So people like us only deserve an inch?

It seems I forgot to add this part of the cycle where the "victims" cry bigotry.

Nobody "deserves" anything as far as romances are concerned. There is just no sense behind people crying that DA:O was "unfair" or thinking that they must have one gay LI for every straight LI.


Yawn.  We've been through this before and you will never understand because you are always on the receiving end of the benefit.  You get more options so, of course, it's not a problem for you.  There's no purpose in continuing this conversation because you aren't open to hearing the other side of the  argument, which I tried very hard to do the other day.

Maker...why do some have to be so stubborn? It's like talking to a brick wall sometimes. I hate feeding a troll, but half of their comments seriously irritate me.


It's just not worth it.  I learned that the hard way the other day.  Doesn't matter in the long run though because the DA team has hinted that it will probably be playersexual romances again and I expect a balanced ratio.


How do you figure its balanced when bisexuals gets twice as many options ans straight or gay people?


That's what happens when you accept more than one group.

If you have chocolate ice cream and vanilla and offer everyone some you don't get to complain about the people who have no issue eating both. Plus bisexual people will ALWAYS in any scenario end up with more options.

2/2/2  is the most even right?

Straight Male gets 2 females
Straight female gets 2 males
Bi female gets 2 females and 2 males
Bi male gets 2 males and 2 females
Gay male gets 2 males
Gay female gets 2 females

That's what happens when you're less picky. You get more options!


You get more options as a bisexual, sure. But only if the characters are all bisexual as well.

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AresKeith wrote...

MasterScribe wrote...

andrew252 wrote...

So love interests? anyone?


Cassandra, Vivienne, Scribe Girl, Morrigan. They will all be mine.


I'm pretty sure past characters aren't gonna be LIs


It doesn't matter. I'm insane. Your logic is meaningless to me. :alien:

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AresKeith wrote...

MasterScribe wrote...

andrew252 wrote...

So love interests? anyone?


Cassandra, Vivienne, Scribe Girl, Morrigan. They will all be mine.


I'm pretty sure past characters aren't gonna be LIs


I didn't even want her the first time. Pretty sure Leliana was right on the money about her swamp. :ph34r:

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Inquisitor Recon wrote...

daveliam wrote...
Yawn.  We've been through this before and you will never understand because you are always on the receiving end of the benefit.  You get more options so, of course, it's not a problem for you.  There's no purpose in continuing this conversation because you aren't open to hearing the other side of the  argument, which I tried very hard to do the other day.

I'm sorry but "you won't understand because you're one of the privileged" isn't an argument.

First realize that Bioware doesn't owe either of us anything. They don't owe anybody anything in the romance department. So there isn't anything wrong if Fanboy#1 can't bang Mercenary#1. This is the same with FemWarden and Alistair, MaleWarden and Morrigan, etc. Romances if included at all should be left to the discretion of the writers who shouldn't be concerned about some requirement to provide multiple options to everybody in order to satisfy those on the forums here who are downright obsessed with the romances. Notions of "fairness", political correctness and "inclusion" shouldn't factor into this.


Never said they owed us anything.  You are talking about what you think is the most fair, which coincidently gives you more options than others.  I'm simply pointing out that it seems convenient that this is the case.

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Rawgrim wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

Rawgrim wrote...

daveliam wrote...

eluvianix wrote...

daveliam wrote...

Inquisitor Recon wrote...

eluvianix wrote...
So people like us only deserve an inch?

It seems I forgot to add this part of the cycle where the "victims" cry bigotry.

Nobody "deserves" anything as far as romances are concerned. There is just no sense behind people crying that DA:O was "unfair" or thinking that they must have one gay LI for every straight LI.


Yawn.  We've been through this before and you will never understand because you are always on the receiving end of the benefit.  You get more options so, of course, it's not a problem for you.  There's no purpose in continuing this conversation because you aren't open to hearing the other side of the  argument, which I tried very hard to do the other day.

Maker...why do some have to be so stubborn? It's like talking to a brick wall sometimes. I hate feeding a troll, but half of their comments seriously irritate me.


It's just not worth it.  I learned that the hard way the other day.  Doesn't matter in the long run though because the DA team has hinted that it will probably be playersexual romances again and I expect a balanced ratio.


How do you figure its balanced when bisexuals gets twice as many options ans straight or gay people?


That's what happens when you accept more than one group.

If you have chocolate ice cream and vanilla and offer everyone some you don't get to complain about the people who have no issue eating both. Plus bisexual people will ALWAYS in any scenario end up with more options.

2/2/2  is the most even right?

