I would say that the romances are a key part of the story of any game that they're in. It's all part of your character, and what you're doing in the game. Did you save the city or let it get destroyed, did you side with the mages or the templars, and who did you romance? It's not any less important than any other decision in the game, and it's more important than most, because it's the most personal. Obviously it's the least important in terms of shaping the world with your decisions, but in terms of defining your character on a personal level, and truly being able to achieve a happy ending (something that everybody except one or two ME3 writers always knew was extremely important, and certainly even they know it now) , being able to have a satisfying romance with the LI of your choice is greatly important. Even in SR4, while the romance options with Kenzie and Anya were essentially satirical in nature, the one with Shandi was a very nice, emotional romantic scene. Obviously it would've been nice if there had been more interaction with all three of those LIs, and with Bioware there obviously always is. That's what makes it so great, saving the world and ending up with the right girl, that's the ultimate goal in any game that has romance options, it makes the game a whole lot more fun. Certainly romances are what put Bioware on the map, BG2 started it all I guess, for me it was KOTOR, the Bastilla romance made KOTOR not a good game, but a great game. Obviously there have been many great romances since then, but the bottom line is that it's an extremely important feature, it always will be, I do agree it doesn't need tremendous 'time' spent on it per se, because it's just dialogue, and that's easy enough to do with minimal effort and resources (obviously love scenes require more effort, but I wouldn't mind if they just used the KOTOR and SR4 approach and did fade to black, if the alternative is the relatively poor love scenes they've been doing lately, love scenes aren't the key to a romance, the dialogue is). So long as it's deep, emotional, and meaningful, that's all that matters.