Gwydden wrote...
Ailith430 wrote...
Okay, I worded that badly, but I was saying I didn't roleplay myself, as in I don't associate myself with the character.
I am the same way. I never really insert myself as the character, I make them their own person, as if I were writing a protagonist for a novel.
I believe we may be having a problem with semantics here. When I say I roleplay, I mean I create a character and see what he/she does when thrown into the story. What I don't do is make a character who is essentialy myself. That's why I don't see the reason any man doing something similar might feel uncomfortable with a female PC, when they can like female characters in novels just fine.
Re: That's exactly what I was saying when I said I didn't roleplay myself. I think you read it as "I don't roleplay, myself." It was just a clunky way of saying that none of my characters were self-inserts, or fantasy versions of myself.
I think there's probably a fundamental difference at play between men and women when trying to identify with characters gendered different from themselves. At the risk of incurring the wrath of those who hate it when anyone tries to discuss disparities between different classes of people, I'll just go ahead and lay it out there, per the PM discussion I was just having: women have a long, long history of having to suck it up and play games with male PCs and no opportunity to play something else, just as until relatively recently our fantasy and adventure fiction was nearly exclusively dominated by male PCs. If we wanted to play video games, or wanted to read certain genres of fiction, we had to read about male protagonists, full stop.
It's exactly the same problem with the publishing industry's obstinance in regards to PoC characters and authors: It staunchly believes that white people won't be interested in those books. Yet it was taken for granted that people of color themselves had no issues reading about white characters by white authors. Either there's an errant belief here that PoC persons don't read, or an assumption about white people's mental capabilities, the implications of which would be hilarious if they weren't so sad.
So, yes. I can see why a person would not be able to relate to playing a fundamentally different person from themselves. But I think the reasons for that inability are entirely different, related to the way different groups of people experience the world of privilege.