Straight Male gets 2 females
Straight female gets 2 males
Bi female gets 2 females and 2 males
Bi male gets 2 males and 2 females
Gay male gets 2 males
Gay female gets 2 females

That's what happens when you're less picky. You get more options!


You get more options as a bisexual, sure. But only if the characters are all bisexual as well.


What? No. They can get gay people of the s/s and straight people of the o/s. Thus they end up with more than just o/s or s/s.

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daveliam wrote...

Inquisitor Recon wrote...

daveliam wrote...
Yawn.  We've been through this before and you will never understand because you are always on the receiving end of the benefit.  You get more options so, of course, it's not a problem for you.  There's no purpose in continuing this conversation because you aren't open to hearing the other side of the  argument, which I tried very hard to do the other day.

I'm sorry but "you won't understand because you're one of the privileged" isn't an argument.

First realize that Bioware doesn't owe either of us anything. They don't owe anybody anything in the romance department. So there isn't anything wrong if Fanboy#1 can't bang Mercenary#1. This is the same with FemWarden and Alistair, MaleWarden and Morrigan, etc. Romances if included at all should be left to the discretion of the writers who shouldn't be concerned about some requirement to provide multiple options to everybody in order to satisfy those on the forums here who are downright obsessed with the romances. Notions of "fairness", political correctness and "inclusion" shouldn't factor into this.


Never said they owed us anything.  You are talking about what you think is the most fair, which coincidently gives you more options than others.  I'm simply pointing out that it seems convenient that this is the case.


I reported those two.

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Rawgrim wrote...


You get more options as a bisexual, sure. But only if the characters are all bisexual as well.


I've always said that the most "fair" would be 1 straight, 1 gay, 1 bisexual of each gender.  I just don't think that it's likely for this game.  The hints from Bioware make it sound as if there will be about the same amout of LI's as DA2 (so 4 total) and the romances will be "nuanced" (not sure what that means yet).

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daveliam wrote...

Inquisitor Recon wrote...

daveliam wrote...
Yawn.  We've been through this before and you will never understand because you are always on the receiving end of the benefit.  You get more options so, of course, it's not a problem for you.  There's no purpose in continuing this conversation because you aren't open to hearing the other side of the  argument, which I tried very hard to do the other day.

I'm sorry but "you won't understand because you're one of the privileged" isn't an argument.

First realize that Bioware doesn't owe either of us anything. They don't owe anybody anything in the romance department. So there isn't anything wrong if Fanboy#1 can't bang Mercenary#1. This is the same with FemWarden and Alistair, MaleWarden and Morrigan, etc. Romances if included at all should be left to the discretion of the writers who shouldn't be concerned about some requirement to provide multiple options to everybody in order to satisfy those on the forums here who are downright obsessed with the romances. Notions of "fairness", political correctness and "inclusion" shouldn't factor into this.


Never said they owed us anything.  You are talking about what you think is the most fair, which coincidently gives you more options than others.  I'm simply pointing out that it seems convenient that this is the case.


Those of us who like solid characters in a story gets that taken away though, when our character creation affects the sexuality of the love interests and such. The problem would be exactly the same if characters switched class as well, by the way.

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That is pretty much it, yeah. It sounds kind of regressive, but I don't really think it is, in the context of a roleplaying game where you can choose to play a character wildly different from yourself.

And if that character wildly different from yourself happens to be gay, you get less choice.

If the character wildly different from yourself happens to be straight, you get more.

That seems an extremely lopsided argument to try to make when you have nothing to gain by playing something other than what you are (if we even accept that it's solely "self-insert" for a gay person to want to play a gay character and have access to the same breadth of content while doing so).

Filament wrote...

So you're saying it seems disingenuous to assert there is equality when gay characters have less options, even if the player has the option to play any kind of character? I've admitted that gay characters having less options is an implication here, but I'm trying to speak strictly from the POV of the player themselves, and the options they have. If what you say is an issue, I don't see it being about options so much as representation. Which can also be an issue, yes.

Sure, it's also about representation.

But I don't see any way for a gay person to play a gay character in your scenario where you couldn't just say "you don't have to play gay because you're gay: you have equal choices!"

It's an argument that fundamentally favors the straight character (and therefore the straight player, if we accept "self-insert" as a primary motivation), and tries to abstract the inequality with "gay people can get straight married" logic (it really does seem to fit, sorry). If you want the choices, don't play that way; if you choose to play that way, accept less.

Filament wrote...

That is also about right. Though you were right to say that a player could also choose to play as a gay man, while not being so themselves, and be limited in that character's options just as well, which they may also perceive as "unjust." It's not so much self-insert (though it often seems to be) as it is what we're talking about now, which is character options vs player options.

