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3) And yet, Kaiden is willing to accept his mistakes and move on, rather then just try to ignore it. He accepts that you had justification for leaving him if you started a new relationship. He admits that he reacted badly on Horizon and that it was a mistake to not trust you. Ashley never once confronts the fact that she screwed up, making excuses. Kaiden ismature enough to be willing to take repsoncibility for his mistake, while Ashley can't swallow her pride and face up to what happened on Horizon.
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Ashley apologies for her reaction on Horizon in the
e-mail she sent.
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Again,
that's only if you romanced her. With Kaiden, you
don't have to romance him to have him fess up to having overreacted on Horizon. That e-mail is invalid because it doesn't excuse how she acts if she isn't romanced. Kaiden apologizes and owns up to his mistakes regardless of if you romancd him or not. Ashley is solely dependant on if you romanced her.
Again, point to Kaiden in my book -- when he makes a mistake, he owns up to it.
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Wait, she needs an "excuse" when unromanced? She's supposed to apologise for not trusting Shep when he's resurrected from the dead by a terrorist organization that they fought against in the previous game? That's just silly. Her reaction was perfectly reasonable, if not welcome. I'd only expect a apology if she was romanced. Otherwise its water under the bridge.
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Kaiden did. Ashley refused to admit that she might be even the slightest bit in the wrong -- she turned her heal on you when she was
surrounded by proof that Shepard was right. But apperantly, looking back in hindsight at the colony full of dead Collectors and the husks they were using as shock troopers wasn't enough evidence to consider she overreacted and misjudged Shepard. I mean, it was for Kaiden.
Seriously, I'd think that when you turn your back on the person who saved your life,
while surrounded by evidence that they're telling the truth, and call them a Traitor to their face, the logical thing to do is apologize. Not make up excuses. Kaiden did the mature thing -- he owned up to his mistakes. Ashley just couldn't swallow her pride and admit that she was wrong about Shepard.
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The only evidence on Horizon is that Shep saved Ashley's and half the colonists' lives. That's not evidence that Shepard can be trusted. Besides, she was right. Cerberus leaked information to manipulate the Alliance into planting her or Kaiden out there to attract to Collectors to the colony so Shepard could further his investigation. Cerberus was partially responsible for the attack.
Also, could you be more specific on the "excuses" Ashley made? I'm pretty sure if she talking about it at all she just gave a reason why she acted as she did.
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The evidence is that the Collectors had Husks with them, and of course there was the testimony from the colonists who Harbingr spoke to. It's even in the Codex that the survivors remember being spoken to by an entity that called itself "Harbinger." The fact that Shepard saved the Colony, and the fact that Garrus, (and later on Tali), as well as multiple
non-human races working with him despite Cerberus's xenophobic beliefs, should be more then proof enough for
anyone that Shepard is on the level. And looking back at it on hindsight, Kaiden realizes that and admits it, saying he was wrong to not trust Shepard.
And being the Terminus colony with the highest population in the area, Horizon was always at risk anyway.
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That is not evidence that Shepard or Cerberus can be trusted, or that Shepard is not being manipulated. It is evidence that they have a common enemy.
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Ashley attributed her beahvior to the Cerberus ties -- she never once states that she overreacted or that she made a mistake, and says she was perfectly justified in her beliefs. Kaiden does the opposite -- he admits that he knew Shepard better then that and overreacted from the shock of seeing Shepard with Cerberus two years after the Commander was supposedly killed.
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Which conversation are you talking about? In the hospital, if Ashley was romanced I heard "I was angry" , but in that case she had sent the apologetic letter. Otherwise, the only thing I heard was something like, "Are you still with Cerberus?" to which the answer was "No" on Mars.
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And the testimony of Garrus, and later on Tali and Liara, plus Anderson, doesn't account for anything? There was plenty of evidence that Shepard could be trusted -- it was all just ignored. And later on, Kaiden admits that he let his emotions get the better of him and apologizes for it. Ashley doesn't.
In the Hospital -- with a non-romanced Ash. And in all that, both romanced and non-romanced, it's the same -- she never admits that whe was at fault for it. Never admits to you in person that she went too far. Kaiden at least had the guts to fess up to being wrong. Ash won't.
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How is it "just ignored" if Ashley trusts Shepard enough to work with him in ME3?
As far as your expectation that she apologize in-game in-person as opposed to simply saying "couldn't face you" (which is practically the same as Kaiden saying "I was wrong"), honestly, it just seems like a needlessly specific requirement, especially when the conversation prompts are written so Shepard can ask Kaiden to actually address Horizon in a much more substantial way.
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Because at first she has
no choice? There isn't much option to avoid working with Shepard for the Mars mission. and
again, you're argueing a pointless statistic --
both choose to work with him/her after the Cerberus Coup, but only Kaiden makes it undeniably clear that he won't ever doubt Shepard anymore. Ash just signs on like it's entitled, Kaiden signs on like he feels he doesn't desrve it -- he's more humble then Ash is.
No, it is not the same -- It's still making up excuses. She couldn't come out and say she was wrong. And if it lead to a break-up, she will be more angry and less understanding then Kaiden would. Kaiden will acknowledge that if Shepard leaves him, he feels he deserved that after Horizon. Ash will act like she didn't even consider what happened on Horizon affecting their relationship. Why don't you try watching the two scenes back-to-back sometime? Kaiden comes of as more thoughtful then Ashley does - that's not "needlessly spicific," that a simple baseline comparison. And that's because Kaiden
will acknowledge his faults and his failing at Horizon while Ashley will dance around the issue without ever directly confronting it.