Yeah, I wanted to go back and modify "self-insert", because I also think it's legitimate for people to have primary characters (some people will always play a female dwarf or a male elf or whatever, and they're not necessarily playing their own gender, and a lot of their requests will be about stuff they'd be able to experience with the character they typically play).

Modifié par devSin, 08 septembre 2013 - 04:57 .


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Inquisitor Recon wrote...

More options = a benefit.

This is a myth. Quality > quantity.

eluvianix wrote...
Self-pity? That ironic coming from the one who has issues with his own self-entitlement.

This entire thread began with some self-pity about the lack of "fairness" in the Mass Effect series and continued to its present state. You want entitlement? Look in the mirror.

sandalisthemaker wrote...
It's good then that Bioware doesn't share your opinion.

It's a shame whenever they share the opinions of a such an unskilled troll like yourself.



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eluvianix wrote...

daveliam wrote...

Inquisitor Recon wrote...

daveliam wrote...
Yawn.  We've been through this before and you will never understand because you are always on the receiving end of the benefit.  You get more options so, of course, it's not a problem for you.  There's no purpose in continuing this conversation because you aren't open to hearing the other side of the  argument, which I tried very hard to do the other day.

I'm sorry but "you won't understand because you're one of the privileged" isn't an argument.

First realize that Bioware doesn't owe either of us anything. They don't owe anybody anything in the romance department. So there isn't anything wrong if Fanboy#1 can't bang Mercenary#1. This is the same with FemWarden and Alistair, MaleWarden and Morrigan, etc. Romances if included at all should be left to the discretion of the writers who shouldn't be concerned about some requirement to provide multiple options to everybody in order to satisfy those on the forums here who are downright obsessed with the romances. Notions of "fairness", political correctness and "inclusion" shouldn't factor into this.


Never said they owed us anything.  You are talking about what you think is the most fair, which coincidently gives you more options than others.  I'm simply pointing out that it seems convenient that this is the case.


I reported those two.


For......?

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daveliam wrote...

eluvianix wrote...

daveliam wrote...

Inquisitor Recon wrote...

daveliam wrote...
Yawn.  We've been through this before and you will never understand because you are always on the receiving end of the benefit.  You get more options so, of course, it's not a problem for you.  There's no purpose in continuing this conversation because you aren't open to hearing the other side of the  argument, which I tried very hard to do the other day.

I'm sorry but "you won't understand because you're one of the privileged" isn't an argument.

First realize that Bioware doesn't owe either of us anything. They don't owe anybody anything in the romance department. So there isn't anything wrong if Fanboy#1 can't bang Mercenary#1. This is the same with FemWarden and Alistair, MaleWarden and Morrigan, etc. Romances if included at all should be left to the discretion of the writers who shouldn't be concerned about some requirement to provide multiple options to everybody in order to satisfy those on the forums here who are downright obsessed with the romances. Notions of "fairness", political correctness and "inclusion" shouldn't factor into this.


Never said they owed us anything.  You are talking about what you think is the most fair, which coincidently gives you more options than others.  I'm simply pointing out that it seems convenient that this is the case.


I reported those two.


For......?

They didnt build that wall in which they should have

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I really hope there isn't an African Islamic Homosexual in this thread. The oppression tbh.

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I reported those two.

Oh how frightening... What crimes am I guilty of herr kommissar?

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daveliam wrote...

eluvianix wrote...

daveliam wrote...

Inquisitor Recon wrote...

daveliam wrote...
Yawn.  We've been through this before and you will never understand because you are always on the receiving end of the benefit.  You get more options so, of course, it's not a problem for you.  There's no purpose in continuing this conversation because you aren't open to hearing the other side of the  argument, which I tried very hard to do the other day.

I'm sorry but "you won't understand because you're one of the privileged" isn't an argument.

First realize that Bioware doesn't owe either of us anything. They don't owe anybody anything in the romance department. So there isn't anything wrong if Fanboy#1 can't bang Mercenary#1. This is the same with FemWarden and Alistair, MaleWarden and Morrigan, etc. Romances if included at all should be left to the discretion of the writers who shouldn't be concerned about some requirement to provide multiple options to everybody in order to satisfy those on the forums here who are downright obsessed with the romances. Notions of "fairness", political correctness and "inclusion" shouldn't factor into this.


Never said they owed us anything.  You are talking about what you think is the most fair, which coincidently gives you more options than others.  I'm simply pointing out that it seems convenient that this is the case.



I reported those two.


For......?

Responded to wrong post. Reported two trolls.